Ubusiso luphawu lokuqala lothando okanye uthando. Uyakwazi ukuhluka, uthobe, unomdla kwaye, ngelishwa, usemsebenzini kwaye uyamkhathaza. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba iimvakalelo zakho azipheli phantsi komthwalo weenkxalabo kunye nemikhwa, umntu kufuneka ahlale esenyamekelana kwaye ajabule ngethuba ngalinye elichithwe kunye. Kubalulekile ukulungelelanisa imimangaliso, ukulungelelanisa imihla yokuthandana kunye nokumangalisa umfana, kunye nokumanga okungalindelekanga kunye nezinye izinto ezintle.
Ndingamanga njani umfana, ukuba wayeyithandayo?
Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba uthando lwakho luye lwaphela, kufuneka wenze inzame kwaye uvuselele ukuthanda kwakho kwangaphambili. Ungasebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo kule nto, kodwa isinyathelo sokuqala siya kusaya. Indlela yokwenza umfana uwanga, uyazi nayiphi na intombazana. Umsebenzi omncinci, ukuthobela okungakumbi - konke oko.
Ukuba ufuna ukuzisa amanqaku angavamile kwi-caresses yakho, kuya kufuneka usebenzise ingcamango encinane. Umzekelo, unokubeka umlomo emlonyeni wakho, kwaye ukumanga kuya kuba kushushu kwaye kupholile, okanye kukhanye ngantoni ye-strawberries, i-raspberries okanye ithokoleta.
Kwakhona khumbula ukuba imilomo ayiyena yodwa inxalenye yomzimba apho ungamanga umfana. Ukuthinta ukukhanya entanyeni okanye emagxeni kunokuqala kweso busuku obunomdla, okanye ukuthobeka ngobumnene. Indawo yangasemva ibuhlungu kakhulu, ngoko ke umendo ovela kumabhere abeka ngaphaya komgca womgca uya kumnika loo mntu ithuba elingalibalekiyo.
Kuchaneka njani ukumanga umfana okokuqala?
Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba intombazana leyo iqalisa ukuqala kokubanga. Ukuba ubukho kule meko, kufuneka ukhumbule imigaqo ethile, ngaphandle koko ubungozi obubonakalayo buya kuqhubeka.
Okokuqala, makhe sibone indawo yokumanga umfana ngosuku lokuqala.
Emva koko, khumbula, yonke iminca yomlomo wakho kufuneka ibe yinyameko, ithambile kwaye ilula. Iqhinga lokunyusa i-caress kwaye yenze kube lula ukuhamba ngendoda. Yonke into onokuyenza yichukumisa imilomo yakho encinane kwisihlathini okanye ngomlomo womntu. Ukumanga kwakho kufuneka kube yintsipho, kungekhona isithembiso. Umntu okhethiweyo kufuneka aqonde ukuba awunakuphikiswa ngokupheleleyo nolwalamano lwakho aluba ngumhlobo nje, kodwa ngexesha elinye ligcina ilungelo lomntu ukuba athathe isinyathelo sokuqala.