Kwiengqondo, kukho imigaqo emininzi, intsingiselo yayo ayisoloko icacile. Esinye sinjalo sisindayo. NgesiNgesi kuthetha "ukusindiswa", "ukusinda". Ukusindiswa kubonakaliswa ngumnqweno wokubalekela kwinyani kunye nokuhlala kwilizwe lakho elicingayo.
Ukusinda - yintoni na?
Ukusasazeka yinto yentlalo, eyenziwa ngumnqweno womntu okanye iqela labantu ukuba balahle imilinganiselo evumelekileyo yobomi kuluntu. Isiseko sokungabikho kokusindiswa ngumbuzo wokuchaneka nokuphinda ucinge kwakhona ngemimiselo eyamkelwa luluntu, iguqule kwiingcamango ezithile. Isimo esiphezulu sokuvela kweso siqalo sikarhulumente ophucukileyo kakhulu, apho ukuhlaziywa kwezinto kungabikho ekufeni, njengakudala, xa isigwebo sezobugebengu obunzulu sasishenxisiwe kwaye sineenkcukacha.
Escapism - Psychology
Ukusasazeka kwengqondo kungabonwa njengesifo esahlukileyo. Iigama zonyango alisebenzisi eli gama, kodwa kwezinye iimeko le nto ibonakala njengemania. Ukuze umntu azinakho ukuzilawula kwaye angayi kucima ngokupheleleyo kwihlabathi eliyingcinga, akasengozini. Ukusasazeka kungasebenza okanye kungabonakali. Kwimeko esebenzayo, ibonakala:
- msebenzi;
- u kufunda;
- midlalo.
Ukusinda okungapheliyo kubonakala:
- kucamngca;
- iincwadi zokufunda;
- ukubukela ama-movie.
Ukusinda - Iingxaki
Ukusasazeka njengento yentlalo ingazibonakalisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo liphupha okanye umdlalo weengcamango okanye umcabango. Ngomzamo wokudala ihlabathi eligqibeleleyo kubo, abantu bexesha la mandulo beza neenkonzo okanye iinkonzo apho ngamnye ethatha indawo yakhe. Nangona kunjalo, kukho nezinye izizathu ezinzulu zokubonakalisa ukuphepha. Oku kunokuba ngengozi yengqondo okanye ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweengcamango ngokungenasidingo.
Ezi zizwe zibonakaliswa kubalandeli beentlobo zezinto ezingabonakaliyo, abadlala ingcaka kunye nabadlali bee-movie. Aba bantu baxiliswe kwihlabathi labo eliqingqiweyo ukuba kunzima ukubuyela enyanisweni. Kwezinye iimeko, le meko inokubangela ukuba i-escapism enobudlova. Phakathi kobuntu "abaxhomekeke kuye", iingcali zihlukanisa ababaleki abangaqhelekanga, abaye baphumelela kwizinto eziyimpumelelo baphela ngokukhubazeka kwengqondo nangokwengqondo, kunye nabangqinelanayo, abanokuzimela ngokufanelekileyo nangokuzimela "babuyele" kwinyani.
Yintoni eyingozi yokusinda?
Ngokwamabhali amaninzi eencwadi zonyango, iimpawu zokuphepha kunye ne-autism zifana noko. Abagunyazisi abakwazi ukuhlalisana kunye nokuseka uxhulumaniso kunye nehlabathi langaphandle. Ukusasazeka - "isifo" sesimo sengqondo, apho "abagulayo" abakwazi ukubuyela kwihlabathi lenene. Uphawu oluphambili lwaloo mathambo kukuba i- autistics , ngokungafani nabaphunyuli, abanalo ihlabathi elingaphakathi.
Ukusinda - indlela yokulahla?
Ukususela kumayeza aseburhulumenteni ukufumana impendulo kumbuzo othi: "Ukunyuka - yintoni na?" Awuyi kuphumelela, iindlela zokuwususa kufuneka zijonge ngokuzimela. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba ukucinga kwakho kukuthintela ekubeni uphile, kufuneka uzame ukulahla "iiglasi ezinemibala" kunye nokubuyela kwi nyaniso. Ukuze ufumane indlela yakho yokujamelana nokuphepha, kufuneka uhlalutye ngokucophelela ubomi bakho, zivumele ukuba ungene kwilizwe lakho. Zenzele uluhlu lwamatyala nokuphunyezwa kweengcamango ezincinci. Ngokuphunyezwa kwabo ebomini awuyi kuba nexesha lokungazi.
Ukusasazeka kwi-cinema
Ehlabathini lanamhlanje kukho imizekelo emininzi yokusinda. Ingabonwa kuphela kwimeko yabantu bokwenene, kodwa nakwiincwadi nakwiifilimu. Imizekelo embalwa yendlela yokuphunyuka kwezinto ezikhutshwa ngayo kwiifilimu:
- "Abathandayo" (iFransi, 1958) - ibali malunga neengonyama zezulu uJeanne Tournier, ongenayo impazamo yezinto eziphathekayo kwaye unakho konke ubomi obonwabileyo, kodwa engenasithelo esomileyo esenza ukuba aphile.
- "Ubaba onohambo loshishino" (Yugoslavia, 1985) - ifilimu ngamehlo omntwana oneminyaka emithandathu ubudala, owathi ngale ndlela uchaza ukuba engekho rhoqo kwipapa kufuphi naye.
- "Abaphuphi" (iBrithani enkulu-Italy-France, 2003) - abathathu abatsha bahlala kwihlabathi labo, babukele iifilimu kwaye bawubhale ingqalelo kwimiboniso yezitalato, izakhiwo ezakhiweyo.
- "Izidalwa zasezulwini" (iNew Zealand, 1994) - ifilimu ngokuphathelele "ubomi obutsha" bomfundi wesikolo wasePolin, owatshintsha emva kokubonakala komfundi waseYuliet kunye naye.