Izibonakaliso zabafazi abakhulelwe babekho ngexesha lonke. Nangona uluntu lwangoku, lubonakala lukhululekile ekucaleni, kholelwa kwiimpawu ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ngokomzekelo, abafazi abakhulelweyo abakwazi ukujonga izinto ezimbi nezoyikisayo. Iyeza zanamhlanje zichaza lo mqondiso ngale ndlela: owesifazane okhulelwe unokufumana ukwesaba okanye uxinzelelo, okukhokelela kwimiphumo emibi. Phantse yonke imimiselo yesizwe yokukhulelwa ifunyenwe ukulungiswa kwezonyango, kwaye amabhinqa ekhulwini elinamashumi amabini anesibini ayilandela imiqondiso esekelwe kwiingcebiso ezibonakalayo ezivela koogqirha.
Zonke iimpawu zentlobo yabasetyhini abakhulelweyo babuya kula maxesha xa iyeza lingenawo amandla kwizifo ezininzi. Abafazi bazama ukulumkisa malunga nazo zonke iintlobo zezifo ngokuncediswa kwemithetho ethile, eyaba yimiqondiso emva koko. Cinga iimpawu eziphambili ezinxulumene nokukhulelwa kwaye uzama ukuqonda oko bakuxwayisayo malunga nabo.
- Awukwazi ukudibanisa, ukululeka, izambatho akufanele zibe namaqhina. Lo mqondiso wazalwa xa kwakukho ileta e-nodular eRussia. Iintambo kunye nemicu ngaloo mihla yayifanekisela intambo. Kwakukholelwa ukuba iingubo ezithile zembatho zingabangela ukuba umntwana angene entanyeni yokuzalwa.
- Awukwazi ukuthunga kunye nokucoca. Ukuthunga ixesha elide kwisimo esingenakukhuseleka kunokuphazamisa ukusasazwa kwegazi kumzimba kamama. Ngoko ke, ukwenza isaliti, kufuneka uguqule i-pose yakho rhoqo ngezikhathi uze ufudumale.
- Awukwazi ukusika iinwele - ukuzalwa kwangaphambi kokuzalwa kwangaphambili ngesiphumo esibulalayo (umama okanye umntwana) unokwenzeka. Kwixesha la mandulo kwakukholelwa ukuba inwele zomntu yindlela yokuphila. Iyeza zanamhlanje ziphikisa ezi nkolelo zabesetyhini abakhulelweyo kwaye zivumela ukuba zikhuliswe ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
- Awukwazi ukuhlala, uphonsa unyawo lwakho emlenzeni wakho - umntwana angalwa ngeemilenze eziphosakeleyo. Lo mqondiso woogqirha, kwakhona, udibene neyethuba leengxaki zokujikeleza.
- Awukwazi ukuphakamisa izandla zakho phezulu (ngentla kwentloko yakho) - umntwana uya kugxinwa kwintambo yomlomo. Ukusuka kwimbono yezokwelapha, lo mqondiso awukho ngaphantsi kwezigaba zokukhulelwa. Kodwa kwiiveki ezingama-20 ukuya kwezi-22 ezi zinto akunakwenzeka - kunokwenzeka ukulimaza i-amniotic bladder nokuzalwa kwangaphambi kokuzalwa.
- Awukwazi ukudlala nekati - umntwana uya kuba neentshaba. Iikati, ngokwenene, zingalimaza kakhulu umfazi okhulelwe, kuba bathutha i-toxoplasmosis.
- Awukwazi ukuthetha ngokukhulelwa kwakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kwiminyaka emininzi edlulileyo, abantu babengayazi indlela yokuphatha izifo zokuqala zokukhulelwa. Ngoko ke, nayiphi na ingxaki zempilo kumfazi okhulelwe odibana nelihlo elibi. Ukuthetha okanye ukuxelela abanye ngokukhulelwa ngumcimbi womntu ngamnye kumama ozayo. Nangona kunjalo, izazi zeengqondo azicebisi ukuba zichaze ezi ndaba, ukuba kukho ubuncinci ithuba lokukhulelwa kwesisu.
Kusukela mandulo, kukho iimpawu zokukhulelwa. Le miqondiso yasivumela ukuba sifunde ngento echaphazelekayo yabasetyhini, kwaye oogogo-nkulu bafunda ukufundela amaphupha okufanekisela ukukhulelwa. Umqondiso obaluleke kakhulu wokuba ubambe iintlanzi ephupheni. Nangona kunjalo
Abasetyhini banamhlanje baqwalasela kakhulu imiqondiso yabasetyhini abakhulelweyo, okucacisa ngesondo somntwana:
- ukuba intliziyo ibetha ngokuphindaphindiweyo - ulinde le nkwenkwe;
- ukuba umntwana ususwe kwicala lasekhohlo - intombazana;
- ukuba umchamo ubonakale ophuzi - kuya kuba nenkwenkwe;
- kwaye ukuba kwisisu ibharki ukuya ngakwesobunxele kwintolongo yintombazana.
Kholwa okanye ungakholelwa ukuba iimpawu zamandulo zabantu ziyimicimbi yomntu ngamnye kumfazi. Ungayilandela imiqondiso yokuba uxolo lwakho lwengqondo. Kodwa into ephambili kumama ozayo kukuvuya kwiindawo zakhe ezintle imihla ngemihla.