Umfazi ophumelelayo unokuqatshelwa ngokukhangela. Kwaye akukuphela nje ukubaluleka kokubonakala okungahambi kakuhle, iimpahla ezibiza kunye nezinto zokusebenza. I-aura ekhethekileyo kwaye idlulise ukuzithemba ngokupheleleyo, okungekho kodwa kubangele umona kunye nomnqweno wokuxelisa. Abantu abaninzi banomdla kwimpendulo yombuzo wendlela yokuba ngumfazi ocebileyo onempumelelo. Kodwa amaninzi amaninzi akholelwa ukuba impumelelo enjalo ayinamandla. Nangona oku akusiyo yonke into, kufuneka nje ukulahla ukungathandabuzeki kwaye uqale ukwenza.
Indlela yokwenza isityebi nokuphumelela - ingqondo yengqondo
Okokuqala, kufuneka uzibeke umgomo - ufuna ukufezekisa ntoni. Le yile ngcebiso yokuqala eyabanika iinqununu zeengqondo ukuba batshintshe ubomi babo baze baphumelele. Ukuphulaphula i-intuition yakho, ungayithobeli ingcamango yabanye kunye neengcamango zoluntu. Cingisisa kuphela izifiso zakho namakhono.
Abo bafuna ukufunda indlela yokuba ngumntu ophumelelayo nesisityebi, iingcali zeengqondo zicebisa:
- ukuphuhlisa isicwangciso sempumelelo yomntu siqu, kufuneka ubhale imisebenzi ethile ekufuneka uyisombulule ukufezekisa injongo;
- ungazami ukuba "uthathe isiseko" ngokukhawuleza, ube nomonde kwaye ungabi msinya;
- Ungazami ukugxuma ngaphezulu kwentloko yakho - iinjongo ezibekwe kufuneka zibe yinyani;
- kholelwa kwinqaba lakho, ungesabi ubunzima - uya kuphumelela ngokuqinisekileyo;
- Unayo ixesha lokubuyela ekhaya, zinike ixesha lokuphumla;
- jongela ukukhula rhoqo - ngokukhawuleza ukuphoqa imisebenzi oyenzayo, ukwandisa iimfuno zakho;
- Khangela iindlela ezintsha - ukunyakaza kwi-rolled akuyi kukhokelela kwisiphumo esilindelekileyo;
- ungesabi ukuthatha ingozi kwaye wenze iimpazamo.
Ukongezelela, asifanele sikhohlwe ukuba ukuzithemba kwelo ntombi kwizinto zakhe ezincike kakhulu kuxhomekeke ekubonakaleni. Unesidima, ugqoke, utyumba okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, umntu onamahloni angayi kuze aphumelele. Inenekazi kufuneka ibe yinto enhle, ibe nekhwalithi kwiingubo, ithetha ngezwi elicacileyo nelisicacileyo, ayivumeli amagama angamaqhinga entetho, ayiphakamisi amazwi, ayangena kwimpikiswano yoluntu, akayikuziqonda okanye ayenomdla. Uyazi ixabiso lakhe ngokuchanekileyo kwaye kwenza abanye bazixabise kakhulu.
Indlela yokuba ngumfazi ocebileyo kwaye uphumelele
Abanye abafazi baxazulula ingxaki yokuba njani batyebile kwaye baphumelele, banokukunceda uceba ukuheha imali kunye nenhlanhla. Ukufunda kufanele kube ngoMvulo, endlwini kufuneka ube yedwa. Kuyimfuneko ukuma ewindow ejongene nempuma okanye empuma kwendlu (indlu), uthathe i-ruble entsha ne-shiny shini, uze ufunde okanye ufunde ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngokuphindaphindiweyo: "uEliya umprofeti wezingelosi ezinkulu ze-convokes Ubeka igolide kunye nesiliva. Isinyithi sibamba ndawonye, kubuya okuhle endlwini yenceku kaThixo (igama lakhe) . " Inkcitho kufuneka isuswe kwisikhwama, egcinwe kuyo ngokungapheliyo, kungabi namnye
Indlela yokuceba kunye nokuphumelela ngoncedo lomlingo?
Fumana impendulo kumbuzo wendlela yokuba ngumfazi ocebileyo kwaye uphumelele kwaye unokuncedisa imilingo elula. Ngokomzekelo, bhinqa intambo yomlingo enenhlanhla: uthathe imicu enqambileyo yokubopha obomvu neyibhakabhaka, yenze i-pigtail eqhelekileyo, cinga ukuba uyayifaka iminqweno yakho kuyo, uze uyibeke engxeni yakho yangasese (okanye ekhanda lakho). Udinga ukugqoka umtya ukuze kungabikho mntu ongayibona. Unako ukuhlawula inhlanhla yepini eqhelekileyo: uthele kwi-saucer ezintathu zeepunile zerayisi, ushukela kunye netyuwa, gcina ipini evulekile uze ushiye ubusuku. Ngentsasa, phonsa kwiingubo apho ungaboni khona. Ngokuqinisekileyo uza kuphumelela kwishishini.