Khawucinge mhlawumbi okanye mhlawumbi ufanele ukhangele into eyinyani kwaye ufumanise ukuba ungowamaqabane amabhinqa anobungane. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho zombini uhlangothi oluqhakazileyo nolumnyama kule nto. Emva kwakho konke, kufuneka ulungele, ukuba uya kuthwala i-whirlpool kunye neengqumbo. Kwaye oku kuphakamisa umbuzo: "Ndingahamba njani kwiqela labesetyhini?". Beka zonke iingongoma ezingentla "i".
Iqela lesibhinqa: i-pros and cons
Ngokukhawuleza xa ufika kwindawo yakho yomsebenzi omtsha, iqela elibizwa ngokuba yiqela leqela liza kukuqwalasela. Lo akakho ngaphandle kwindoda enqabileyo, leyo yonke iminithi ilawula yonke into kwaye inika isikhokelo sogqirha kwinkqubela. Kungenxa yeqhinga lakhe ukuba imali iqokelelwe kuzo zonke iziganeko. Ukuze ungabi nolwazi lomsindo wakhe, jonga nje ukumkholisa ngokuthobeka kwaye ungabonakali.
Kubucala kungabizwa ngokuba ngubo obenokulula. Ngoko, namhlanje abakwazi ukuma umoya wakho, kwaye ngomso bakulungele ukwabelana ngekhofi-break break.
Ukusebenza kwikomiti yamabhinqa iya kuhamba njenge-clockwork, ukuba awuyikukhawuleza izinto. Khangela kuqala umqeshwa ngamnye. Wena ngokwakho, yenza uhlobo lwetafile zeempawu. Yazi oogxa bakho. Kwaye ke, xa uwela umgca "Ukuzinikezela okutsha", yenza unobumba obuncinane, kodwa obunempumelelo kakhulu: umzekelo, baphathe wonke umntu ngebhokisi elitsha elithengiweyo yee-chocolates.
Indlela yokusinda kwiqela labesetyhini?
- Gcina iingxoxo eziqhelekileyo. Kodwa musa ukukhutshwa ngeengxoxo.
- Ukuba umntu ovela kwiqela uya kukubamba esithambo, kwaye uzive ulwaphulo lomntu onjalo, ungalubonisi kuluntu. Zama nje ukugcina umgama nomntu onjalo. Zama ukuba nobubele kwaye kuya kwenzeka ukuba oku kuya kubangela ukuba kubekho uxhamla.
- Ingqondo yengqoqo yabasetyhini yinto yokuba kungekudala okanye kamva, kodwa oogxa baya kukukhangela, bathi, ngoko, ngamandla. Ngoko ke ungavumeli ukucaphukisa.
- Musa ukulibala ukuthatha inyathelo ekuxazululeni iingxaki ezithile. Kodwa musa ukulibala malunga "nomgangatho ophakathi wegolide" womsebenzi. Musa ukuba yi-lethargic, kwaye ungachukumisi uluvo lwakho kubalingane.
- Ufuna ukwenza ubungani nawo wonke umntu, akunjalo? Emva koko ubonisa ngobumnene nangengqondo ukuba ufuna ukuba yinxalenye yeqela kwaye wamukele "imigaqo yomdlalo."
Indlela yokulawula iqela labasetyhini?
Akunanto into yokuba eNgilani ibinzana elithi "Umqeshwa omhle ngumfazi" uyathandwa kakhulu. Emva kwakho konke, thina, bafazi, sinempawu ezintle njengoko kuqwalaselwe iinkcukacha, ukuchaneka nokunyamezela. Ngelishwa, akukho madoda amaninzi anikwe oku. Ukulawula iqela labasetyhini akuyona into elula. Nabani na onokuqonda ingcamango yowesifazane uya kuvuzwa ngeqela elihle kakhulu, ulandele kuyo. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba akukho mqondo ukukhuthaza abameleli bezenzo zokuziphatha ngokwesini. Emva koko, ngokwemvelo bayigcina intsapho.
Ungalokothi uphazamise kuzo zonke iintlondi apho umphefumlo wangaphakathi weqoqo ugcwele, kodwa ungakulibala ukuseka ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nabangaphantsi. Khumbula ukuba baya kuba nemihlali kakhulu xa ubonisa umdla kumsebenzi ongekho emsebenzini
Kodwa oko kulungele ukulwa kummandla onjalo, ngoko ke into emele ibukele, ukuze ixesha lokusebenza linganikeleli kwingxoxo engenzi lutho. Indima ebalulekileyo idlalwe yikhowudi yokugqoka . Vumelani ukuba kuyinto enhle ukuba ibe phakathi kwabasetyhini abagqobileyo kwiimpahla zoshishino kunabesifazana, ezizele ezihlaziyizi ezingafaniyo.
Iingcali ze-sociologists ziqaphele ukuba ixesha elide lokuxhatshazwa kwezinto ezintsha kwiqela labesetyhini liinyanga ezintandathu kuphela. Kwaye, ke, ube nomonde kwaye ungakulibali ukuba ngumntu onobubele ngokumalunga nabaphantsi kwakho.