Iqabane lide lide liphuma kwifestile, kodwa abanye abantu abayiqondi le nkxalabo, bakholelwa ukuba ukuhlazisa umxhatshazo kunye nokuxhaphazwa yindlela eqinisekileyo yokubonisa ubungangamsha babo. Kodwa kwabo bafuna ukuphumelela kunoma yiphina ingxabano , kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu ukufunda indlela yokubeka umntu endaweni ngamagama ahlakaniphile. Ngaloo ndlela, unako ukuphakamisa igunya lakho emehlweni abanye.
Indlela yokubeka umntu ngamagama ahlakaniphile?
Ukuze ubeke umntu endaweni, okokuqala kufuneka uqokelele isigama esilungileyo. Yaye ininzi yayo kufuneka ibe yintetho yesayensi okanye amagama angaphelelwe yisikhathi. Umnxibelelwano ongenalwazi uya kuziqonda ukusuka kwisihlanu ukuya kweshumi kwaye ngokukhawuleza azive ekhululekile, engazi into ayithethayo. Futhi kwisitoreji samazwi ahlakaniphile unendlela eyodwa kuphela - ukuqala ukufunda iincwadi ezilungileyo, ezifanelekileyo.
Yimaphi amabinzana angasetyenziswa ukubeka umntu kwindawo yawo?
Ukubonisa ukubetha izandi, amabinzana asemgangathweni, apho amanye amagama aqhelekileyo athatyathwa ngamanqanaba aphantsi, nawo afanelekileyo. Umzekelo, endaweni yesigama esithi "Ndiyagula kuwe," unokuthi "uhlobo lwenu lubangela i-peristalsis syndrome," kwaye esikhundleni sokuba "andinakukhathalela" uthi "andinandaba namaqondo akho."
Abo bafuna ukuqonda indlela yokubeka umntu endaweni ngamagama ahlakaniphile baya kufumana amabinzana afanelekileyo anemifanekiso enamaphiko okanye iifri. Unokwazi ukufunda iibinzana ezinjalo kwiilwimi zasekuqaleni - isiLatini. Umzekelo, umntu osebenza naye ohlala ehlaziya, unokuthi "u-Asinus gloriosus", oku kuthetha ukuba "ithabhu eliqhayisa". Kwaye xa umntu eqala ukubuza ukuba kuthetha ukuthini, ukugxeka amagama athi: "Ingqondo enjalo njengoko ungayazi? Yeka indlela edidekayo ngayo! Funda inkosikazi yesiLatini! ". Okuqinisekisiwe ukubeka endaweni yeyona nkxalabo.