I-NLP okanye iprogram ye-neurolinguistic isihloko sengqondo ebonakalayo ekujoliswe ekuphuhliseni ubuchule kunye nobuchule bokuthonya omnye umntu.
Indlela yokuchasana kwabantu kwi-NLP iye yaqwalaselwa ngexesha lethu njengendlela yokusebenzisa omnye umntu, kodwa, ngokwenene, le mfundiso ibonakala njengendlela yokwandisa ukusebenza kwempembelelo yonyango.
Abaninzi baya kubuza malunga necala lokuziphatha kwezi ndlela zempembelelo. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokusebenzisa iindlela ze- NLP ukuphucula ukuphumelela kwentetho yakho okanye kwingxoxo. Ngexesha elifanayo, ukuba ngaba ngokwenene ugxininisa ukuphazamisa omnye umntu, ngoko ke izenzo ezinjalo, akunjalo, akukho zizathu.
Iindlela ze-NLP zokuPhatha
Inkqubo "ngumgibe wegalelo . " Ukugqithiswa ngokubanzi kwale nkqubo kubangelwe ukusebenza kwayo. Ukuba unyanzela umntu ukuba atyale amandla akhe kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi, kuya kuba nzima kuye (kunye neengxabano ezinengqiqo) uze ushiye le khokelo.
Inkqubo yezinto ezintathu "ewe . " Buza imibuzo embalwa kumntu ekufuneka aphendule kuyo. Bese ubuze ngokukhawuleza umbuzo onokuthanda ukufumana impendulo enokuthi, kwaye kukho ithuba eliphezulu lokuba uya kufumana imvume.
Inkqubo "yenyaniso edibeneyo" . Abantu abaninzi bayisebenzisa kuphela kwinqanaba le-intuitive. Sebenzisa entetho yakho njengezo zinto, inyaniso elula ukuyiqinisekisa okanye sele isaziwa wonke umntu. Ngexesha elifanayo, unokongeza kancane kancane amaqiniso amancinci angabonakaliyo, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, aya kuthatyathwa.
Ukuba ulungelelanisa nokuziphatha komnye umntu, kuya kuba nempembelelo emihle kwinto yokuba lo mntu uya kuvakalelwa ngakumbi kuwe.
Izindlela zokuthetha zempembelelo
Ukukhawuleza ukungena kwithemba, incoko kufuneka iqalise ngenye inyaniso yenyaniso engenamdla, apho umntu kufuneka avume ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuxelela umntu malunga nesenzo, musa ukuthetha ngale nyathelo ngokuthe ngqo, kodwa udibanise nento into eya kuyenza kwikamva. Ngokomzekelo, umntwana unokuthi xa ehamba, makamthathe udoti.
Masisoloko sithetha kunye nokukhohlisa. Umbuzo omele ufumane imvume ukuwusebenzisa njengokungathi umdibaniselwano uphendule kakade kwi-affirmative. Buza kwakhona malunga neengxaki ezingabalulekanga, isisombululo ongazikhathalele ngokwenene.
Ukuze uxoxe ngomzuzu ongathandeki kwisangqa, vimba ukubuyela kwesi sihloko. Yithi into echazwe ngokupheleleyo, kwaye ingxoxo yayo ibambezela nje ingxoxo.
Imithetho yeThekhnoloji ye-NLP iziphumo kubantu
Kuhlala kulungele ukukhumbula imigaqo ethile ebalulekileyo ebalulekileyo ekuqondeni ubuntu bomntu.
Ngoko, umntu unayo yonke imithombo eyimfuneko ukufezekisa injongo . Ngomnqweno oqinileyo kunye nokunyamezela, unokukwazi ukufezekisa into nakwiyokuqala kokuzama. Naluphina unxibelelwano lukhokelela ekuqhubekeni kwenani lezinye iindlela ezizayo. Wonke umntu unembopheleleko yesiphumo sezenzo zabo. Umntu uhlala ezama ukukhetha enye indlela engcono.
Xa sifunda iindlela ze-NLP zempembelelo kunye nokukhuselwa, kunye nokulawulwa kwabantu, kubalulekile ukuba ingqalelo ingqalelo kuphela kwiindlela, kodwa nakwiengqondo zendlela yokuziphatha komnye umntu. Thatha ixesha elaneleyo lokuqonda isistim sezenzo zamdlali, kwaye uya kuqonda indlela yokusebenza ngayo.