Akukho nto iluncedo kwaye ibaluleke ngakumbi kwimpilo yengane kunobisi lomama. Ngale nto kunzima ukungavumelani. Ngethuba ngalinye lokuphuhliswa kwalo umntwana ufumana i-protein, i-fat, i-carbohydrates, iivithamini kunye neemaminerali, kunye nama-antibodies. Akukho mxube owenziweyo unokuziqhayisa ngohlobo olunjalo. Ukongezelela, boomama nabantwana abaselula banokufumana ukuzonwabisa okungenakuqhathaniswa kwenkqubo yokutya, izibophelelo zabo zengqondo nezengqondo ziqiniswa. Nangona kunjalo, ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva zonke iziphumo ezilungileyo. Yaye ukuba ngaba oomama umbuzo wokuba kuyimfuneko kangakanani ukunyusa umntwana, unqume ikhowudi yomsebenzi, namhlanje namhlanje umfazi ngamnye ukhetha ukuba uncelise kangakanani umntwana wakhe.
Kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukubelesa? Kukholelwa ukuba umntwana kufuneka ancelise iintsuku zokuqala ezintandathu zokuphila kwakhe. Ootitshala bezilwanyana bayacetyiswa ukuba bandise eli xesha, ubuncinane ukuya kwiinyanga ezili-12. UMbutho WezeMpilo Wehlabathi ucebisa ukuba uhlale uncelisayo kuze kube ngumntwana ubuncinane ubuneminyaka emi-2 ubudala. Namhlanje unina abaninzi banomdla wokunyusa abantwana ixesha elide-ukuya kwi-3-5 iminyaka. Kuthathwa njengokwenzakalayo ukutya ngaphambi kokuzikhupha. Nangona kunjalo, eli cwangciso alwamkelekanga kuwo wonke umntu. Ukongezelela, abafazi abaselula bavame ukuphulaphula iingcebiso kubagogo noomama-ukunyusa unyaka owodwa.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kufike kumama ukuba anqume ukuba unamancinyane kangakanani umntwana. Ukuba uyafuna, kwaye kungenjalo akukho mithintelo, unokutya ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye unyuke unyaka, kwaye ufike kwiminyaka emithathu. Iminyaka eyiyo yokugqiba ukuncelisa ilanga yiminyaka eyi-1-1.5. Ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo, qhagamshelana nodokotela wezingane. Khumbula ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba unzima kangakanani ukugqiba ukunyamezela, usinako ukuthambisa umntwana ukuba:
- umntwana wagula;
- Kwaqala ixesha elifudumeleyo (entwasahlobo-ehlobo);
- Usapho lwakho kunye nomntwana uya kuba nesiganeko esibalulekileyo (ukuhamba, ukuhamba, uhambo lokuqala ukuya enkulisa).
Unokuncancisa kangakanani ulwabelelo olubangelwa yi-intuition, umbandela ophezulu apha yile impilo yengane, yakhe kunye nokuzimisela kwakho ukuzalisa ukuncelisa.