Kutshanje unxibe intombi yakho phantsi kwentliziyo yakho, kwaye unyaka wokuqala wokuzalwa umntwana usondele ngekona. Iminyaka emi-5 yeholide enkulu, ngoko ke isipho intombazana kufuneka sibe sisilungileyo. Abantwana abaninzi kule minyaka sele beqala ukuyalela kubazali babo iimpawu zobuntu abadala: iselfowuni, umdlali we-MP3 okanye ikhomputha - ukuba awunakulungele ukwenza izicelo ezinjalo, ke unganiki naziphi izithembiso kumntwana. Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-5 sele bekhumbule eli gama kakuhle kwaye balindele ngokulangazela ukuzaliseka kubazali babo. Ungavumeli baqiniseke, ukuthembela nokuqonda kuyincandelo ebalulekileyo yobume phakathi kwabazali nomntwana.
Nqwenela uluhlu
Ngokuqinisekileyo, izalamane kunye nabahlobo baya kukuthukumeza ngombuzo othi: "Yintoni enokuyinika intombazana iminyaka emihlanu?" Ngoko ke, kwinkqubo yokulungiselela akukuphela nje ukucinga kwimenyu yenkqubo yokuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa, kodwa ukwenza uluhlu lwezipho zentombi yakho.
Okokuqala, buza intombazana leyo, into emangalisa - yinto entle, kodwa ukuzaliseka kwephupha elixabisekileyo akuyi kuzisa umntanakho. Musa ukulibala malunga nendlela efanelekileyo yokukhetha isipho, kungcono ukuba okwangoku luncedo.
Abakhi abanomdla
Enye yezi zixhobo eziyimfuneko kwaye ezilungileyo ngumqambi wamanje. Akagcini nje ukuvelisa izakhono zamancinci ezincinci zeengalo zomntwana, ingcamango, ingqiqo, kodwa iphinde ibe yithuba elifanelekileyo loqhagamshelwano phakathi kwabazali kunye nosana. I-LEGO designers, eyenzelwe amantombazana eminyaka emi-5, ihlukaniswe zibe ngqungquthela ezininzi kwaye ibangela umdla kunye nenjabulo kwiintsana. Ngokuncedwa kwala mabhinqa amancinci angakha ihlabathi elihle, udlale ebomini bentsapho, ekulungiselele indlu ngentando, ukujongana nabemi be-zoo nokunye okuninzi.
Iidodoli ezizithandayo
Intombi ekhethekileyo kunye nesipho esifuniweyo intombazana engama-5 ubudala iya kuba yidonki - intandokazi engathandabuzekiyo yamathoyizi ebhinki. Phakathi kweendidi ezininzi zokudlala izitha zokudlala aziyi kuba nzima ukhetho oluya kuba yintombazana yakho intombi eyithandayo, kuyimfuneko kuphela ukuba uyiqwalasele yonke impawu yentombazana. Ukuba uthanda ukugqoka kunye nefashoni, ngoko uthenge idoli, epheleleyo kunye ne-wardrobe yefestile, kunye neenwele kunye nokuzenzela kungatshintshwa ubuncinane ngemizuzu yonke. Ngaba ufuna ukufundisa indlebe nentombi yakho? - isipho esimangalisayo siza kuba yintsana yokuzalwa entsha, enokuyinyamekela njengomntwana wangempela. Eyaziwayo kuwo wonke umhlaba we-fashionista uBarbie, ii heroines zeemifanekiso ezidumileyo, iidodoli ezithethayo, ukukhula kunye nentombi yakho kunye nabanye abaninzi balindele intlanganiso kunye nomfazi omtsha kwiindawo zokugcina izitolo.
Izipho eziwusizo
Njengoko sele kukhankanywe ngasentla, izipho ezilethwa ngenjongo yokuzalwa komntwana oneminyaka emi-5 ubudala azifanelekanga kuphela, kodwa zincedo. Ingaba iisethi ezahlukeneyo zobugcisa ukusuka kwi "yenza ngokwakho" icandelo:
Isipho esihle siya kuba yinto yokudlala imidlalo yamantombazana eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, bahlakulele imemori, ukucinga, ukucinga ngabantwana, okuyiyo inzuzo yabo engenakuphika. Ukuba umntwana wakho unomdla wokuzonwabisa okanye i-hobby, umhla wokuzalwa ungakunceda ukuphuhlisa italente yentsana: umculi unokunikezwa nge-easel kunye nepeyinti, "umdaniso" - iingubo ezintle kwiiklasi, "ingqondo yomculo" - i-synthesizer. Ngezihlandlo zamaSoviet, iincwadi zazibhekisiwe njengesipho esona sihle, iintetho ezintlanu ezahlukeneyo, iimpapasho ezinokwenziwa kwengqondo kunye nemifanekiso emikhulu ebomvu yamantombazana eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, iya kuthi, emva kwexesha lonke, le nto ingaba yinto yangoku.
Sonke sifuna ukuba abantwana bethu babe nobomi obonwabileyo, ngoko banokunyamekela kwangaphambili malunga nento eniyinika intombazana eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, cinga yonke into enqwenelayo kunye neempawu, kwaye ngoko uya kumenza ube yinto evuyayo kunye neyokuqala eqaqambileyo kwaye ayikhunjulwe.