Ukufezekisa impumelelo ebomini, ewe, ngokungathi kulula, ngokuqinisekileyo wonk 'ubani. Emva kwakho konke, ukusilela kunetyala, zingaphi na izimo, amandla okanye impembelelo yendalo, zingaphi iingqondo zethu zangaphakathi kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukungabikho kokholo ngamandla ethu.
Yintoni enokuyenza ukuze uphumelele?
Ekuqaleni, uphumelelo lobomi lunikwa ubunzima obukhulu. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, umntu ufunda kwiimpazamo zakhe, athola amava amatsha kunye nezakhono, ukunyanzelisa i-Fortune ebomini bakhe. Ngaba kukho iingxaki endleleni? Esi sihlandlo esihle kakhulu sokuzijika kwindawo yazo ephakamileyo. Siyabonga kubo, ukuzithemba kwakha. Akumangazi, ukuba ekuqaleni ezo ngxaki zizisa ukuhluleka. Ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa yithemba, unokufezekisa oko ufuna.
Ngaba nexesha lokukhulula? Emva koko ubeke imali ngokuphepha. Akuyi kuba yinto engafanelekanga ukufunda iincwadi ezifanelekileyo, ukujonga izifundo zevidiyo, njl.
Yintoni enceda ukuphumelela?
Ungalindelanga umphumo omuhle ukuba yonke imihla uyenze into abantu abayithiyileyo, bathethe nabantu emva kokuba bathethe nabo obangcolisayo kumphefumlo. Ukuze ufezekise oko ufunayo, kufuneka utshintshe imikhwa yakho, isimo sakho sengqondo kwizinto ezininzi, imibono kunye neenkolelo.
Abantwana bahlala bephupha elikhulu, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile ezikhulayo, sikhohlwa ngabo, sicinga ukuba amaphupha ayinkunkuma yesikhathi. Kungenzeka ukuba amanye amaphupha ajika abe yiinjongo . Makube njalo. Into ephambili kukuba ezi njongo zinomlinganiselo omkhulu wobomi bakho. Ukuphosa "ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo engalunganga", ngokunyamekela imihla ngemihla, usebenze ngokwakho, kufuneka uqhubeke.
Indlela yokuphumelela kwishishini?
Kwenzeka xa ubelana ngezicwangciso zakho, kunye nabantu abasondeleyo, uva kubo kungekhona amagama enkxaso, kodwa iingqondo ezingathembekanga.
Indlela yokufezekisa impumelelo kumsebenzi wakho?
Impumelelo kwimisebenzi inokwenzeka kuphela xa umntu enomdla ngezinto azenzayo imihla ngemihla. Kulo msebenzi ozithandayo kufuneka ube yindlela yakho, isithandwa sakho. Ukusebenza ngenxa yezinto eziphathekayo, umntu akanakufumana ukwaneliseka ngokupheleleyo kwizenzo zakhe. Ixesha linye yeengcamango ezixabisekileyo umntu ayenayo, ngoko ungayichitheli ngokungadingekile, umzekelo, ekuchitheni ixesha kwiintanethi zentlalo.