Namhlanje, nokuba umntwana oneminyaka elishumi asemangalisekanga ngeefake ezingavumelekanga, amanani ahlukeneyo kunye neengoma ezivela kwibhaluni. Kuthekani ukuba intombazana inomhla wokuzalwa kungekudala okanye ngabahlobo bakhe bathetha ukuchitha ixesha kunye ngokumangalisayo? Ayikho imbono embi kumalungu asekhaya okanye esikolweni - oku kumnandi kwimincintiswano yabaselula, apho wonke umntu unokuthatha inxaxheba. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokwenza njengomququzeleli, sinika umdlalo (okanye upholile, njengesiko kubantwana besikolo) imincintiswano kubantwana abaselula abaphakamisa isimo sengqondo senkampani yonke.
Masibe nemihlali?
- UFaro . Ekupheleni kwalo mncintiswano wokuzonwabisa oonwabo wonke umntu uya kumemeza, nangona abafana abaselula. Ngoko, "ixhoba" kufuneka lithathwe ngaphandle kwegumbi, kwaye okwangoku omnye wabafana balala phantsi kwesofa kwaye wenza ngathi ungumama. "Ixhoba" libonwe ngumbumbano kwaye limele lifumane inxalenye yomzimba ekhoyo. "Iinyawo zikaFaro, amahlombe kaFaro, izandla zikaFaro", kwaye xa zifika entloko, ngoko kanye negama elithi "ubuchopho bharahara" kufuneka ukhawuleze udibanise i-pan "ixhoba" apho i-pasta ebilisiwe ifakwe nge ketchup. Ukuphendula kuya kukuzonwabisa wonke umntu!
- "Hercules" . Udinga ezimbini i-sweaters kunye namabhaloni amaninzi. Sakha amaqela amaninzi, afaka omnye umntu kunye namantombazana amabini okanye abathathu. Kwimizuzu emithathu, amantombazana kufuneka ahlaziye abafana bawo. Le nsizwa, eyavela ekubeni iyona mizimba, iyakuba ngumqhubi. Ukugqwesa kwintsebenzo emnandi yabaselula kukuba iibhola zinepropati eziqhekezayo ...
- "Udweba entloko . " Sidinga amakhredithi e-albhamu kunye nabamakishi. Abathathi-nxaxheba bafaka iphepha kwiintloko zabo kwaye badonsa oko umbonisi ofuna. Ndikholelwe, ezi "mveliso" ziza kukuhleka imizuzu emihlanu!
- Izinyo elimnandi . Kwinqanaba le-tshokoleta elixhomekeke kumda we-2-3 mitha. I-tshokoleti idinga kakhulu njengabaselula abafuna ukuthatha inxaxheba kumncintiswano. Umnqobi uya kuba nguye othobayo, ngokuqinisekileyo, engagxinyi, intambo yakhe (ngaphandle kwezandla!) Ngokukhawuleza kunabanye. Umvuzo ngokwawo uya kuba yiphokoleta!
- "IKoir engathandekiyo . " "Isibingelelo" sishiya kwigumbi, kwaye abathathi-nxaxheba abambalwa benza umgca ovela kwingoma eyaziwayo, nokuba kunjalo, ngamnye ukhumbula igama elinye kulo. Kwaye kuyimfuneko ukulibetha kanyekanye. "Isibingelelo" siya kuba namaxesha anzima, kodwa kufuneka uqagele ingoma ...
- "Utyunjwe . " Inani labathathi-nxaxheba kule mpikiswano ehlekisayo yentsholongwane ayikhawulelwanga. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba kukho ubuncinane babesithupha (amaqela amabini ubuncinane abantu abathathu). Bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kwelinye iqela liboshwe ngephepha langasese, njengokungathi "bahlanganiswe ngethungelwano". Kule fom kufuneka bafike ekugqibeleni ngokukhawuleza. Kule meko, iphepha kufuneka lihlale lihambelana.
- "Ndiphi na?" Ngaphambi koko, kufuneka silungiselele amacwecwe amaninzi apho kubhalwe khona indawo ethile (indawo yokuhlambela, indawo, imarike, indlu yangasese - nantoni na!). abathathi-nxaxheba bafaka isihlalo kunye nomqolo wabo kubaphulaphuli. Iifayile yegama elifanelekileyo iqhotyoshelwe kwisihlalo ukuze inxaxheba ayiboni. Kwaye ke wonke umntu ehleli kwiitrone uyabuzwa imibuzo ehlukeneyo: kutheni uye waya khona? Yintoni oyenzayo apho? Yintoni eyenzekayo apho? Kwaye njalo.
Iimpendulo eziza kunikwa ngabathathi-nxaxheba bokhuphiswano ziya kuba neengqondo ezintle kubantu abakhoyo.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula
Yaye makuncede ukhuphiswano lwamakhwenkethi anesicaciso, isipho esincinci (iifomthi okanye iimkhumbuzo) kuba abaphumeleleyo baya kufuneka babe nokuthanda kwabo. Kwaye kungcono, ukuba izipho ezingakhohlwayo zifikelela kubo bonke abakhoyo. Abaselula bangabantwana abavakalelwa kukuba babe ngabantu abadala, kodwa abahlali becinga ngokhuseleko lwabo, ngoko yibani nesilumkiso. Ngokukodwa xa ukuphela kweqela kufuneka kube ngumlilo.