Wonke umama uyazi: musa ukujongana nokuthintela ukubandayo kubantwana, kwaye yena, oku kubanda kakhulu, kubantwana akwenzeki. Kutheni? Kutheni, akunakwenzeka ukubeka umntwana ekhaya kwaye ushiye ngaphandle kokuthetha noontanga, ngaphandle kokutyelela i-kindergarten okanye isikolo. Kwaye nangona uhlale ulungele ukunceda unina noogogo, akusiyo into yokuba nabo, njengawe, abayi kugula baze bazise isifo ekhaya. Kwaye kungathini kulo mzekelo ukuba ungayichenganga umntwana ngengqele? Emva koko, ukuba uthini, ngokuqhelekileyo kubanda kakhulu sithetha i-ARAL. Ukungaphumeleli kwamagada amabhondi kuthetha ixesha elide kwaye kuninzi, ukwenzela ukuba, ngaphezu kokuthintela ukubandisa kubantwana, akukho nto isakhiwe okwamanje.
Indlela yokukhusela umntwana kubanda? Mhlawumbi wonke umama uyazi ukuba nomvakalelo ongathandekiyo ovela xa ekhokela umntwana ophilileyo kwi-kindergarten, kwaye ecaleni kwakhe ebhentshini, umntwana okhuselekileyo enekhathele, amehlo agula angagqithwanga. Ukuqala kweqanda eliqhelekileyo, kwaye, ngokutsho kootitshala, umntwana unesiqinisekiso sokuthi unempilweni. Le nto yayinyamekelwa ngumama, yaye ngokuqinisekileyo unesizathu esiyi-1000 sokuba kube ngolu suku emsebenzini, kodwa kuthi into eyona nto yindlela yokukhusela umntwana wakhe ebusweni.
Impawu yokuqala zokubanda emntwaneni emva kokudibana nesigulane, njengomthetho, akunakulindela ixesha elide. Iimpawu zokubanda kubantwana zibonakaliswa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: umntu unomphumo wempumlo ngokukhawuleza, umntu ukhononda ngomqala. Kodwa naziphi na izinto - kukukhathazeka, ubuthathaka, ukungabi nesidlo. Kwaye kubanda kubantwana abancinci kufuneka ukuba baphathwe ngumntwana wezingane.
Uninzi unina ohluphekayo ngenxa yokubanda komntwana enomona ngaba bazali abanomntwana okhukhulayo kunye nomntwana okhwehlelayo ogulayo, kungekhona umkhuhlane. Kodwa oogqirha bakholelwa ukuba ukushisa okuphezulu kumntwana onobanda kubulungile, kwaye kunconywa ukuba ungqongqo phantsi kuphela xa uhlala ngaphezu kwe-39 ° okanye ubekezeleleke. Yiyo indlela umzimba olwa ngayo intsholongwane ngempumelelo.
Yaye ukuba ubanda kubantwana buba ngumkhuhlane? Ewe, sonke siyakhumbula ngeepardard plasters, ukuxubha kunye nezinye iinkqubo ukuba ugqirha akayi kubhala kumntwana, kodwa ngubani, nangona kunjalo, siyicinga ukuba ngumsebenzi wethu wokwenza umntwana ogulayo. Namhlanje, kukho iingcamango ezininzi malunga nokuphumelela kwezi mpi. Kodwa yintoni kanye okufuneka ukuba wazi ukuba ngexesha elimangalisayo xa umntwana eqala nje ukubandayo, iinkqubo eziphazamisayo azisebenzisekanga, kwaye kwaneeshushu eziphezulu ziyingozi. Okubaluleke ngakumbi kukusela okuphambili kunye nokuphumla kombhede. Ukuba indlebe yomntwana ibuhlungu, ingakumbi ungamgijimali ukwenza ukufudumala kweendawo zitshintshile - zikhona iintlobo ze-otitis, apho ukufudumeza phantsi komyalelo wokuthintela. Ngenyameko enkulu, kwakhona yenza iinkqubo ezinxulumene nomngcipheko wokutshisa - amathanga, i-steam inhalations, amabhati ashushu ezinyawo.
Ingaba umntwana uhlala ebanda? Ngoko kufuneka ubencitshiswe ukutyelela kwiindawo ezininzi. Endaweni yokuhamba ngezothutho zoluntu, hamba. Qinisekisa ukubonelela ngomoya ophelileyo kwindlu yabantwana, kwaye kwixesha elibandayo lihlala livuselela. Ukuba umoya ekamelweni lidlulile ngenxa yee-heaters, sebenzisa i-humidifier okanye ubuncinci nje ukuxhoma ithawula emanzi kwibhetri. Gcina i-microclimate esemgangathweni endlwini, thabatha ukuhamba komntwana ngokuthe gqolo, ungayifaki, uhamba nayo ngaphandle, unike iivithamini zendalo ngendlela yemveliso yemvelo - le migaqo elula yokuthintela ukubandisa kubantwana.
Ixesha liya kudlula, umntwana uya kukhula, kwaye ezinye iingxaki ziza kuqala, endaweni yokubanda kubantwana. Leli xesha elibi elihambelana neqanda lokubanda kumntwana wakho liya kudlula. Into ephambili ayikukukhubaza ngokunyamekela okunzulu, kungekhona ukukhula kuyo "isityalo sokutsalwa kwetroferensi", ukwesaba nanoma yiyiphi into edibeneyo kufuphi, ukhohliwe indlela yokunxibelelana kunye nokukholisa ubomi obusebenzayo. Musa ukulibala ukuba iindawo ezibandayo kubantwana - kungakhathaliseki ukuba kubi, kodwa nje kwinqanaba lesigxina ekubunjweni komzimba.