Ukutsalana kwamagama ngumbono kwengqondo, ebonisa uvelwano, ukunxulumana, ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Njengomthetho, asibonanga nje kuphela abanye, senza isimo sethu sengqondo kuwo ngamnye. Utsalane kwintsebenziswano yabalingani inendima ebalulekileyo, kwaye yenziwa yimibandela ethile.
Izinto ezithandanayo: zangaphandle
Sixabisa umntu kaninzi kungekhona iimpawu zakhe, kodwa ngenxa yokukwazi ukuzithoba. Kukho izinto zangaphandle zokukhanga, ezithi, nangona zingaxhunyiwe kakhulu kunye noqhagamshelwano lokuqala, zidlala indima ebalulekileyo:
- Ikhono lokuxhasa incoko, inzululwazi, ukukhangela umdla, umnqweno wokukholisa. Oku kubonakaliswa komnqweno wokwakha uluvo olungileyo ngawe kwabanye abantu. Abantu abavakalelwa ngakumbi bahamba ngeendlela ezilula, zikhangeleka ngakumbi kwabanye.
- Isimo sengqondo somntu. Ukuba umntu uhla okanye uxinezelekile, akayi kuba mnandi kwabanye njengomntu onwabileyo, onwabileyo, onwabileyo.
- Ukusondela kwendawo. Xa abantu besondelene, kubangela ukuthembela okukhethekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, akuyimfuneko ukuwela umda weemitha ezi-0.5 - le mimandla esondeleyo kwaye nayiphi na ingeniso kuyo ingabonwa njengemida yokuphula.
Ngaloo ndlela, abantu banomdla othile phambi kokuba aqale ukuthetha. Abantu abasemsebenzini bafanele babe novelwano kwabanye, umzekelo, abathengisi beevenkile, kufuneka banakekele oku kwangaphambili.
Ubungqina bokuthandwa ngabantu: zangaphakathi
Kukho izinto zangaphakathi zokukhanga, zenziwe ngokufanelekileyo ngexesha loxhulumaniso:
- Isitayela soqhagamshelwano siyintloko. Ukuziphatha kwintetho kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye kubangele okanye kugxotha abadibaniselwano. Ukunyaniseka, ukungacacanga, ukunyaniseka kunokutshabalalisa isimo sengqondo kumntu.
- Ukutsalana. Ukuba umntu ulungile, unako ukuthetha nabanye kunokuthandabuza.
- Ukufana. Xa umntu efana nawe ngesimo, indlela yokuphila, izinto ezithandwayo, uvelwano luya kubangela.
- Inkxaso. Ukuba umnxibelelwano wakho uyancoma okanye uyakubonga ngento ethile, uya kukhulula ngakumbi kuye.
Ezi zinto zingasetyenziselwa kwaye ngamabomu, nangona kufikelele ekukhangekeni kwintetho yonxibelelwano. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yeyiphi i nkcubeko umntu ayenayo, kwiimeko ezininzi, uvelwano luvusa into efanayo kubo bonke abantu.