Kutheni abantwana bezinyanga ezi-2 zomhla?
Ukuba ukususela kwiminyaka emncinci umntwana wenza ukuba aqonde ukuba ixesha elithile lichitha ixesha lokulala kunye nokuvuka, okuhambelana ngokuthe ngqo phakathi kwabo, ngoko inkqubo yeentlanzi yomntwana onjalo ayiyi kuba ngaphantsi komthwalo. Umntwana uya kuba noxolo, kwaye umama uya kukwazi ukwenza yonke imisebenzi ehleliweyo ngaphandle kokukhawuleza.
Yonke into ebomini yendoda encinane idibanisene kunye, kwaye ukuba ididekile imini kunye nobusuku, ihlale ilele ebusweni sikamama, kungekudala okanye izayo iya kuphazamisa imeko yakhe jikelele, kunye nenkqubo yesifo.
Imilinganiselo yexesha lomntwana kwiinyanga ezimbini
Umntwana ngamnye kwiinyanga ezimbini kufuneka abe nolawulo lwakhe lokuvuka, ukulala nokutya. Umama wakhe othobelekileyo uyamlungisa, owafunda uhlobo nemikhwa yomntwana olungcono kunabani na.
Kuze kube kutshanje, i-karapuz yenzeni ukuba yalala kwaye idla, kodwa ixesha libaleka ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ngokuqhubekayo ehlala evukile kwaye ngeli xesha ufumana ulwazi oluninzi malunga nehlabathi elikujikelezile.
Nayiphi na ishedyuli ayikho imbopheleleko, kodwa yindlela yokwenza isondlo nokuvuswa komntwana kwiinyanga ezimbini. Emva kwayo yonke into, yonke intsapho, kunye neentsapho zihlala ngokuhambelana neshedyuli yayo, efanelekileyo kwaye ekulungeleyo kubo. Kwixesha elifudumeleyo, ukuhamba kungase kube kude kwaye kudlule ixesha, kwaye ebusika, kwiqhwala ezinzima, kuya kubakho ukuhlala esifutshane kwisitalato.
Ngokomzekelo, abanye abantwana badada ngokuhlwa, ngaphambi kokuba bahambe. Kodwa abanye kwixesha lokuzonwabisa banomdla okanye banomsindo kwaye abafuni ukulala. Kule meko, akukho nto iphosakeleyo ukuba iinkqubo zamanzi zihanjiswe kwixesha eliyimpumelelo.
Ukongezelela, ulawulo lomntwana luyahluka kakhulu ngokuxhomekeke kwangexesha, kuba ukuhamba kwebusika kuya kufutshane, kwaye ehlobo kuyafuneka ukuba umntwana ahlale ixesha elide emoyeni omtsha.
Ukuba unina akwazi ukuseka nokulungisa utshintsho lomhla kumntwana kwiinyanga ezi-2, ngoko kufuneka umane uhambelane neshedyuli esicwangcisiweyo ngokusemthethweni. Ngelixa lokumondla umntwana, hamba naye, umbeke elele. Kwaye ke, umntwana ngokwakhe uya kuphinda akhiwe kwakhona phantsi kolawulo lukaMama.