Enyanisweni yokuba umntu ucinga iziganeko ezithile zesini, akukho nto engalunganga. Iingcamango zobuHlabathi ngezihlandlo zihanjelwa ngamadoda nabasetyhini. Kwaye ukuba kukho ukuthembela ngokupheleleyo kunye nokuvisisana phakathi kobudlelwane phakathi kwamaqabane, ezi zifundo zingasetyenziswa ngokukhuselekileyo.
Iingcamango zobuHlolo zabantu
Funda kumntu obathandayo malunga nokukhetha kwakhe ngokwesondo. Yabelane ngenye imbono kunye neephupha. Okumangalisa kukuba, iinkolelo zesininzi zesintu ezininzi zifana kakhulu. Olu luhlu lungabhaniswa ixesha elide, lizalise rhoqo. Nangona kunjalo, isiseko asihlali sitshintshile. Makhe sibone ukuba yini amadoda aphuphayo ebhedini.
- Zesondo. Unako, ke, ngakumbi. Into ephambili kukuba indoda ifuna ukuba yedwa, kwaye bonke abanye abathathi-nxaxheba kule "projekthi" ngabafazi. Kuyathakazelisa ukuba, nangona amaphupha anjalo, amaninzi amaninzi wesini esomeleleyo, xa ngokukhawuleza ukufumana eli thuba, ungakugijimi ukuyisebenzisa. Ngokutsho kweengqondo zeengqondo, isizathu sokwesaba kukunyanzeliswa ngokwezesondo kwaye ihlupheke "i-fiasco", inganelisekanga onke amaqabane.
- Mabhinqa a mabini. Ukubona indawo yokwenza uthando ngamantombazana amabini akhangayo, elowo amaphupha. Akukho zikhethi.
- Ukuhlaziya isisu. Ifestile yesibini kuloluhlu ngumnqweno wokubukela umfazi wakho othandekayo. Ufuna ukubona indlela aziva ngayo, ebonisa ngokucacileyo yonke into akwenzayo. Kubalulekile kuye iimvakalelo kunye nemizwelo ayenayo. Okokuqala, amadoda anjengalolu hlobo, kwaye okwesibini, luhlobo "lweklasi yeklasi", apho unokufunda into entsha kwaye iluncedo.
- Isondo kunye nomfokazi. Indoda iphupha lokwenza ngaphandle kweminye imfundiso kunye neenkcukacha ezenzelwe ukuyenza kunye nomfazi othandayo, ngokulala ngesondo. Kulula nje kabini kabini: weza, wabona waza wathabatha.
- Indawo kawonkewonke. Kwibala lebhola ngexesha lomdlalo oqhwithelayo, epakini, kwindawo yokutyela, kwiqela-phantse wonke umntu wesithathu amaphupha okulala nomfazi ebusweni.
- Nqwenela ukuthobela. Ukudlala i-slave Slave izancinci. Oku kunjalo ngokukodwa kubantu abagcina yonke into ebomini babo phantsi kolawulo. Abanamandla, abatyebi nabazidlayo - ngamanye amaxesha bafuna ukuba ngamadolo phambi kwakho. Enyanisweni, abavumi ukuvuma oku.
- Ulwabelana ngesondo. Inyani kukuba amaziko ozonwaba aphezulu atholakala kwi-anus yomntu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba wazama ukufihla, okokuqala kuqala kuye, kodwa loo mfazamo ukhona. Ukwesaba ukukhankanywa ngobungqingili kumvimbela ukuba avume iimfuno zakhe.
Kwindoda ayibhekiseli kuncedo olungaphandle, khuluma naye ngesihloko sesondo kwaye ungesabi ukuzama ukulala.
Iingcamango zobuhle zabasetyhini
Njengemizekelo yeengcamango ezinobungqingili kumantombazana, oku kulandelayo kunokuthi:
- Zesondo. Inqaku elithandekayo kukuba le fantasy phantse ihlala ingapheliyo. Ukuphupha kwelokuba unxungupheke kuyo yonke indawo kunye nangoko, ukunikezela ukuzonwabisa okungenanto - kwenzeka. Nangona kunjalo, akusiwo onke amabhinqa anokunyamezela amadoda amabini.
- Isondo kunye nomfazi. Enye yeengqungquthela zokuqala zentombi. Indlela efanelekileyo yokuqonda iminqweno yowesifazane ingowesifazane. Nika intombazana enomzimba, othandekayo nothando-oko kukukhangela kule meko.
- Ukuba namandla. Ithemba lokubanjwa ziingalo kunye nemilenze ibangalisa amaninzi amantombazana. Ngethuba lolwalamano, ndifuna ukuziziva ndingenakukhuseleka, ndizinikele kwiimvakalelo, ndingathwali naluphi na uxanduva. Sanele ngokwaneleyo ebomini bakhe.
Olu hlobo lwesini ngaphandle kokukhathazeka. - Intombazana yesikolo okanye umninindlu. Imidlalo yokudlala indima kunye neengubo ezithakazelisayo yiphupha kwanoma yimuphi umfazi. Ndifuna ukuba ngumfanekiso wesibini esikolweni okanye umkhonzi othobelayo. Madoda, khumbula.
- Ukudlwengula. Ithemba lokuba kuthatyathwe ngamandla, kukuvumela ukuba unqabulise iingubo zakho kwaye uve amazwi angcolileyo-le meko inokuthandayo.
Musa ukufihla iingcamango zakho. Sebenzisa kwaye ujabulele.