Kutheni umntwana angabonakali kwisibuko?

Ngesibuko ezininzi iinkolelo kunye neengcamango zidibeneyo, zihlala zichaza enye ihlabathi kunye nezinto eziyimfihlelo eziyimfihlelo. Makhe sizame ukubona isizathu sokuba umntwana angaboniswa kwisibuko nokuba ngaba oku kuya kubakho kwimiphumo emibi.

Yintoni enokubangela ukuqwalasela ngentshiseko yentsana kwisibuko?

Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abathambekele ekukholweni kumfihlelo, banike iimpendulo ezinjalo kumbuzo wokuba abantwana abancinci abakwazi ukuboniswa kwisibuko:

1. Ekubeni le nto sele ithathwa njengento engabonakaliyo yeemilingo zemilingo kunye nabathakathi kunye ne-portal ibe ngenye indlela, isibuko sinokuthi singakwazi ukuthatha inxalenye yomphefumlo wayo ebuntwaneni.
2. Ngokweminye imithombo, ichaphazela kakubi amandla omntwana, okwenza njengomoya womoya. Ngenxa yoko, umntwana wakho uba mhlophe, angenangqondo, amandla akhe ayancipha - yingakho ungeke ubonise iintsana kwisibuko.
3. Abazali banokujamelana nokulibaziseka ekuphuhlisweni kwentetho kumntwana, kunye nokukhawuleza kokuhamba.
4. Esinye sezizathu ezibalulekileyo zokuba umntwana engakwazi ukubonakaliswa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwisibuko kukuba abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka yobudala banokubona kuye imimoya evela emva kokufa kwaye bayothuka kakhulu.
5. Ukwesaba komntwana kudla ngokudibanisa nelokuba ebusaneni akaziqondi njengomntu ohlukeneyo kwaye ngokusoloko eqonda isibuko sakhe ngokuphindaphindiweyo njengoluhlobo "wolunye". Oku kubangela uxinzelelo olongezelelweyo.
6. Kulungile, ekugqibeleni, umntwana akahle kakhulu kwaye angakwazi ukuphula isibuko ngokuzenzekelayo.

Imingcele yobudala

Ngokumalunga nomlinganiselo apho umntwana engakwazi ukuboniswa kwisibuko, izimvo ziyahluka apha. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthiwa akufanele anike unyana wakhe okanye intombi yakhe ukuba ibhekisise ukucinga kwabo ngonyaka, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo kulo mzekelo kubaluleke kakhulu ukulinda ubhaptizo ; ngoko umntwana wakho uya kuba nelosi yakhe.