Ukuzibonakalisa komntu kuyimfuneko yendalo yomntu, into ehambelana nayo yonke into. Nangona uluntu lwangoku luhlala lusishukumisela kwimida ethile kwaye lusishukumisela ukuba lube uhlobo oluthile lokuziphatha kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kwaneempahla kunye nembonakalo, umntu ngamnye ufuna ukufumana ixesha lokuba ngokwakhe. Indlela yokuziphatha eyunivesithi okanye emsebenzini yinto enye, kwaye ke, ezi ziindawo apho kuya kubakho ukubonisa ubuntu bakho ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa ngexesha lakhe lokunciphisa ukukhupha imfuno yakhe yokuzibonakalisa akuzicetyiswa.
Inkululeko kunye nokwesaba ukuzithetha
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthetha ngokukhululeka komntu, kunye neengxaki ezinokwenzeka oku kukhokelela kwiinkalo ezininzi. Kutheni kubalulekile kangaka?
- Ukuzibonakalisa ukuzibonakalisa kuyona nto ifumaneka kwaye inamandla kunokonwaba kunye nolonwabo;
- Ukuzibonakalisa okubhaliweyo kukuphefumlela kwaye kunika ukuzonda ukukhathala nokungabi nantoni;
- ukuzithetha ngokwakho yindlela elula yokuyiqonda nokwazi ngokwakho, ukuphuhlisa ngokwakho izici ezithile;
- ukuzithetha ngokwayo kukuphakamisa ukuzithemba kwaye kunika ithemba;
- ukuzithetha ngokwakho yindlela efanelekileyo yokufumana abantu abanomdla kunye nokufumana abahlobo ngomoya.
Xa umntu ngesizathu esithile akakwazi ukuzibandakanya ngokuzenzekelayo ekuzibonakaliseni, oko kukukhokelela ekunciphiseni ukuzithemba, ukunyaniseka kunye nezinto ezininzi. Kubantu abaninzi, ukuzithetha ngokubhaliweyo kukujoliswe ebomini, kwaye akukho yingozi: umntu odala ngokungazenzisiyo kwaye akagqoki iimaski ukhululekile kwaye unwabile ngakumbi kunabanye.
Iindlela zokuzibonakalisa
Kubalulekile ukuba wonke umntu athole uhlobo lwakhe lokuzibonakalisa. Kubani umntu - impumelelo yomsebenzi kunye nobugcisa - kumntu - ubuchule okanye umshicilelo, ukuba umntu avele. Cinga izinto ozenzayo.
- Ukuzibonakalisa ngokuzenzekelayo komntu obungumsebenzi. Njengoko bethetha, umsebenzi omhle ngumsebenzi wokuzilibazisa kakhulu. Ukuba uyakwazi ukuzityhila emsebenzini, zicinga ukuba ungomnye wabantu abonwabileyo, kuba abaninzi abantu basebenza nje indlela yokuhlawula. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukubonakaliswa kobu bubele kunokwenzeka kubantu basezikhundleni zobugcisa, kodwa ukuba ungumzali oyintloko kwaye uhlala kwindawo ekhokelayo - oku kunokuthiwa njengento yokuzibonakalisa.
- Ukuzibonakalisa ngokwakho ekudaleni. Olu hlobo lunempumelelo kangangokuba kwengqondo-ndlela indlela yokuzibonakalisa ngokubhaliweyo isetyenziselwa ukunceda umntu ukuba ahlasele iimvakalelo okanye asombulule iingxaki zangaphakathi. Ngaba uye waphawula ukuba akukho zimbongo ezintle kunye nemifanekiso? Iingqungquthela kunye nabaculi bazama ukutshiza emaphepheni kunye ne-tovas, ngokukhethekileyo iimvakalelo ezimbi, ukubonakalisa ngokucacileyo okanye intlungu. Oku akuyona ingozi: inyaniso kukuba kwinkqubo yokuzibonakalisa, umntu uzuza intlungu yakhe, unqobe ingxaki yakhe. Akunandaba nokuba "uzivakalise njani": bhala izibongo, udaniso, ucula, ujike umnqamlezo okanye wenze isithombe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni, yenza njalo kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze ujabule kwaye uzuze. Ukuba awukufumani - zama yonke into enye uze ufumane into oyithandayo.
- Ukuzibonakalisa ngokwakho ngokubonakala.
Uninzi lwezengqondo zivumelene ngoluvo lokuba ukuzithetha kwangaphandle kwenza umntu abe nolonwabo. Xa ungeza ubuntu kumfanekiso wakho, bonise indlela yakho yokubamba ngesitayela, akugcini nje ukukwenza ukhanye, kodwa udibanisa inxalenye yakho yangaphandle kunye ngaphakathi. - Ukuzibonakalisa ngokuzenzekelayo ngoncedo lwezinto ezithandayo. Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zazimisela ukuba abantu abaphulaphule umculo ofanayo bahlala benesimo esifana nesimo sengqondo, umlingiswa, njl. Ukukhetha iifilimu zakho ezizithandayo okanye umculo, kunye nokuthetha nabantu abanomdla kulezi zihloko ezithakazelisayo kuwe, nawe uzibandakanya ukuzithetha.
Ukuzithetha ngokwakho kuyindlela elula yokuvuya kunye nokufumana isivumelwano kunye nehlabathi lakho langaphakathi. Makubekho ebomini bakho kuyo yonke imbonakalo yayo!