Ukufa komntu othandekayo kukulahlekelwa kakhulu, okungeke kunqotshwe kwiintsuku ezimbalwa. Kodwa kunzima ukusinda ekulahlekelweni komama, ngubani osondelene kakhulu nomntu ngamnye. Nangona umntu enesimo esicacileyo sengqondo kunye nokuziphatha okunamandla, kusathatha ixesha ukuqonda ukulahleka kunye nokwakha ubomi ngaphandle komama ofileyo.
Ngexesha losizi, umntu ufuna ukunyamekela ukufa komama wakhe kwaye angaphuli. Nangona kunjalo, nangayiphi na imeko, kufuneka alungiselele ukuba inkqubo yokubuyiswa ayiyi kuba lula. Imvakalelo enzima, intlungu, ukudumala, iinyembezi, isimo sengxakini-konke oku ku funeka kudlule. Nangona kunjalo, kuza kuza ixesha apho uya kuzincama uze uqaphele ukuba ubomi buqhubeka. Emva koko, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ukufa kukukhulula umntu ofileyo. Kwaye asinakufumana loo mntu ngokwakhe, kodwa ukuba akayi kuba sempilo yethu.
Iingcebiso zesazi sengqondo, indlela yokusinda ekufeni komama
Abo baye bafumana ukulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo, kuyafaneleka ukuqonda ukuba ukubuyiswa kwengqondo emva kokuxinezeleka okukhulu kwenzeka ezinyangeni ezilisithoba. Eli lixesha elithathayo ukuba iinkumbulo zomntu oshonile ziyeke ukuba zibuhlungu. Iingcali zengqondo zinika isiluleko esinjalo kubantu ababesinda ekufeni komntu othandekayo:
- Ngethuba lokuqala emva kokulahleka kungcono ukuba ungahlali wedwa, makabekho abantu abasondelene nabo onokuthi udibanise kunye kunye nokuzikhumbuza kunye;
- kuthatha uxanduva lombutho womngcwabo kunye nezinye iingxaki zemihla ngemihla ezifuneka zixazululwe - oku kuya kunceda ukuphazamisa kwiingcinga ezibuhlungu;
- Vumela iintsuku ezimbalwa ukulila nokukhala;
- Shayela ugqirha ukuba anike imithi ngeempembelelo ezokukunceda ukuba usinde kwixesha elinzima;
- Musa ukukhupha intlungu kunye notywala, kuba kuya kuphazamisa inkqubo yokubuyisela i-psyche kwaye ayiyi kunika inzuzo epheleleyo kwintlungu kwaye uyitshilo;
- utshintshe imeko, thabatha iholide emsebenzini;
- sebenza;
- Indlela yokusinda ekufeni komama ingafundwa kwiingcebiso zalabo abasele balahlekelwa ngumthandayo kwaye banokubonisa ukuba umntu unokuphila njani ukulahleka;
- ukuphepha ukuthintana, phakathi kwabantu;
- Emva kwithuba elithile, izinto zomntu ofileyo kufuneka zisuswe kumbono wokuyeka ukuhamba kweememori;
- Ukuba ufuna ukutyelela ingcwaba lomntu ofileyo, akufanele uzinqande;
- ukuba iimvakalelo zinamandla kakhulu, kwaye umntu akakwazi ukuhlangabezana nazo, umntu kufuneka adibane nomgqirha ngoncedo lochwepheshe.
I-Tips priest, indlela yokusinda ekufeni komama
I-Orthodoxy inombono wayo ngendlela yokusinda ekufeni komama okanye nabanye abantu abasondeleyo. Isithethe sobuKristu sithetha ngokufa njengenguqu ebomini obutsha. Umntu ofileyo uyeka ukuhlupheka ngenxa yehlabathi elimona aze athole ithuba lokuya ezulwini.
- Ababingeleli babecinga ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuyalela emva kokufa komntu okhupha umphefumlo womphefumlo wakhe kunye ne-requiem.
- Iphuzu elibalulekileyo kumbuzo wendlela yokusinda ekufeni komama, e-Orthodoxy, kunikwa umthandazo nokufunda kwe-Psalter. Ngokuthandaza kuyimfuneko ukucela uThixo amandla kunye noxolo lwengqondo ukuze uthobe ngokuthobeka.
- Ukongezelela, kunconywa ukuba sivelele icawa yamaOthodox ngexesha leenkonzo kunye phakathi kweenkonzo, ukuze sithole uxolo olungakumbi lokomoya nobomi bobomi bexesha elizayo.
- Nangona ukuba ukufa komntu esimthandayo kuyintlungu enkulu kuthi, kuthathwa njengento engalunganga ukuyenza ixesha elide. Omnye umele ambulele kuThixo ngokusinika abantu abalungileyo, ngaphandle koko asifuni ukuhlala. Umntu ofileyo makavumeleke ukuba ahambe, kuba kukuthanda koPhezukonke ukuba ashiye ihlabathi elinesono.
- Inkumbulo yomntu ofileyo, kucetyiswa ukuba wenze izenzo ezilungileyo kunye nokuncedwa okunokwenzeka.