Ukuba umbuzo wendlela yokwandisa ulutsha lwabo nokubukeka umncinci kuneminyaka yobudala iya kuba yongxamiseko kwabasetyhini abangaphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu, isihloko sokubheka ukudala kubaluleke kakhulu kumantombazana eneminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu ukuya kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini anesihlanu ubudala. Kuyinto inqabileyo xa umfazi ekwazi ukudibanisa kunye nobudala bakhe. Ekuqaleni ndifuna ukukhula ngakumbi, ndikhule, kwaye ndifuna ukubuyela ebusheni bam. Kuyinto yemvelo kunoma yimuphi umntu. Kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba abathathu bakho basasaza kwaye akudingeki ukuba balwele phambili kwexesha. Nangona kunjalo, makhe sijonge indlela intombazana ekhangele ngayo, kwaye oko kufuneka kwenziwe ukwenjenjalo.
Indlela yokwenza ukhangele?
Ukwenzelwa ngumncedisi wokuqala kwintombazana nanini na. Ngoxa uncedo lwezonyakatho ungadala nayiphi na imifanekiso, kwaye utshintshe iminyaka yakho. Ubungqina ukuze ubuke budala bulula kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa amathoni amnyama kunye azalisiweyo. Ngokomzekelo, i-shade yembala emdaka, emigqabini kunye emnyama, kwaye ukulungiselela ukuhlwa ungathatha i-violet okanye i-shades eluhlaza. Inketho enkulu kakhulu yindlela yokwenza umonakalo wamehlo aphuzayo , okungabonakali nje ngokugqithisileyo, kodwa kwongezelela nakumantombazana amade. Shine kunye ne-lipstick kufuneka kukhethwe phakathi kwe-brown kunye ne-caramel shades, kodwa umbala obaluleke kakhulu kwi-arsenal yakho ibomvu. I-lipstick ebomvu ifanelekile kubo bonke abantombazana, kubalulekile kuphela ukuba ukhethe "umthunzi wakho" ngokuchanekileyo. Kwaye nomfanekiso wowesifazane umvampu, obangelwa kulo mbala ekwenzeni, uya kunika umfanekiso wakho ngumntu omdala ngesondo.
Kwakhona, qwa lasele iimehlo zakho. Ukunyamekela ngokunyamezela iinwele kunye nokulungisa imo ngokuchanekileyo ukuze ihambelane nohlobo lobuso bakho. Kwakhona ubeke ingqalelo kwesikhumba, njengoko kubonakalisa iminyaka yobudala kungekudala kuphela, kodwa nangobutsha.
Ukugqoka ukujonga njani?
Ukuba ufuna ukukhangela, ungakulibala njani ngempahla? Enyanisweni, yikho isalathisi sokuqala sakho. Ngako oko, vumela zonke iintlobo zee-T-shirts kunye neejhe (zishiye ngeeveki kwaye uhambe) kwaye usebenzise isitayela seklasi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, isitayela esinesigqila kwisambatho sinemigaqo emininzi, enye enokuyikhetha. Umzekelo, ubuhle okanye ubuncinci, okanye unokongeza umkhosi omncinane kumfanekiso. Yonke into yakho, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu - jonga umfazi kunye nenhle. Kwiigrafti zakho kufuneka zibe yimikhono, iipeniti zesiketi, iebhatyi kunye neentlanzi, kwaye kwakhona-uncedisayo wowesifazane ngamnye - ingubo emnyama emnyama.
Indlela yokusika iinwele zakho ukuba zibukeke zikhulile?
Sathetha ngezinto ezininzi ezifunekayo ukuba zibukeke zikhulile, kodwa kukho enye into ebalulekileyo - inwele yeenwele. Ukuba unwele iinwele ezinde, iindlovu zothando okanye ezinye izicathulo zeenwele ze-punk ezimangalisayo, kuya kufuneka ubenike. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abafazi abadala bahamba neenyawo ezide, ezikhululekile, kodwa sele sele zifikelele kwiiminyaka zabo kunye neentsimbi zokuvalela ababenzi zenzeke ngathi zibukeka njengezikolo. Kodwa kufuneka uzame okufutshane.
Ukuba ufuna ukukhangela, khula ingqalelo ekunqunyeni kwesikwere kunye nokuhluka kwayo, kunye neendlela ze-styles ezifutshane. Le ndlela yokugqibela, ngendlela, ngokuqhelekileyo ibe nepropathi yokuvuselela ubuso, kodwa ekuncinane ukukhethwa kweenwele ezifutshane ezikhethiweyo kunokunongeza iminyaka.
Uziphatha njani ukuba ukhange ubudala kuneminyaka yakho?
Yaye into yokugqibela akufanele uyilibale imilinganiselo yokuziphatha. Funda imigaqo yentle efanelekileyo kwaye uhlale uwalandela. Hlala uhloniphekile, ukhiye ophantsi, ulunge. Musa ukuphakamisa ilizwi lakho, ungabi lixesha, ungagcini kakhulu ngexesha lendibano. Kukho imithetho emininzi, kwaye uzama ukubambelela kubo bonke, ukuba ubuke nje kungekudala nje ngaphandle, kodwa ngaphakathi ngaphakathi uzive njengendodakazi.
Ngoko siqikelele indlela yokubukeka sikhulile kunaminyaka yethu. Lo msebenzi awunzima kakhulu, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba usebenze kuwo. Kanti ungayikhohlwa malunga neyona nto ebalulekileyo: ekugqibeleni ubudala bakho buya kubamba, ngoko ke uvuyo ngoku wakho kwiminyaka emincinane, ngenxa yoko ufuna ukuyibuyisela, kodwa ayiyi kusebenza.
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