"Hayi, kwakhona, ukuchithwa kwamanzi kuye kwachithwa" - indoda iya kuthi kumntu wakhethayo, oye waphala kwakhona ngezinyembezi, ngokucacileyo ngenxa yesizathu esicacileyo. Yingakho abasetyhini belila, kwaye amadoda awancipha nje apha? Usenokucinga ukuba senza iinyembezi ngenxa yokuzonwabisa kwethu! "Owesifazane oqinileyo uyakhala ewindow" - ngoko xa wahlabelela A. Pugacheva. Kwaye sasivame ukujonga iinyembezi njengobonakaliso obuthathaka, kodwa ngaba kunjalo njalo?
Kutheni abafazi bekhala?
- Ukususela ebuntwaneni siye sava isibonelelo sokukhala, ukuba kukho into embi eyenzekayo, kubonakala kulula emva koko. Kwaye kuyinyaniso, emva kokuphuma kwezinyembezi, ukusuka emphefumulweni njengokungathi inxalenye yomthwalo isuswe. Isenzo esinjalo sezinyembezi sifana nesimo se-physiologically-kunye kunye namaqabunga e-hormone exinzelelekileyo, ekhutshwa phantsi kokuphazamiseka okukhulu kweentlobo ezahlukeneyo. Yingakho abasetyhini bekhala ngenxa yosizi novuyo.
- Eli bhinqa liyalila ngamandla ... Ewe, kwinto oye wacinga ukuba le ntokazi iyakhala ngenxa yokuba kuye kwenzeka into ebalulekileyo kuye! Naluphi na okufanayo, abafazi banokukhala ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukileyo, kunye nokukhathazeka kuloo nto. Uhlobo lwesini esilungileyo ngokwemvelo lubuhlungu kakhulu. Ngoko wayala ukuba umfazi ungumgcini wekhaya, elixhalabisa ngomyeni wakhe nabantwana, akukho nto inokumshiya engenandaba. Yaye ukuba umntu eqoqa ngokukhawuleza i-shards yombumbi ophukileyo kunye nama-violets aze alahle udoti kunye namaqabunga aqhekekileyo, loo ntokazi iya kuba nakho ngenxa yobuncinane.
- Kutheni abafazi bekhala, kwaye abantu abakwazi ukuqonda isizathu? Kwaye kuba abafazi banehomoni yeprolactin, enoxanduva lokunikezelwa kwezinyembezi. Kwamadoda, kukho i-testosterone, engavumelekanga ukuqokelela ukusila.
- Abasetyhini abanamandla bayakhala. Uyazi ukuba kutheni? Ngenxa yokuba ngamnye umfazi unamandla kangangokuba akukho mdlali owake waphupha. Kulula nje, eli gunya linomntu ohlukileyo, isiseko salo sisekudalweni. Yaye xa kungekho nto yokwakha, kunye nomnqweno njengoko ufuna, amandla angasebenziyo aphuma ngezinyembezi.
- Kwaye umfazi oqinileyo uyakhala, efuna ukuvumela umntu okhunileyo ukuba azi iphutha lakhe. Ukuphikisana nokufungela ngesidalwa esingasentla, sinzima kwaye sinamandla kunokuba ungenalusizo, kodwa ukulila, unokumenza acinge. Kuphela ukusetyenziswa kakubi akuyimfuneko - akukho mntu uya kuba neinyembezi zokulila.
Njengoko sibona iinyembezi - oku akusibuthakathaka, kodwa enye indlela enamandla yokukhusela evumela ukuba ungadabuki kwizinto ezivelele kwiintsuku ezahlukeneyo zobomi.