Iiklabhu zomdaniso kubantwana

Mhlawumbi, akukho mntwana omnye ongafuni ukudansa, kuba kumdaniso awukwazi nje ukuzityhila, kodwa unokufumana ithuba lokuchitha ixesha ngokunyanisekileyo, ngaphandle kokungekho umntu okhulayo onokuyenza. Amacandelo omdaniso kubantwana ayenziwa ngokugqithiseleyo unyaka nonyaka ngokuchanekileyo kwesi sizathu. Ukongezelela, oomama kunye nabantwana abanenkathalo bafuna ukunika umntwana ithuba lokubandakanya into eyoyikhuphula ngokubaluleka, yenza ukuba bathuthuke emva kokuhlala ixesha elide kwidesksi yesikolo okanye ikhomputer.

Imijelo yomdaniso kubantwana: yintoni ongayikhetha?

Kuyaziwa ukuba unokuqala nanoma yiluphi uhlobo lomdaniso: ukusuka kubantu ukuya kutsho, ngokuba kwinqanaba lokuqala kukho umsebenzi wokufunda isiseko solu hlobo lwesimo, funda ukubamba izandla, intloko, ukulawula umzimba wonke. Oku kungafundiswa kunaliphi na icandelo. Nangona kunjalo, emva kwexesha kunokufika ixesha xa inkwenkwe okanye intombazana ifuna ukukhula ngakumbi, ukufunda into entsha. Ngelo xesha ufuna ukucinga ngokucokisekileyo malunga nesimo sesangqa, apho ungafunda khona:

Inkqubo yomjikelo womdaniso kubantwana yinto enokufuneka uyihlawule ngokukhethekileyo ukuba ubone ukuba kuya kuba mnandi kumntwana. Utitshala onolwazi uya kubeka okokuqala kwisicelo somzali. Ukongezelela, sifuna ukwazi ngakumbi ngokubanzi abantwana abaphantsi kohlohlo lwayo kwinqanaba lemfundo, izinga lokulungelelanisa, isimo sobuchwepheshe, impumelelo kunye nolunye ulwazi oluya kunceda ukwenza uluvo lwenjongo luya kufundiswa. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu, kuba lo mntu uya kumnxibelelana nomntwana, kungekhona nje ukuba asebenzise impembelelo yemfundo kuye, kodwa ukuba abe ngumzekelo wodwa.

Umdaniso wokudanisa abantwana: iyintoni na ukuyisebenzisa?

Iiklasi zokudansa ezidume ngokukhethekileyo kubantwana phakathi kwabo bazali abanamancinci amancinci. Kumantombazana, le mi sebenzi inceda ekufumaneni ukuhamba kakuhle, kuba ngaphezulu kweplastiki, inhle, ukuzithemba, ukulawula ubunzima bakho, ukuqeqesha imisipha yakho. Abafana kunye noomama kunye nabantwana babo bavame ukukhetha olu lathiso lokuzilibazisa, njengoko kungekude ixesha apho kuyakufuneka ukuba unqobe amantombazana kumgangatho wokudanisa.

Izifundo ezinjalo zi luncedo kuba zivumela ukuba inkwenkwe okanye intombazana ivule, baphuma kwilizwe labo elincinci, baxelele ukuba khona kwabo, ukuba bayeke amahloni ngabanye abantwana kunye nabantu abadala. Ukufudukela kumculo nakwiqela labanye abantwana, nabani na oya kulibala ngokuzikhethela ngezinye iinguqu, ukungaqiniseki. Oku kubonakala ngokugqithisileyo emva kokubonakala kowesidlangalaleni, eziqhelekileyo zenziwa kwizikolo ezinzulu, ezijolise ekusebenziseni iiklasi kuphela, kodwa nokuthatha inxaxheba kwimincintiswano emidanso yokuncintisana.