Ubume kuthi unomnqweno wokukhetha amaqabane aphilileyo kunye noqinileyo. Kodwa kubalulekile kungekuphela kwempilo yomzimba, isimo sengqondo kubalulekile, kuphela ukuba ukuziphendukela kwemvelo lilibale ukubeka iinkqubo zokuqatshelwa kwephulo kule ndawo, ngoko ke kufuneka uthembele kuphela engqondweni yakho. Ukuze kube lula ukuhlalutya, kukho impawu ezisixhenxe zomntu onempilo, oza kuwuqwalasela xa udibana. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akunakwenzeka ukuba uhlalutyo oluchanekileyo luya kwenziwa kwiindawo zazo, kodwa uya kukwazi ukuba ulindele ntoni kumhlobo omtsha.
Iimpawu ezisixhenxe zendoda enempilo
- Unempilo engcolileyo . Akumelanga ngamahlaya "ngaphantsi kwebhanti", kodwa malunga nokuhleka kweengqondo. Oku kuluvo oluhle lufaka ubungqina, kwaye malunga nomsebenzi ofanelekileyo we-lobes yangaphambili yengqondo ithi. Kuyafaneleka ukubeka ingqalelo ngendlela yokuhleka - umlomo ovulekileyo, intloko ephosiweyo kunye nokukhala okukhulu kunokuthetha ngothando lokungcatsha okanye kuba ngumqondiso weengqondo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuzithintela okuqhelekileyo akukona uphawu oluhle - kunokwenzeka ukuba unyanzelekile ukuvela kweengqondo ngaphezu kwezinto eziphathekayo. Kwaye akunako ukukwazi ukujamelana nokukhangela kubhekisela kumntu okhuselekileyo.
- Uyazi ukupheka . Akukona ngamakhono ompheki, kodwa malunga nezakhono zokuqala zokupheka, kunokwaneleyo ukuba ube nezitya zombini zesithsaba. Oku kuya kuthetha ngokukhula kwengqondo kunye nomoya onoxanduva.
- Ukuba nomdla wokuzonwabisa . Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuzilibazisa kwakho kunokubonakala kukukhathazayo, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba loo ndoda ngokwakhe wayenomdla kumsebenzi wakhe, ewe, ngaphandle kobuqili. Kubalulekile ukunyamekela xa unomdla wokugembula okanye imidlalo yekhompyutha. Iyakwazi ukuthetha ngomnqweno wokufumana yonke into ngaphandle kokusebenzisa umzamo, kunye nokuzithemba. Ngokudibanisa nothando lotywala, unokrokrela ukuxelwa kobuqhetseba kunye nokuchithwa kwengqondo.
- Amandla okuthatha uxanduva . Bona indlela isebenza ngayo kwiimeko ezilukhuni - iqala ukuzithethelela iimpazamo, ukugxeka abanye okanye ukuzenza iimpazamo zayo, ukufumana izigqibo kwixesha elizayo.
- Unako ukuthetha ngokufanelekileyo . Ngokuqhelekileyo isebenzisa intetho yokubhala, i-lexicon ehlazo, xa isetyenziswe, ngoko kwimeko ekhethekileyo.
- Akayeki i-sweet sweet . Oku kubonisa ukubonelela okwaneleyo kweeseli zesisongelo kunye nokunyamekela ukulungisa iingxaki ngokuzinzileyo, ngaphandle kobugwenxa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kusebenza kubantu abathintekayo kumnandi ngenxa yezizathu zempilo.
- Uyakhangwa ngamaqatha amabhinqa . Abaqhagamshelisi beefom ezingabonakaliyo bavame ukubonisa u- infantilism kunye nokungaxanduva, ngaphandle koko kungabonakalisa ukunyaniseka kweentlobano zesini kunye nobungqingili. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukungabikho kwezi zi-7 zeempawu zendoda ephilileyo ngokwengqondo aziqinisekisi naluphi na ukuphambuka. Kukulungele ukulinda, ukuba nje kuphela akayikuqonda uhlobo lwesibini lomfazi, okanye kumabhankini, okanye kumaphephancwadi, ukuqwalasela iifom ezithandekayo.
Ngokwemvelo, ukufumana umlingane ochaze ngokufanayo iimpawu ezi-7 zomntu onempilo enzima kunzima, iinjongo azifumaneki kwindalo. Kuphela ngokuvavanya olwaziyo olutsha, cinga ngeyiphi na
Ukulondoloza impilo yengqondo
Ingqungquthela yesimanje ibe yimbangela yeziphazamiso ezahlukahlukeneyo zesifo, kunye nemiphumo yokuxinwa kunzima kakhulu ukuba amadoda ahlupheke ngenxa yokungathandeki ukuqonda ukuba khona ubuthathaka. Ngoko ke, nangona unomfundi ofanelekileyo, kunye nazo zonke iimpawu ezisixhenxe zomntu onempilo, akufanele ucinge ngaye njengodonga olungonakaliyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo imbangela yeengxaki zamadoda yintombi leyo, endaweni yokuncedisa iqabane kwiimeko ezixinzelelekileyo, iyancwina kunye nokuhlambalaza kwayo. Ngoko phatha ngononophelo ubuncwane obunjalo, njengengqondo enempilo yomntu wakho.