Ukulandela isiluleko sethu esilula, unokwenza uhlamvu lwakho lube namandla kwaye uphephe intando yakho. Umgaqo obalulekileyo: kufuneka ulandele le mithetho rhoqo. Kumele uchaze iimpawu ezinamandla kunakho, kwaye uhlakulele inhlonipho nothando kulabo abakujikelezile. Zama ukuzimelela kwizimvo zabanye. Ukuzwelana novelwano kwaye uqonde ukuba umntu oqinileyo akafanele akonakalise abanye, okanye wena, kuba abantu abanamandla, okokuqala, banomdla kwaye banako ukuvelisa, kodwa musa ukuvumela le mivakalelo ukuba ichithe ubomi babo.
Iingcebiso kulabo abafuna ukuba nesimo esinamandla
- Funda ukuzikhuthaza. Ukuba uhlakulela amandla omlingiswa, kuya kunceda ukuba ufezekise iinjongo zakho ngokukhawuleza. Uya kuba nako ukuqonda iimpazamo zakho ngelixa uhamba phambili. Izithintelo aziyi kukuyeka. Musa ukoyika ukwazi inyaniso. Umntu onamandla onamandla uyazi indlela yokufumana ulwazi olufunyenweyo ngokufanelekileyo.
- Zama ukuba yinkokeli. Isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo sinokukunceda ukunqoba ubunzima. Zilawula wena kunye neemfuno zakho, ungazithobeli ubuthathaka bakho. Ifom yomzimba ibaluleke kakhulu.
- Qiniseka ukuba uyayixabisa into onayo. Gxininisa oko unako ngoku. Mamela ukuvala abantu. Zama ukuba nesibindi kwaye uzimisele, kuba isibindi sinomqondiso wesimo esinamandla. Ungesabi ukuthatha ingozi.
- Ungaze ubeke izimvo zakho kwabanye. Khumbula kwakhona ukuba awukwazi ukuthanda bonke abantu ngaphandle kokungafani. Khangela indlela yakho kwaye ujonge iinjongo ezibekwe. Ukubeka phambili ngokuchanekileyo. Nika abantu okuhle, bancede abo bafuna uncedo lwakho nenkxaso. Musa ukukhangela inzuzo yakho. Yenza izenzo ezilungileyo ngokuzenzekelayo.
- Funda ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho neemvakalelo zakho. Enyanisweni, oku akuyona into elula, ngoko hlawula ixesha elininzi ngangokunokwenzeka. Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko, zama ukugcina uxolo nokuthula. Khangela kuyo yonke igolide intetho kwaye ungaphonzi ukusuka kwicala ukuya kwelinye icala. Ngaphandle koxolo, awuyi kufumana umgangatho onamandla. Sebenza rhoqo, kwaye ke umphumo awuyi kukulinda ixesha elide.