Inkolelo enjalo njengobundlobongela bemilwimi yanamhlanje iyinto eqhelekileyo. Ukuba udibanisa kwezinye iindawo, ubugwenxa bubunzima bezinto eziyingozi, kwaye "ukuthetha" kuthetha ukuba kubonakaliswe kwimiba yengqondo, kwintsebenziswano yoluntu. Ngoko, lo ngumnqweno omnye okanye ubuninzi bobuqu bokuhlazisa isidima, iimvakalelo zabanye. Ubundlobongela bunokuzibonakalisa ngendlela yeengxelo ezibalulekileyo, izigwebo.
Ulwaphulo lomlomo nolungenagama
Ukutshutshiswa kwamagama kukukhathaza, kukudandathekile, ukucaphuka, akukhethiwanga ukuba awuyi kuphuculwa ngeempendulo. Ngoko, ulwaphulo-mthetho lwamagama unokutshatyalaliswa kwaye ngenxa yeenkonzo ezingenamkhethe kuwe esitolo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukungabikho komzimba kwenzeka phakathi kwabatshatileyo, abazali kunye nabantwana.
I-Nonverbal yinkalo yezibonakaliso ezibonisa isimo sengqondo esinobudlova. Ngamanye amagama, uphawu lweelwimi lubonisa iinjongo zaloo mva malunga nobuntu bakho.
Ulwaphulo lomzimba kunye nokuthetha
Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukubonakaliswa rhoqo kobutshaba ngokwenyama kubonakala kwindoda, ngelixa izityholo zabasetyhini. Ngoko, uhlobo lokuqala lobudlova lubonakaliswa ngokuchithwa ngokuzikhethela kwezinto ezahlukeneyo, ngokuzithoba ngamabango iingcango, ngokukhankanya itafile ngokubhekiselele kwiphezu letafile (ezo zibonakaliso zingekho ngqo). Ulwaphulo olusesikweni olwenzeka ngqo xa kwenzeka ukuhlaselwa komntu.
Ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo kuthetha ukuxhaphazwa ngamagama, okuchazwa kumntu, kwaye kungabonanga ngqo - emva komntu .
Utshutshiso lwamazwi kulutsha
Ubunzima bokubonakaliswa kweempawu ezinobundlobongela ekuziphatheni kwentombazana kuxhomekeke, okokuqala, malunga nokukhuliswa komntwana kwakukho kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi bakhe. Ngokomphando, amakhwenkwe abonakaliswe ngokunyanzeliswa ngokomlomo nangokwemlomo, kunye namantombazana-ngokuthetha ngokuchanekileyo nangokungaqondakali (okokugqibela kuthathwa njengento eqhelekileyo).
Kumele kugxininiswe ukuba ukubonakaliswa okugqithisileyo kokunyanzeliswa kwezivakalisi kufumaneka
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Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba uyisisulu somgxeke, zama ukuzenzela kunye kwaye ungaphenduli ngokunyaniseka. Oku kwandisa nje imeko ngokudala iingxabano ezingadingekile. Kwimeko apho kubonakala ngathi kuncinci kwaye uya kuhlaselwa ngentshukumo yomlomo, ingqondo uzibeke kwindawo yeglasi apho i-negative contact interlocutor ayiyi kuchaphazela uxolo lwakho.