Sekude kubekho mfihlelo ukuba ngaphezu kwesigamu sababhinqa besiplanethi uMhlaba akanakusola ukuba yintoni i-orgasm. Into embi kakhulu kukuba ipesenti encinci yabasetyhini banokugqiba ukuvuma oku, nangaphantsi bazama ukufumana isisombululo kwingxaki. Enyanisweni, iipesenti ezimbalwa kuphela zabasetyhini abanako ukufumana i-orgasm ngenxa yokubeleka kwezesifo zomzimba zesitho somzimba, kuba bonke abantu banesisombululo kwingxaki.
Kutheni ndingakwazi ukufumana i-orgasm?
Xa kungabikho i-orgasm kukho izizathu ezininzi. Xa ufumanisa imbangela yakho "ayisebenzi," uya kuqonda oko kufuneka uyenze ukuze ufumane i-orgasm. Masizame ukufumanisa oko kunokuthintela ukuzonwabisa:
- Ngokuqhelekileyo ingxaki ihlala kwixesha lakho elidlulileyo. Akunqabile xa intombazana ivuyela ngokwenene ekuqaleni kwesondo. Khumbula abahlobo bakho bokuqala: ubuninzi babo babenobunyameko kunye nobumnene, bangakanani ababenokukuphulaphula. Kungenzeka ukuba amaqabane akho okuqala azingqinekanga kwaye akazange acinge ukuba angamnceda njani umfazi ukuba athole i-orgasm.
- Khumbula, nokuba uvavanye i-orgasm ngexesha le-masturbation: ngokukhawuleza, ukuba ufumane i-orgasm eqinile kulona mfazi kulula kakhulu ngokuvuselela i-clitoris. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, oku kubonisa ukuba awunayo i-anergasmia, kodwa ngelo xesha, uyanzima kakhulu umsebenzi womlingane wakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo abasetyhini abajwayele ukufumana i-orgasm ngenxa yokuvuselela kwangaphandle, bahlale "bavulekileyo" kwi-vaginal orgasm.
- Ungayifumana njani i-orgasm eqinile, ukuba akukho kholo elipheleleyo phakathi kwamaqabane? Amaxesha amaninzi amava amava, azilahla aze azifune isizathu sokuba intanda yakhe ayinako ukumyanelisa ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye kuninzi kuninzi phakathi kweengqingili kukho ingxoxo ephosakeleyo, xa intombazana ithetha ngokucacileyo ngeemvakalelo zakhe kunye nokoyika. Ewe, njengokuba umntu unokuqonda oko kukukholisayo, kodwa yintoni eyenza ukhathazeke, ukuba wena ngokwakho ungamxeleli ngaye? Mxelele ngeemvakalelo kunye neminqweno yakho, kwimeko enjani ofuna ukuyifumana, mhlawumbi ufuna i-atmosphem ekhethekileyo. Yabelana ngothandana wakho - ukuthembela kunye nokunyaniseka ukusoloko kusombulula iingxaki ezifanayo.
- Ukukhulelwa nokuzala. Kukho uluvo lokuba emva kokubeleka, umfazi uqala ukufumana i-orgasm ngokukhawuleza kwaye aguqule ngokukhawuleza kumswakama. Ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga imvelo, oku kunjalo kunjalo, kodwa kwindlela yokujonga kwengqondo, izinto zihlukile. Uxinzelelo lwePostpartum kunye ne-hormonal state yowesifazane ibambezela kakhulu umsebenzi kumlingane. Lapha, ingqalelo eninzi ingayinikwa ingakumbi kwinkqubo yesondo, ngokulungiselela umfazi.
Iindlela zokufumana i-orgasm
Ngoku ukuba ufumene isizathu sakho kwaye uxoxe ngayo nentanda yakho, unokuqalisa ukusebenza kuwe. Kukho iresiphi elula ukuba ufunde indlela yokufumana i-orgasm esheshayo: uxinzelele imisipha yakho kwaye ukhulule iingcamango zakho. Kuthetha ukuthini oku:
- Ukuxinezeleka kweengxube zangaphakathi. Ukususela ngamaxesha emini, yenza oko kuthiwa yi-Kegel yokuzivocavoca: cindezela uze uphumule ezo zihlunu ezikunceda ukugcina umgudu wokuvota. Oko oku kunika: kukho ukugeleza kwegazi kwizitho zentlanzi encinci kwaye ngenxa yoko - ukuvusa.
- Ukuphumla. Ngoko ke ukuqonda komfazi kuyilungiselelwe, ukuba akukho mzuzu yexesha xa iingcamango zakhe zingagcini. Zama ukucima ingqondo kwaye uvimbele ukuhamba kweengcamango, vele unike iimvakalelo zakho kwi-touch of a partner. Ungathembeli kwi-intuition yeqabane, mqondise, mxelele ukuba yintoni na ukuyenza kunye nendlela. Mamela iimvakalelo zakho: ngoncedo lwexinzelelo lomzimba kuya kuba lula ukunquma ukuba yeyiphi indawo olula ukuyifumana.
Zama ukulibazisa isisombululo ixesha elide, kuba iqabane lingenakukwazi ngalo. Indoda yakho ayikwazi ukuqonda indlela yokunceda umfazi wakho oyintanda ufumane i-orgasm, ude uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala.