Kukho inani elikhulu leengcali ezithintana nelo xesha lokuqala lokulala, oko kukuthi, ngokulahlekelwa ubuntombi . Wawafaka ngokucacileyo abantu abangayiqondi le nto nhlobo.
1. Ngobudala, ubukhulu be-hymen banda, oku kuthetha ukuba ukulahleka kobuntombi kuya kuhamba kunye nentlungu eqinile.
Oku akuyinyaniso, kuba ubukhulu, ubukhulu kunye nobuxininci be-hymen kwiintombazana nganye ngabanye. Ngoko, kholelwa le ngqungquthela ayifanelekanga.
2. Unokuqala ukulala ngesini ukuya ku-14-15.
I-hymen isebenza njengesithintelo phakathi kwamalungu omzimba wesini kunye nokusingqongileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba kuthintela ukungena kwezifo ezahlukeneyo zangaphakathi zesini, kuze kube yilapho iqulunqwe i-microflora eya kukhusela umzimba wesetyhini. Kuze kube neminyaka eyi-18, akukhuthazwa ukuba ulale ngesondo, ngokuba ngexesha lokwebelana ngesondo isifo sinokudityaniswa ngenxa yecala elincinci le-epithelium. Umonakalo onjalo unokuba negalelo ekuveleni kweenkqubo ezahlukeneyo zokuvuvukala, kunye nokungazinzi .
3. Ukuqaliswa ngokutsha kweentlobano zesini kunokuyingozi kwimpilo.
Amantombazana amaninzi akholelwa ukuba izibhamu ebusweni bakhe zibonakala ngenxa yokuba uyintombi, kodwa oku akunjalo. Yonke isohlwayo ye-hormone, engahambelani nobukho be-hymen. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukubonakala kwe-acne kunye nentloko kuyachaphazeleka ngentswelo yengqondo.
4. Kufuneka uhambe kuphela kwintlobo yesifo somzimba xa uqala ukulala ngesondo.
Lo uluvo olungalunganga. Isihlandlo sokuqala sokubonisana kunye nomdlavuza wezintlu kukuza kwiminyaka eyi-7-8. Ugqirha uya kuqhuba uviwo kwaye enze izigqibo malunga nempilo yentombazana.
5. Ukuphuka kwe-hymen kuhlala ihamba kunye nentlungu kunye nokuphuma kwamanzi.
Ukuba ulwalamano lwenzeka kunye nomntu othanda ngokwenene, kwaye intombazana ivuyiswa kakhulu, ukubonakala kwentlungu kuncitshisiwe kuye kwancinci. Kwaye kwindleko yegazi, yonke into iyodwa kwaye ixhomekeke kubukhulu be-hymen kunye nenani lemithambo yegazi kuyo. Kukho iimeko xa udibaniso lokuqala lolwabelana ngesondo kunokungaqali, ngenxa yokuba iplastiki iyolula.
6. Isondo sokuqala kufuneka senzeke nomntu omdala kwaye unamava.
Ngoko ngokuqhelekileyo awukwazi ukuthetha, kodwa iqabane elithile elinamava lingcono kunomqala. Ubudala bomntu abukhathazi ngesondo.
7. Intlanzi ibhetele ukulahleka kwindawo yokuhlambela.
Njengoko uyazi, amanzi atshisayo asebenza kumntu ophumayo, anciphisa uxinzelelo lweentlanzi kwaye unciphisa intlungu, kodwa oku akusebenzi kwisini sokuqala. Amanzi agxobhoza i-lubrication yemvelo yelungu, kwaye oku kuyithintelo ekungeneni okulula.
8. Ngethuba lokuqala kwesondo, kungcono ukuba ungasebenzisi ikhondom.
Ukuveliswa kwamakhondom kwanamhlanje kusebenzisa ubuchwepheshe obutsha kunye neeblue oil. Ngenxa yolu hlobo, umkhiqizo wokugqibela uphantsi, kwaye i-lubricant isetyenziselwa ukuphucula isilayidi, ngoko ukuba isondo sokuqala kungcono ukuba ungayishiyi ikhondom.
9. Ngethuba lokuqala kwesini, akunakwenzeka ukukhulelwa.
Amantombazana abakholelwa kule ngqungquthela, emva kokuba isondo sokuqala sifumana ukuba bakhulelwe. Iqanda likulungele ukuchumisa, xa intombazana iguquka iminyaka eyi-11-12 ubudala
Akuyimfuneko ukukholelwa nantoni na iindlovu eziqulunqwe ngabantu abangenakukwazi ukuqonda ukuba kutheni. Ukufumana iingcebiso malunga nale ngxaki kungcono ukuqhagamshelana nomama okanye ukuya kudokotela, kwaye akufuneki ukuphulaphula amantombazana angamava. Ukuba uyamthanda intombi yakho kwaye yonke into eyenzeka ngumnqweno womnye, kwaye uyilungele le nyathelo, ngoko akufuneki ukwesaba, kodwa uthembele nje umzimba wakho kunye nomlingane wakho.