Umsebenzi kunye nemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla ithatha amandla amaninzi kumadoda nakwabasetyhini. Emva kweminyaka emininzi yobomi obudibeneyo, abantu abangaphantsi kwama-80% abatshatileyo batshatile ukuba ubudlelwane babo buye buyimfutho kwaye bungaqhelekanga. Hayi, oku kusebenza nakwezesondo. Ekubeni isondo ludlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu ubudlelwane phakathi kwesondo esahlukileyo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba kucacile, kungekhona ukuxolisa. Iingcali zengqondo zithi isondo esipheleleyo nesisoloko senza uxhulumano phakathi koqabane oluqinileyo, kwaye ngaphandle koko, lunceda ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo kunye nokuphazamiseka kwemiba.
Xa ubudlelwane bezesondo kunye neqabane liyekile ukunikela ngokuvuyisa kwangaphambili, kuyimfuneko ukwenza. Kukho ininzi indlela yezindlela zokudibanisa ubomi bobulili. Okokuqala, umfazi kufuneka anike ingqalelo endleleni yakhe yobomi. Okokuqala, kufuneka uqaphele ukubonakala kwakho. Ngomdla womlingane awupheli, kufuneka ugqoke iingubo zangaphantsi ezithandwayo, izithende eziphezulu, ukuqinisekisa ukuba imeko yeenwele, izipikili kunye nesikhumba ilungile. Kubalulekile ukwaba ixesha lokuzimela emsebenzini kunye nomzimba wakho-ukuhamba nge-sauna, i-swimming pool, i-hydromassage ne-salon beauty ziphakamisa ukuzithemba kwaye zenze uzive uzihle.
Okwesibini, ukuba ubudlelwane bezesondo buqhawule, kufuneka ufune isondo. Abafazi abaninzi banokudinwa kakhulu kubomi bentsapho kunye neengxaki ezahlukeneyo, ezingenzi negalelo ekuvusekeni kwesifiso sesondo. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka udibanise ukuthanda ubudlelwane. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ucinge ngesondo ngexesha lokuphuka emsebenzini, uphendulela entloko yakho imfihlelo yakho eyimfihlelo. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - uzive utyholi.
Okwesithathu, tshintsha umfanekiso wakho rhoqo. Amadoda ngokukhawuleza akhathala ngokuzimela. Kwaye umfazi ongenakulinganisela kwaye onokutshintshayo uhlala ebangela izifiso.
Sinikeza izicwangciso ezili-10 eziya kunceda ukunxibelelana kweentlobano zesini:
- Yiba nomsebenzi. Bonisa umdla wezocansi kumlingane wakho ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye umqumbise ubudlelwane bezesondo.
- Ukufumanisa iingcamango zakhe zesini kunye neminqweno, kwaye uyaziqonda.
- Mema iqabane ukuba uzame imidlalo yezesondo. Ukwenza oku, sebenzisa iindidi eziphathekayo kunye nezixhobo ezisuka kwiivenkile zempahla esondeleyo.
- Uvavanyo. Ungesabi ukuzama izinto ezintsha ngesini. Umthetho njengomqali kunye nokumangalela iqabane lakho.
- Ulale ngesondo kwiindawo ezingalindelekanga nezingavamile - kwimoto, epakini, e-ofisini nakwezinye iindawo ezizenzekelayo.
- Yenza isondo ngomlomo. Amadoda amaninzi ahlukumeza.
- Yenza ubusuku bothando. Isidlo esilula kunye neglasi yewayini kwimoya yokuthandana kunceda ukuphumla emva komsebenzi wosuku.
- Unganqikazi ukubukela ama-movie ama-porn kunye nomlingane wakho. Emva kokubukela, zama ukukhumbula ngokugqithisileyo kunye nezihlandlo ezinomdla.
- Ukudlala nomlingane wakho. Nangona uhlala ndawonye iminyaka emininzi, ukulingana akufanele kuthatyathwa. Zama umlingane wakho, ugqoke ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye udlala ngothando.
- Ukuphumla ngokukhawuleza komnye nomnye. Iintsuku eziliqela ezichithwe kwiinkampani zamantombazana, kukuvumela ukuba uphazamise iingxaki zentsapho uze ukhangele iqabane lakho.
Imibutho yentsapho, apho amaqabane athetha iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zesini, azama rhoqo kwaye azame ukukholisa omnye nomnye ngeendlela zonke, ahluke ngamandla. Nangona emva kweminyaka engama-20 yomtshato, ubudlelwane bezesondo lunokuvuyisa uvuyo kunye nokuzonwabisa.