Ekuqaleni, i-term duality yayisasazeka kwiyeza. Ngokuqala i-ambivalence yaziwa ngenxa yesiNgqondo sesiFulentshi eBleuler kuma-1900. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, le ngcamango yaqala ukusetyenziswa kwiingcamango ze-psychoanalytic kunye nemisebenzi kaSigmund Freud.
Yintoni i-ambivalence?
Ukunyaniseka kuyintsebenzo engqondweni yomntu wobudlelwane nento kwaye oku kunokubangelwa ngamava, okanye ulwalamano olunxulumene nomxholo, kumntu njalo njalo. Iimeko apho ezimbini iimvakalelo eziphikisanayo zinokubambisana. Ukuze ufunde ngokupheleleyo ingcamango yokubambela, kuyimfuneko ukuyiqwalasela kwindlela yokujonga isingqondo neengqondo.
Yintoni i-ambivalence kwingqondo?
Ukuba asiyikunyaniseka, ukuba i-ambivalence yamagama yayisetyenziswa kuphela kwindawo yonyango, ingcamango yokuhlalisana kwemvakalelo ehlukileyo kwiingqondo zabantu iye yaziwa kakhulu kwi-psychoanalysis. Ukususela kwimbono yengqondo, umntu ongenamdla akasagulanga, kuba eli lizwe lingathintela nakanjani nawuphi na umntu, ummeli kuphela kwizinga lokubonakaliswa kwaloo rhulumente. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukunyameka kwengqondo kwisimo sengqondo kuyimvakalelo yokunyamekela nantoni na.
USigmund Freud wagxeka ukuba ukubonakaliswa okucacileyo kokubini kungabonakaliswa kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo ze-neurotic, ezibonakaliswe ngexesha elithile lophuhliso lomuntu. Kutheni i-psychoanalyst ihlawula ingqalelo kulo mbandela? Isiseko sihlala kwisakhiwo se-superego yabantu. Kukho izinto ezimbini ezingenakukwazi ukuzenza ubomi kunye nokufa okuye kwahlala kwimeko yengqondo yomntu ukususela ekuqaleni kwayo, okuyiyona nto ibonakalisa inkqubela.
Ukuqhubela phambili kule nto, ayikwazi ukuqinisekiswa ukuba le nto inokufumaneka, okanye ibangelwe yimibandela ethile, kodwa kufuneka kuphawulwe ukuba phambi kweemeko ezibangele ukungafani, eli lizwe lingaba yingozi kakhulu kwaye lenze izibandezelo zeentlungu kunye nemiphumo emibi. Izinto ezinokuzikhethela zingaba zilandelayo:
- umzamo wokutshintsha ingqalelo, okanye ukwandisa;
- ukusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa ze-psychotropic, i-anesthesia, ukusetyenziswa kotywala;
- iimeko ezenzakalisa ingqondo yomntu;
- ukuxinezeleka, ukuxinezeleka.
Kukho ingoma eyaziwayo ukuba ngenye indlela, iimvakalelo ezikhoyo okanye iingcamango ezinokungqubana nazo zingangena kwimpikiswano, ngenxa yoluphi urhulumente ongashenxisa omnye kwi-subconscious. Ngenxa yoko, akuyena wonke umntu okwazi ukubonisa ukungahambi kakuhle, okukhoyo kwiingqondo, malunga nezimo ezingamnandi ezikhulayo.
Ukungahambi kakuhle kwifilosofi
Iingcamango zobuntu kwifilosofi ibonwa njengesiqingqi-mfanekiso kwingqondo yomntu yeenkqubo eziphikisanayo. Ukuxhamla kobomi kuqulethwe emzabalazweni ohlala phakathi kokuhle nokubi, ekuzalweni nasekufeni, uthando kunye nenzondo. Ngesibili isibini indoda ixhomekeke kwiinkalo eziliqela ngokukhawuleza, ukwenza ukhetho, ukuvakalelwa nokudala enye okanye enye. Ubomi bomntu buzaliswe ngeemvakalelo ezininzi nezigqibo ezininzi.
Ukungahambi kunye nokuthanda
I-Ambitendency ithetha ukuphulwa kobunzima bokuziphatha kweemoto, ezibonakaliswa ngobumbano kwizenzo zezenzo ezizenzekelayo, okubangelwayo, ukuziphatha okungaqhelekanga. Le nto ibonakala ngokubonakalayo kubantu abano-schizophrenic ne-catatonic syndrome. Oko kukuthi, inqubo engabonakaliyo ingakhokelela kwisifiso somntu onesifo sengqondo.
Iimbangela zokungahambi
Izizathu ezibalulekileyo zobumbano zizinto ezikhethekileyo ezibonakaliswa kubantu.
- Ukungakwazi ukwenza nayiphi na isigqibo. Ukukhethwa phambi komntu kubakho ubomi, kwaye isigqibo ngasinye siquka imiphumo emibini, emihle kunye embi. Abantu abazama ukugwema ukwenza izigqibo bajamelana nempikiswano kwiqondo langaphakathi le-psychomotional, elikhokelela ekuhlaleni.
- Ukungaqiniseki kunye nokuxhaswa koyiko lokwenza isiphoso kungakhokelela ekuhambeni.
- Ukudandatheka okude, ukuxinezeleka, iimvakalelo ezibi - konke oku kunokubangela ukuphazamiseka kwengxaki.
Ulwabiwo olusenyongweni
Umntu luyinkimbinkimbi ekungekho ukuhambelana phakathi kweengcamango, izenzo kunye neminqweno. Imvakalelo yabantu, ingundoqo, ayinabumbano kunye nobunye. Singafumana iimvakalelo ezimbini eziphikisanayo kumntu omnye. Abayithandabuzi bathi: "Ndiyamthanda kwaye ndithiya" - kubonakala ngathi, umntu unokufumana njani ngexesha elifanayo?
Isimo sengqondo esingabonakaliyo singabonakaliswa ngokuvavanya kwangoko ukunyameka komama kumntwana kunye neemvakalelo zomsindo kunye nokucasula ekukhatheni, okanye uthando lomyeni wakhe nenzondo ebangelwa ngumona. Ubuninzi beemvakalelo lunokuba yinto eqhelekileyo kwimeko apho iimvakalelo eziphikisanayo zivuthayo kwaye ziphakame ngokukhawuleza, ngelixa zikhona iimvakalelo ezithile ezisisiseko somntu othize, umntu okanye isenzo.
Ukuxhaswa ngokwesondo
Amava omntu obomntu obuninzi kwimpilo yesondo ingabangelwa yimimiselo yobomi bezesondo, apho ivakalelo ezibangelwa ziingcamango zesondo zingaphakama. Ukongezelela, iimvakalelo ezingenakwenzeka zingabangelwa ubukho bexesha elifanayo kunye neengcinga zobundlobongela. Ngesinye isikhathi umntu unokufuna into ethi "i-sweet", kwaye isibini esilandelayo imnike "i-peppercorn".
Ulwabiwo lwesini
Ingxaki ukungaqiniseki komntu kwisini kunye nokuqhelana ngesondo. Akukho ziqinisekiso eziphathekayo kwingqondo yomntu - ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, inokukhawuleza phakathi kweenkcazo zayo, ingaqapheli ukuba yeyiphi indlela okufanele iyenze ngayo. Ukunyameka kweendlela zokuziphatha kungabangela ukukhangwa kwesimo sezesondo kubo bobabini nabesilisa.
Ukungahambi kakuhle kwintengiso
Isiqhotyoshelo esingummiselo sihlobo lwesinamathiselo, apho umntwana engazange aqiniseke ngeemvakalelo zakhe ngonina, uyamxeka, ngoko uzama ukumtsalisa, ngoko ngokuchasene naye. Ubonakalo obunjalo bungabonakala ngenxa yokungabi nethemba phakathi komama nomntwana wakhe. Imfundo yabantwana ngokukhawuleza, kunye nokukhawulelwa rhoqo kunye nemingcele, ngaphandle kokubonakaliswa kokufudumala, uthando kunye nokunyamekela, kukhokelela ekuhambeni komntu kwiimvakalelo kumntwana malunga nabazali.
Isiphumo saloo nto inokuba yinto ephikisanayo, ukugcinwa ngokugqithiseleyo kwabazali, ukungena kwisithuba somntwana kunye nokuqwalasela rhoqo, ngaphandle kwemimiselo. Ngenxa yolu hlobo lwemfundo, ukungahambi kakuhle kubonakala. Ngexesha elifanayo, ngokudala, umntu uya kuba:
- ngakumbi ukuzigxeka;
- qi niseki;
- ukungathembeki kwehlabathi elibangqongileyo;
- xho mekeke kulwalamano.
Ukungahambi kakuhle - njani ukulahla?
Ukunyaniseka - into edlalwa rhoqo engqondweni yomntu engabonakaliyo kwaye ayibandakanyi nayiphi na imiphumo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ukungahambi kakuhle kwemvakalelo, iimvakalelo, kubangela ukungakhululeki ekukhulumisaneni nabanye abantu kwaye ngokubanzi ebomini, ngoko kufuneka uqhagamshelane neengcali. Unyango lwe-ambivalence luquka izilungiso ezikhethiweyo ezifanelekileyo, ngokusekelwe kummandla jikelele womntu kunye nezizathu zokuvela kobuntu.
Kwonyango, iziyobisi onomsebenzi wokunciphisa imeko ye-pathological psyche kunye nokuzinzisa imeko ingasetyenziswa. Kukho iimeko xa isifo sifana, kunokusongela ubomi besigulane kunye nabanye, ngoko unyango kufuneka lwenziwe kwizibhedlele zengqondo. Kwiimpawu zokuqala zokungahambi kakuhle, njengembonakaliso yesimo sengqondo, umntu akufanele ahlanganyele ekuziphatheni, ngenxa yokuba oku akunakwenzeka nje ukuhluleka ukuvelisa iziphumo ezilungileyo, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukunyusa imeko.
Ngenxa yokuba u-ambivalence luphawu lwesimo sengqondo somntu, kubalulekile ukubeka esweni i-psyche yakho, qaphela nayiphi na inguqu. Ukuba uqala ukutyelela iingcamango ezingenakukwazi ukuzihlahlalisa wena, ngoko kufuneka ufune uncedo kumgqirha. Oku kuya kwenza kube lula ukufumanisa isifo kwiinqanaba zokuqala, eziza kubakhokela kakhulu unyango olulandelayo.