Yintoni enokuyenza xa kungekho nto yokwenza? Abaninzi kulo mcimbi nje kuphela, oku kuthetha ukuba akukho nto yokwenza, ngoko kuya kuba ngumzuzu wokufumana ukhululekile! Kodwa hayi, kukho abantu abahluphekayo, bengayazi ukuba benzani nabo. Kanti ke, oogqirha basitshela ukuba imeko enjalo, xa kungekho nto yokwenza kwaye ingazi nto yokwenza, iyingozi kwimpilo yethu. Akunjalo ngenxa yokuba abantu banokwenza izinto ezinqabileyo kwi-boredom, kodwa kuba ubuchopho bethu budinga ukubonakala kwintsuku zonke. Kwaye ukuba azinjalo, ngoko imeko "Ndiyothuka kakhulu, akukho nto endiyenzayo" iya kukhula ibe yinto yokudakumba okukhulu. Ukuthintela oku kungenzeki, makhe sicinge kunye nento enokuyenza xa kungekho nto yokwenza.
Yintoni ongayenza ukuba unakho ixesha lokukhulula?
1. Okokuqala, kufuneka wenze uluhlu lweminqweno yakho. Thatha ipeni, iphepha, uhlale ukhululekile kwaye uqale ukufisa - bhala yonke into efika engqondweni, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo kukho izinto ode wafuna ukuzenza, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile zihlehlise iminqweno yeminqweno yobomi obungunaphakade. Ewe, ngoku umzuzu nje ufike xa unako, ukuba awuyi kwenza konke okwenzekayo, ke khumbula ubunqwenela zakho. Mhlawumbi ufuna ukuxhuma ngeparachute, ufunde ukudlala iibhilididi, ufunde incwadi? Okanye mhlawumbi ufune ukuphulaphula iingoma zomculi wakho ozithandayo ixesha elide, kodwa zonke izandla azizange zifikeleleke - ke akukho xesha, ngoko i-intanethi ayisebenzi kakuhle ngendlela efanele?
Naluphi na, uluhlu owenzile, kakuhle, wenzeni ntoni ngokulandelayo? Gxotha kunzima ukuzalisekisa iminqweno, njengendiza eya kwindawo kunye nobusuku noJohnny Depp. Ngaba wenza okufanayo? Ukugqwesa, khangela ukuba zininzi iindlela ozikhethile kwixesha elikhululekile. Kuhlala nje kuphela ukukhetha apho uqala khona kunye nexhala, indlela yokususa isandla.
2. Xa kungekho nto yokwenza, imidlalo iya kuhlangula. Xa uzikhethela khona-ngaba iya kuba ngumdlalo we-tennis, umdlalo we-chess okanye umdlalo we "ingwenya", apho udlala nabangani bakho. Akukho nkampani yemidlalo, ayiyikiyo xa kungekho nto yokwenza, i-Intanethi ngumhlobo olungcono. Apho ungayifumana ithoyilo kubathandi bakho - abahlaseli, ukugijima, ukudlala indima edlala intanethi. Ewe, ufuna imidwebo ibe yinto engathà sina, uye kwivenkile kwimidlalo yekhompyutha uze uqhubeke, bulala ixesha emva kweso sihlo. Nangona ungazange udlale imidlalo yekhompyutheni, zama ukuba ulahlekelwe, akukho nto yokwenza.
3. Ngendlela, ukuba awufuni ukudlala, unokufumana iincwadi kwi-Intanethi nakwiifilimu. Yintoni ongayibona, xa kungekho nto yokwenza? Ewe, kukuya kuwe ukugqiba oko uthanda ngaphezulu, uze ukhangele. Yaye ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuthatha intloko yakho, xubana nabantu abathandekayo abatshoyo, okubekwe kweso sithathu, okanye ukukhahlela kwisikrini - khangela ezinye izinto ezingekho kwisayensi ezingenasiphelo, eziye zenzeke kakhulu kwiivenkile zeTV nakwi-Intanethi. Ngoku ke ukutshitshiswa kweemoto okanye ipayi yokutshiswa kungahlaselwa kubafokazi, kwaye baqala ukubonakalisa le ngongoma yombono ngomphunga emlonyeni. Khangela, nwabisa.
4. Ngaba unabantwana, mhlawumbi ongeyakho, umntakwabo okanye umntakwabo, umzekelo? Buza, mhlawumbi umntwana akanako ukwenza.
5. Akunabantwana abasondelene nabo, kodwa akukho bani oya kwenza nabo? Ukukhangela ngokukhawuleza isibini, ubomi okanye iiveki ezimbalwa, le ndlela yokuphuma. Into eyona nto kukuba inkqubo yokufumana umdlalo omtsha uza kukusindisa kwi-boredom, kwaye ukhononda ukuba akukho nto yokwenza ebusuku, awuyi kukwazi.
6. Esinye isiqingatha, kodwa sithandekayo bobabini? Emva koko ukukhangela ukuzonwabisa omele ukutsala okwesibini. Cinga ngezinto othanda ukuzenza kunye, cinga ngokwakho isiko ubuncinane kanye ngenyanga ukwenza into entsha. Ukhangele kwaye ujonge, okuza kutyhola imvakalelo yakho embi kunye nexhala, kuya kufumaneka.