Iingxelo zefeythi zonyango zixhobo esilula, kodwa esisebenzayo. Ulwaphulo lwetekisi luboniswa kubantwana abancinci nabantwana abadala. Ukwesaba, i-phobias, ixesha elinzima ebomini, kuyafaneleka ukuba uhlale phantsi kwaye uphume ngefriythi apho iqhawe eliqaqambileyo liphuma kwiimvavanyo ezahlukeneyo kwaye lomelele ngakumbi - kwaye ngokwenene izinto ezibonakalayo kunye nezoyika zihamba.
Iingxelo zonyango - yintoni na?
Ulwaphulo lwenkcazo luyikhokelo kwengqondo evumela ukuba wenze imimangaliso yenguqu kwindawo ekhuselekileyo yomntwana kunye nomntu omdala, usombulule iingxaki eziyinkimbinkimbi, ufanise inyaniso entsha kunye nenxalenye yezikhalazo ezindala, uzive "iimvakalelo" ukuze uzilahle ngokupheleleyo. Iingxelo zefestile zezilwanyana zasesikolweni ngokubambisana nomdlalo ziyinxalenye ebalulekileyo ekuphuhliseni ngokupheleleyo kwengqondo yengane .
Nguwuphi umsebenzi weengxelo zefestile?
Iincwadana ezimfutshane zonyango ziqulethwe ngolu hlobo okanye lo mlingiswa kwifomu echanekileyo, kodwa oku akulahlekelwa yintengo yayo kwaye ithwala umthwalo othile we-semantic. Imisebenzi yeengqondo zeengqondo ze-psychotherapeutic:
- ngendlela elula, badlulisela izinto ezibalulekileyo zobomi;
- kufunda ubuhle;
- uncede ukuhlangabezana nomzekelo wamaqhawe aneengxaki;
- qulathe ulwazi malunga nendlela umhlaba usebenza ngayo;
- ubonise ukubaluleka kweemvavanyo ezahlukeneyo kunye nophuhliso lwamava kuwo wonke umphefumlo;
- kunceda ukujamelana nentlungu, ukwesaba;
- kuthwala isicwangciso sokulungisa ekuphuhliseni ukuziphatha okubi.
Iingxelo zonyango zokulungisa indlela yokuziphatha
Iingxelo zefestile zokwenza ulungiso kunye nabantwana ziyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yomsebenzi weengqondo. Iingxelo zilula ukugaya kwaye zincede ukufunda iipateni zokuziphatha eziyimfuneko. Iingxelo zokulungisa:
- " Intaba yaseSandy " E.S. UMosina - ukulungiswa kwenkanuko yomntwana;
- "Intetho kaKolya kunye nabahlobo bakhe " uL. Tsvirko - ukusebenzisana nabantwana abahlaselayo;
- " I-Tale ye Hare Zabiyaka " I. Gurin - ukuba umntwana ulwa;
- " Ingqungquthela Yokumamamatheka " nguDkt. Trushin - ukulungiswa kokuziphatha kakubi, ugonyamelo olubhekiswe kubazali.
Iingxelo zeendlovu zezilwanyana zabantwana
Iingxelo zefestile - zidinga nayiphi na umntwana, kuba engafani nomntu omdala, akanalo amava anotyebi njengomntu omdala ekuxazululeni iingxaki ezisanda kuvela, umntwana unobungozi kwilizwe langaphandle, umsebenzi omdala ukunceda umntwana ngoncedo lwefestile ukuze abonise indlela umlingisi oyintloko ojamelana ngayo na ingxaki. Iingxelo zonyango zobusuku zinomhlaba ongenayo kwi- subconscious , apho ukucwangciswa kunye nokuqulunqwa kolwazi oluyimfuneko kwenzeka, kwaye ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuphilisa ukwesaba.
Iingxelo zonyango ngokusuka
Inkcazo yefayili yobusuku kubantwana inceda ukulwa neendlobongela, ezikulo xesha okanye lelo xesha labantwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bayamangalisa ukuba abazali babo abakwazi ukulala ngenxa yokwesaba ukubiwe ngu "Babaika" okanye uBaba Yaga. Ziziphi iindandatho zonyango ezinokusetyenziswa:
- "Ngubani ohlala ebumnyameni" iqoqo leenganekwane;
- "Kuphi i-Monsters Live" ngo- M. Sendak;
- "Inkunzi yesihlanu" -G. Harriet;
- "Indlovu eyikayika umnyama" O.V. Khukhlaeva, O.E. Khukhlaev.
Iingxelo zonyango zabaselula
Iingongoma zonyango ekusebenzisaneni nabaselula zixhobo eziphambili zokuthintela ubuntu bomntwana. Ubuntwaba lixesha apho iingqungquthela ezibonakalayo zibonakalisa ngokukhawuleza, ezinye izinto eziwonakalisayo ezi ziphumo zokuboniswa kwintsapho engasebenziyo kwaye ukubonakalisa "ukutshatyalaliswa" kwe-hormones kuyaqala ukubonakalisa. Iingxelo zonyango ziyindlela elula yokuhambisa ixabiso elibalulekileyo kumntu oselula kwaye ubone izibonelelo.
Inkcazo yefayili malunga nesikolo
Imisebenzi yeengxelo zefestile zithetha ngokucacileyo malunga nobunzima. Isikolo yindawo apho kunzima kunzima khona "ukusinda" ngokwenene ukuya kwintsholongwane kunye nesifo sengqondo esichengeni. Iingxaki zengqondo zonyango malunga namaqhawe ahlukeneyo aphumelela ukuvavanya ngesithunzi zibanceda abantwana besikolo babhekane neengxaki ezivela esikolweni. Iingongoma zamaHlathi nazo zineenkalo zokulungisa.
Iingxaki zoLuthando lobuhlobo
Inkcazo emfutshane yengqondo yabaselula i-psychologist iveza ngokungabonakaliyo ngebali ibali, umzekeliso okanye ibali awayebonile. Ubuhlobo bubaluleke kakhulu ebomini kwanoma yimuphi umntu, ubuhlobo bokwenene buqinile kwaye abuxhomekeke kwiintlungu kwaye bufundisa okuninzi ngomntu. Abaselula kwimimandla banokuthi bangeniswe ngongoma ka-I. Vachkov "Ngobuhlobo kunye nokulahleka kwayo."
Le ngqungquthela yabahlobo ababini bezintuthwane uMure noRume, abafuna ukuvavanya ubuhlobo babo kwaye baqinisekile ukuba baya kudlula zonke iimvavanyo. Ngenxa yoko, baphendukela kwiMantis, kwaye wawacebisa ukuba aphendule kwi-sorceress Pchela. Umtshilo wenyuka wavavanya waza wenza izizithulu, uMoren noRum baphumelela ngempumelelo, bafunda ukuqonda omnye ngaphandle kwamagama. Kwilingo lesibini, i-Bee yathetha isiqalekiso ukuze izintuthwane ziqale ukuhlambalaza, ukuxoka nokukhubekisa. Ekuqaleni baxhomekeka kwiingqungquthela, kodwa baqonda ngexesha lokuba kwakungenakwenzeka - ubuhlobo bume bomelele.
Abahlobo babuzwa iimvavanyo ezingaphezulu. Inyosi yafumana ubudlelwane babo nomsindo, ngoyiko-bonke babesinda, kodwa oko kwakungeke kwanele kubo, kwaye uMorem noRam bacela ukuvavanywa kokugqibela, iBee ayivumelanga ixesha elide, kodwa laphulaphula isicelo sabo kwaye yazenza ukuba zizingca. Ngoko ubuhlobo obuqinileyo bezintuthwane zawa - kwaba luvavanyo olunzima kakhulu, kuba i-egoists ibona kuphela. Ubuhlobo bufanele buthandwa.
Iingxelo zonyango kubantu abadala
Injongo yeengxaki zengqondo zonyango kukunceda umntu aphile ixesha elibi kumpilo, uphilise umphefumlo kwaye uqonde ukuba kutheni izinto ezithile zenzeke kuye. Iingcali zonyango zonyango zenzelwe kubini abantwana kunye nabantu abadala - yinto ephambili yendalo eyanceda ukutshintsha ubomi ngokubhekiselele ekuqapheliseni nasekuzivekeni. Nokuba ufunda iindalana eziqhelekileyo zinikeza umbono wokungena kwakhona kummandla wolwazi.
Iingxelo Zonyango zeMood
Iintlobo zeengxelo zefeshi zonyango kukuba zingabonakali kwaye zingaphumelele kwi-subconscious, ikuvumela ukuba ulahlekele iinkqubo eziwonakalisayo. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuqulunqa iindaba zobubele wena. Njengoko unako ukuphakamisa imimoya yakho, kulula kakhulu ukuzicingela njengomlindi onoxanduva lobomi bakho kunye nenzuzo yakho. Ngaba buhlungu? Ixesha lokubhala i-fairy tale, kungeyonto enkulu, umzekelo, malunga nosizi.
Ngesinye isikhathi kwakukho ubuhlungu, kwaye wayenesizungu kakhulu, akukho mntu wayefuna ukuba ngumhlobo naye, wonke umntu wamgxotha, kwaye kwaye wayesaba ukuba necala lakhe - ukusuka kulolu buhlungu lwaba lukhulu kakhulu, njengelifu, ngoko wahamba, wajikeleza emhlabeni waza waqala ukungathandabuzeki ngokuba yintoni efunekayo ngokubanzi, kutheni uMdali wayo adale, yintoni intsingiselo yalo. Usizi olunzima kwaye wagqiba ekubeni aye kwiSage eyaziwayo, mhlawumbi uyazi intsingiselo yobukho bakhe.
Intsimi, ukumangaliswa kobuhlungu, yamkela ngeengalo ezivulekile kwaye yamxelela ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani abantu. Sage uthi: "Uncedo lokuhlala ulahlekelwe, ukuba lixesha lokuba uvumeleke ukuba lihambe kwaye kufuneka lenziwe ngenhlonipho, kodwa kuwe, akukho nto ingayifumana ngaphandle kokuyeka, zonke iimfesane kufuneka ziyeke, kwaye zihlala zibuhlungu, kuphela uvakalelo olupheleleyo lobomi bomntu umntu ongena kwiimeko zokutshiza kwaye ulungele ukuhamba phambili, oko kubaluleke kangakanani! ". Inkcazo ithi zonke iimvakalelo zinelungelo lokuba.
Iingxelo Zonyango Zobulungisa
Inkcazo yesifo sengqondo kwi-psychology yecala iyanceda ukuqonda le ntliziyo, enamathele kumntu njengomntu otyumayo, ukuba umntu uvakalelwa kukuba uyadabuka, uyabuhlungu, kodwa akakwazi ukumbona. Ingqiqo yecala iyimvakalelo ewonakalisayo kwaye ibonakalisa ukuba:
- esekelwe kwingqiqo eyisiseko yeentloni, eyakhiwa ebuntwaneni;
- ulahla umntu onoxanduva kunye nokukwazi ukwenza;
- ekubeni unengqondo yecala, umntu unqabileyo uya kulinda;
- ngokunyanisekileyo umntu onomntu omdala wecala usemgangathweni lomntwana, oko kukuthi, kwimeko ehlaziyiweyo, oko kuthetha ukuthintelwa.
Iingxaki zonyango zetyala zinceda ukuziva nokukhulula unetyala. Intetho yecala. Kwakukho intombazana enhle uSofia kwelinye igumbi kunye nomama osekhulile. U-Sophia uye wadibanisa iminyaka engama-30, kodwa akazange abe nolwalamano, akazange aphuphe intsapho, kuba wayekhathalele umama wakhe ogulayo. Kwakulungele uSophia ukuba ahlale emsebenzini okanye kwiintlanganiso ezinqabileyo kunye nentombazana enye, unina wamcela ukuba abize kwaye wathi ngokukhawuleza waya ekhaya, ngenxa yokuba uxinzelelo lukhulu kwaye lixesha lokumnika iyeza.
U-Sophia waphula, wabuyela ekhaya. Ngenxa yokuba umama uyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bomntu, kwaye umama owakhulisa wedwa ngaphandle kobawo wanikela yonke impilo yakhe kunye nomvuzo omncinci, ephika loo mama "ongcwele". Unina kaSophia wayemkhumbula rhoqo intombi yakhe, ebenza bazive benetyala. U-Sophia obenjenjalo kumama, umama wayefuna ukunyamekela, ukuzikhanyela yonke into ebonwa ngayo ubomi.
Ngesinye isikhathi, ejonge esibukweni, uSophia wayemangaliswe indlela awayecinga ngayo: amehlo amnyama awela, ahlahla emacaleni omlomo wakhe, njengoko kwimeko yentlungu, wayejonge njengowesifazane osemdala waza waqonda ukuba kwakuyixesha lokuzikhethela . Kodwa wayemcela ukuba athathe uxanduva, okokuqala wavutha ngumama wakhe ukuba wayesebenzisa, kodwa waqonda ukuba uxanduva lwakhe kukuba wayekhulile kwaye angakhetha ukuqhubeka evakalelwa enetyala okanye abe ngumdala kwaye azakhele ubomi.