Kwihlabathi elikhohlakeleyo namhlanje, abanye abantu abanandaba nabanye. Abaninzi banomdla kuphela kwintlalo-ntle yabo, baqala ukulibala ukuba luncedo luni kunye nolunye uncedo. Kwingcaciso echazayo, la magama anentsingiselo efanayo, kwaye umntu akanako ukulibala ngabo.
Uncedo luni?
Akuyena wonke umntu onokukwazi ukujamelana nabo kwiimeko ezinzima. Isizathu silula - umzekelo, ummelwane wayekhohliwe ukuthenga ishukela kwaye wathabatha ikhofi yamasa. Akuyimfuneko ukugcina ubudlelwane obusondeleyo naye, kodwa kukufanelekile ukukhumbula oko kukuncedana kunye kunye nokwabelana ngezixhobo zakho. Ingxaki yomhlaba wonke inokukhathazeka ngempilo xa kungekho mali yokusebenza kongxamiseko. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba kukho umntu osondeleyo oza kunceda ngeli xesha.
Abantu kufuneka bancedisane, kumzuzwana onzima ukwandisa isandla. Le yindlela yoxolo. Uncedo lonxibelelwano luncedo kunye kunye nenkxaso kulowo mbandela. Ayifuni ukubuyela kwexabiso okanye izinto eziphathekayo. Ubudlelwane abufanele bakhelwe ngombono othi "Wena kum, mna kuwe." Ubomi bu boomangang, busekelwe kwizinto ezilungileyo kunye nezenzo ezintle.
Kutheni sifuna ukuxhaswa?
Umntu akakwazi ukuhlala yodwa ngaphandle kokuthetha nabanye abantu. Ubume bakhe bentlalo buyimvelo kunye kwaye luvela kumaxesha amandulo ukuya kwiintsuku zethu. Ukuncedana komnye nomnye kuye kwaba njalo. Liye latshintsha ixesha elide, kodwa isitshixo salo sisoloko sinye. Uncedo lwentlalo lubonakaliswe kwiimeko ezinzima, xa kungekhona nje umntu owaziwayo kodwa nomntu ongaphandle angena ekuhlanguleni.
Basenokungazazi kwaye abayi kuphinda badibane kwakhona. Umpasipoti-ngokubizwa ngokuba yi-ambulensi kumntu owayegula kwisitalato. Uxhasano olulandelayo alulindelanga kwixhoba lokubulela okanye umvuzo. Emva kokuba abonise uvelwano, umdluli-uyaqonda ukuba wenza into efanelekileyo. Imbuyekezo efanelekileyo kwaye uyaqiniseka ukuba akayi kuhlala yedwa xa imeko eyenzekayo.
Izindlela zokuncedana
Isilumko esilumkileyo siyaziwa: "Ukuba ufuna ukwazi umhlobo, mxelele intsalela yakho okanye wabelane nawe uvuyo." Umntu olungele ukuxhaswa kunye uya kuzama ukunikezela ngenkonzo enokwenzeka okanye ukuvuya ngokunyanisekileyo ngenxa yeempumelelo eziphunyeziweyo. Abantu abakhuliswe kwi-trust kunye nokuqonda, kulula ukuba bakhe ubudlelwane, kuba kukho umxholo "wokuncedana". Bayancedana ngamaxesha onke, ngenxa yokuba basinda kwaye bafezekisa iziphumo. Uncedo lwentlalo lungajongwa kumanqanaba amaninzi:
- kwinqanaba likarhulumente.
- ubonisa uthando;
- ubudlelwane kwintsapho.
Ifilimu malunga nokuncedisana
Enye yeentlobo zobugcisa ziifilimu. Zinikezelwa kubaphulaphuli ngababukeli, abo, emva kokubukela, babelana ngokubaluleka kwabo. Iifrimu malunga nokuncedisana kunye nabahlobo abazinikeleyo bafundisa kakuhle abantwana nabakudala.
- "Bhatala kwenye . " Ifilimu engavumeli ukulibala malunga nokuncedana kunye nokulungileyo, okushiyekanga kwihlabathi lanamhlanje. Umntwana onomoya ococekileyo uthathe ngokungathí sina umsebenzi wesikolo utitshala "Shintsha ihlabathi".
- "1 + 1" . Igama langaphambili lefilimu yaseFransi "Akunakwenzeka". Uhlobo lwe "umdlalo weqonga", olusekelwe kwiziganeko zangempela. I-aristocrate ecebileyo, okhubazekile ngenxa yengozi, ukhangela umncedisi.
- "I-Radio" . Ifilimu isekelwe kwiziganeko zangempela, zizele ububele kunye nokuqonda okufanayo, okwenzeka ngaphantsi kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje. Kodwa ukunceda ummelwane wakho uhlale usesihloko.
Iincwadi malunga nokuncedisana
Ukufunda iincwadi kwandisa ububanzi, kuphucula umhlaba wangaphakathi kunye wokomoya. Ukuchazwa ngokuxhamlayo kwimisebenzi yombhalo kuguqula abantu ukuba bangcono.
- "Iintonga zomhlobo" uJulia Ivanova. Umxholo wesifundo usifundisa ukuqonda ubuhle obujikelezayo kunye nokuvuma iimpazamo zethu. Ubuhlobo kunye nokuncedisana kunye kunye namaqhawe endleleni yokufezekisa injongo.
- "Yonke into ehlabathini ayikho ingozi" u- Olga Dzyuba. Ibali kunye nebali lomcuphi. Ukudibana nentombazana encinci nabantu abanomdla ababa ngabahlobo kwaye bancede ukulungisa imiba emininzi.
- "Ihlabathi ngamehlo kaKob Bob" uJames Bonouin. Le ncwadi isekelwe kwibali lokwenene. Incwadi enhle malunga nokuxhasana, umonde nokuzinikela. Ikati ebomvu igcine ubomi bomculi wesitalato. Ngenxa yomhlobo onobungozi, wanqoba ukunqwenela iziyobisi waza wabuyela ebomini obuqhelekileyo.