Ngaba kwenzeka ntoni kuwe ukuba uvuka ngosuku lweveki, endaweni yokuba uqale ukulungela umsebenzi, ufike nesizathu sokungahambi khona? Akunakufumana enye, usuku lonke lomsebenzi ukucinga: "Khawuleza ngokuhlwa, andifuni ukusebenza kuwo onke" kwaye ucinge malunga nento enokuyenza, ukuze ukubonakala komsebenzi kudalwe, kodwa akusebenzi. Kodwa xa befika ekhaya, befuna impendulo yombuzo othi: "Kutheni ndingathandi ukusebenza kuyo yonke into?" Isimo esaziwayo? Ewe, makhe sicinge into enokuyenza ngayo, kwaye emva koko "Andifuni ukusebenza kwakhona!" Kungekudala bonke oogxa baya kuchithachitha.
Kutheni ndingathandi ukusebenza?
Ukuqonda oko kufuneka ukwenze ngokungabikho komnqweno wokusebenza, kufuneka uqonde ukuba kutheni le meko isebenza? Kwisizukulwana esidala, umbuzo wokuba umntu akafuni ukusebenza awuyi kuba nzima, bacinga ukuba abantu abaselula abafuni ukwenza oku kumgaqo, kakuhle, bakhululekile ezintanyeni zabazali. Oku kuyinyaniso, kodwa kunjalo akusiyo yonke into enyanisekileyo, kungekhona umfundi ngamnye wezolo efuna ukuzondla ngeendleko zabazali bakhe, baninzi bafuna ukuzimela baze benze imizamo.
Ukubuza umbuzo ofanayo kumphathi, uya kuphulaphula intetho ngesihloko esithi "akukho mntu ufuna ukusebenza ngaphandle kwam."
Ngoko ngubani olungile? Emva koko, zombini imibono ayifanelekanga kwimeko yakho, kunjalo? Ngoko kufuneka sijonge enye into. Ngokomzekelo, umnqweno owaziwayo phakathi kwabesifazane "Andifuni ukusebenza kuwo onke, ndifuna ukutshata." Yonke intombazana yesithathu ayifuni ukusebenza, kodwa iphupha lokufumana umxhasi oya kunika. Ewe, umfazi osekhulile ufuna ukusebenza, angazikhumbuli iintsuku zokuzalwa zabantwana kunye nokulibala ngokutya okumnandi kumyeni wakhe? Ewe, hayi, kunye neminyaka emininzikazikazi iyaqonda ukuba injongo yabo kukudala ubumnandi, ukugcina indawo, kwaye abafuni ukuva malunga naziphi na izihlalo eofisini. Kwaye akukho nto iphulo-mthetho kwiminqweno enjalo.
Yintoni na, akunjalo? Nonke ixesha ndandizibona ngendima yengcali enekhono, mhlawumbi neyinkwenkwezi yezoshishino, kodwa ngoku yonke into iyanqunyulwa, awufuni nto na? Mhlawumbi oku kungenxa yokudakumba? Ewe, khumbula indlela ochitha ngayo iveki yakho - kunye nabahlobo, abahlobo, ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya, uzinakekele, ngokubanzi, uvuyo kwaye ujabule, kude kube ngoMvulo? Ukuba awunayo amandla kwaye unqwenela ukwenza nantoni na ngeempelaveki, ngoko, mhlawumbi, unesixinzelelo, ukujamelana nalo, kwaye umnqweno wokusebenza uza kubuya. Kodwa ukuba inkcazo iyahambelana, kwaye ukuhla kwamandla kugcinwa kuphela ngeentsuku zeveki, kwaye akukho nto igxininisekile, yinto enye - umsebenzi ulahlekelwe ngumdla kuwe, ngoko ke kufuneka ukuba uzitshitshise ngaphandle kwebhedi ngokoqobo ngeenwele.
Andifuni ukusebenza - ndimele ndenze ntoni?
Akunomdla ukusebenza, ngoko awufuni ukwenza, njani ukunqoba lo rhulumente? Okokuqala, makhe sibone ukuba kutheni abathandekayo ngaphambili, umsebenzi owawuzisa umnwabo waba mnzondo.
- Uziva uhlala ungenalo ulwazi, kufuneka ufune iingcebiso, ngoko ke ukungaqiniseki, ukukhathala nokungafuni ukwenza izinto ongazifundile. Ukuba kunjalo, ngoko kufuneka senze isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukuqhubeka nokukwenza oku, ukuba impendulo yakho ifanelekile, iingxaki zakho zixazululwe yi-self-education. Oku kukufunda kweencwadi ezizodwa, kunye nezifundo kunye nokuqeqesha.
- Awuyithandi umsebenzi ngenxa yokuba awunalo ithuba lokuphuhlisa, baye baphumula "kwisilwanyana." Yintoni enokuyenza apha? Ukubonakalisa ubuchule babo kubunkokeli nokucela ukuqinisekiswa kwesi simo esitsha (ingcali ephezulu, umphathi weprojekthi, njl.) Kunye nomvuzo.
- Ngokungekho unomdla kwizinto ozenzayo kwaye wenze ngokulandelayo awufuni. Kwenzeka, emva kwexesha uqonda ukuba lo msebenzi awuwakho, ngoko ke awuyi kuvuya kuyo, kwaye umvuzo omhle awukwazi ukuhlawula le nyaniso. Kwaye kukuthintela ukuthini ukuqala kwakhona? Musa ukwesaba oku, ukungabikho kolwazi kuhlale kugcwaliswa, kodwa umnqweno ongekho ndawo awuyi kubonakala. Umqeshi uya kunika umntu ongenamava kakhulu, kodwa ngamehlo avuthayo, kunengcali ephilileyo engenazo iimbono kwaye akafuni ukunikela ngokusemandleni akhe emsebenzini.