Luhlobo luni lothando?

Ngelishwa, ubomi abuhlali bufana neenganekwane, kwaye sonke siyakuthanda ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ngoko makhe sizame ukubona uhlobo luthando.

Phakathi kwethu akukho bantu bohlobo olufanayo, oku kuthetha ukuba wonke umntu ubona uthando ngendlela yakhe.

1. Uthando ngumkhuba. Abantu abaninzi bayazi uthando, ezithandwayo ngeendlela ezininzi. Kuphela abantu abahlala kunye kunye, mhlawumbi, bengenazo iimvakalelo ezijulile, basebenzisane omnye nomnye: ngamanye amaxesha - zombini, ngamanye amaxesha - elinye lamalingani. Ababa nesabelo esichukumisayo , kodwa, ngakumbi, ukwesaba ukulahleka. Ziyintoni ezoyika ukulahlekelwa? Omnye-imali kunye nenduduzo; umntu - umxholo wokhuseleko kunye nokuzinza, kwaye umntu ubambe ukwesaba ukuhlaliswa okanye ukugwetywa kwezihlobo kunye nabahlobo. Kukhona uthando kuphela.
2. Kukhona olunye uhlobo lothando-olu lububungqina bothando , xa, ngenxa yolonwabo, inhlalakahle, umsebenzi ophumelelayo omnye, umlingane wesibini ulungele ukubeka isigqibo sakhe esibingelelweni sobomi. Olunye uhlobo lothando lusondele kuye: uthando kukunqula.
3. Uthando luyaziwa -umbingelelo . Le nqanaba eliphezulu lolwalamano, xa ngenxa yolonwabo, kunye nobomi bomlingane wakho, omnye ulungele ukunikela ubomi babo.

Ziziphi iimvakalelo zothando?

Isilinganiselo senyama sibubanzi: ukususela kwintliziyo yolonwabo kunye nolonwabo olupheleleyo kwintlungu kunye nenzondo.

Masiqale ngokugqibela. Kubonakala ngathi uthando nothando aluhambelani, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo size sikhumbule ukuba ukususela kwindiva enye ukuya kwesinye - isinyathelo esinye kuphela.

Ngokwe-melancholy, inetoni ye-shades kwaye imiselwe imeko: "Ndikukhumbula, kuza ngokukhawuleza", okanye "Undishiyile, andiyazi ukuba ndingaphila", njl njl.

Kuhle xa ubudlelwane phakathi kobambiswano luyakhelwa ngentlonipho kwaye lubangela uvuyo lwentsebenziswano. Ngexesha elifanayo, yonke into encinci inokukukholisa kwaye ulapha kweli lizwe, nguye ohlala kuyo. Nangona kunjalo, akunakucatshangelwa ukukhathazeka ngomntu othandekayo, osondeleyo nothandayo.

Uthando alunakwenzeka ngaphandle kokholo, okulula ukulahleka, kodwa kunzima ukubuyisela. Ukungathembeki kubangela ukuvakalelwa okunzima kwaye kunzima - umona, oshisa phakathi kwababini amaqabane kunye nokuphelisa ubomi babo.

Uthando aluthuli, lune "ilwimi" lwazo, kodwa iibini zithetha zodwa okanye zimbalwa.

Bathi ukuze ukwazi zonke iziqhelo zoluvo, kuyimfuneko ukuqonda ukuba zeziphi iilwimi zintlanu zothando ezisetyenziselwa izibini zothando.

Makhe sithethe ngolwimi luthando

Ziziphi iilwimi ezithandayo uthando?

Kwabanye, lawa ngamazwi akhuthazayo afunekayo amaqabane omabini. Kwabanye, le ngqalelo engacatshangelwayo enye iqabane elifunayo kwelinye. Ngendlela, abafazi banako ukuthetha ngolwimi olunjalo. Uyakuqonda oku okulandelayo - ulwimi lwezipho. Ngethamsanqa, kukho enye: ulwimi loluncedo, ukunakekelwa, inkxaso. Ulwimi oluhle kakhulu!

Kwaye inqanaba eliphezulu leelwimi liqhagamshelana nomzimba, xa zombini amaqabane adibana, adibanisa kwelinye aze athethe ulwimi olunye - uthando kunye nothando.

Uyamthanda!

Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, xa kufikelele ekuthandeni, baninzi bahlala bethetha ngendlela indoda ifanele ukubonakalisa ngayo uthando lwakhe kwintombazana yakhe, kodwa isiqingatha esinamandla asiyi kubuhlungu ukuqonda uhlobo luthando lomntu.

Qaphela ukuba akunzima kakhulu. Ngothando Intombazana izama ukugqoka, ukupheka, ukuyithenga, oko kukuthanda kwayo. Akaphuthelwa ithuba lokudumisa ingqondo, amandla, ubuchule, ubuchule benkwenkwe, aphendulela kuye iingcebiso, uyaqwalaselwa ngombono wakhe kunye nokuthandayo.

Imvelaphi yale mvakalelo ephakamileyo ingaqatshelwa ngokukwazi ukuba ziphi iimpawu zothando. Phakathi kwabo: ukucinga komntu othandekayo (intanda), umnqweno woba kunye kunye kunye nokuxazulula iingxaki ezivela kunye; ukulungele ukulandela intanda ukuya ekupheleni kwehlabathi kunye nokwesaba ukulahlekelwa yiyo; ukungakholelwa kwinto yokuba uthando "aluhlali ngonaphakade."

Uthande kwaye ukhumbule ukuba uncedo olubalulekileyo kunothando yintliziyo yakho.