Usuvele udibana nomntwana wakho, waqala ukuqonda iimfuno zakhe kunye neemfuno zakhe kwaye waqala ukufumana ixesha lokusebenzela imisebenzi yasekhaya ... Kodwa ngokukhawuleza, ujongene nayo "umkhwa" wakhe omtsha - umntwana ulele emini, kwaye ebusuku uvuke. Oku kuthetha ukuba umntwana udidekile imini nobusuku.
Kutheni abantwana bengalali ebusuku?
Umkhwa omncinci onokufumana uvelise uhlobo lomntwana wakho kwaye uthi, umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho ekukhuleni uya kuhola indlela yobomi "ye-owl" kunokuba "i-lark". Kuchanekile ukujonga isizathu asikho kumntwana wakho, kodwa kuwe. Emva koko, ufuna ukuyenza njani eyona nto ifunekayo ekhaya ngelixa indoda yakho isebenza. Lungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa, uhlambe kwaye uyitye zonke izinto zezingane, gcoba i-quilt for the baby, ekupheleni. Yeka indlela ezukileyo ngayo ukuba umntwana elele iphupha elimnandi, ngoko yonke into iya kuba ngexesha ...
Kodwa xa ubusuku buza kuvela ukuba yonke ingqalelo ongeyinike umntwana ngexesha lomhla iya kufuneka inikwe ebumnyameni, kwaye kungekhona kuphela kuwe, kodwa kubo bonke abendlu. Emva koko, ebusuku, ukulala umntwana uya kuhlangula yonke into. Kuphela, njengoko kuvela, ukunakekelwa ngokugqithiseleyo kunxalenye yabo banqwenelayo banokuyandisa ngakumbi imeko - kunokuba bacebe, umntwana usenokuba mnandi ngakumbi.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba alale ebusuku?
Ukuba umntwana wakho osandul 'ukuzalwa udidekile imini kunye nobusuku, landela la macebiso alandelayo ukuze ubuyisele inkqubo yakho yentsapho yokunethezeka.
- Thetha ngokukhawuleza nangomntwana wakho emini, bhubela iingoma kuye, uthetha ngezinto ezenzekayo, udlale naye. Ngexesha elifanayo, uhamba ngokukhawuleza ebusuku, imidlalo ayivunyelwanga, ngelizwi elikhulu, liyakhala. Impendulo engachukumanga "kodwa xa uthe cwaka!" Unako ukulungisa yonke imizamo yakho. Umntwana kufuneka azive ehlaziyekile kwaye ezolile, kwaye isikhokelo sabo sinokuba nguyise nonina kuphela.
- Ngaphambi kokuba ulale embhedeni, qiniseka ukuba, ngakwelinye icala, akalambile, i-diaper yakhe iyomile, umoya ekamelweni lipholile kwaye limanzi, kwaye ngakwelinye icala ugcwele amandla kunye nokuzola, ukuzisa inkqubo yokulala ukulala siphelo, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa uncedo lomnye umntu. Kwimeko apho umntwana enama-gazik okanye amazinyo atyunwe, thabatha amanyathelo afanelekileyo ngaphambi kokulala (kwimeko yokuqala, yenza isisitye sokunciphisa esithambileyo ngaphambi kokulala, okwesibini - ukunciphisa ukunyamezeleka komntwana onobuncwane obunama-anesthetic).
- Faka isithethe esithile sokuba uya kuphinda rhoqo ngaphambi kokubeka umntwana ukuba alele. Ulandelwano lunokuba lulandelayo: ukuhlamba, isidlo sakusihlwa, ukukhanya, ukulala, ukulala. Ukuba umntwana uqala ukukhala xa uvala ukukhanya, sebenzisa isibane somntwana ngokukhanya okwenziwe ngokukhawuleza, nangona kunjalo, kufuneka umenze ukuba umntwana akwazi ukukhawuleza ukuba nokuba uyakhala, ukukhanya kuya kupheliswa. Ungamshiyi umntwana, uhlale ngokuthula kwaye umphikele ngokumxelela ixesha elizayo kwaye
ukudlala naye njengomhla, akukho mntu uhambayo. Hlela kusengaphambili kunye nekhaya, ngubani oza kubeka umntwana kwaye angenzi "ujikelezo" olujikeleze isikhalazo, kuba ubuso obutshintshayo abuqinisekisi, kodwa ngokuchasene naye bayamjabulisa. - Ngelixa ulungela umntwana ukuba alale ebusuku (kwaye le nqubo, ukuba uqhubeka ulandela icebo elicetywayo, akufanele kuthathe ixesha elingaphezu kweentsuku ezintathu), zama ukutshintsha iibhedi zentsana, iimpahla zakhe kunye namathoyizi ejikelezile. Intsha yokudlala okanye ukudweba kwinqayi ingathatha ingqwalasela ye-crumb kwaye ke kuya kuba nzima kuye ukulala.
Ukunyamezela nokunyamezela kuyintloko kwimpumelelo yakho. Ukuba umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa udidekile imini kunye nobusuku, bekube esandleni sakho alala khona ixesha elide. Ixesha lokulungisa imeko yangoku.