Kukho iziphakamiso eziqhelekileyo ngezipho zomhla wokuzalwa omncinci. Umntwana ukhula ngeemidlalo ezifanelekileyo. Kwizinto ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo kwiintengiso zabantwana, maxa wambi kunzima ukukhetha umdlalo ofanelekileyo. Emva kwakho konke, akufanele ukukholisa kuphela umntwana, kodwa uzuze ukuphuhliswa kwayo: ukufundisa umntwana ukuthetha, ukufunda izinto ezintsha, ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zabo. Iidyski ezisele zilungiselelwe zikwazi ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zokudala zentsana. Ngoko ke, kule minyaka, amathoyizi avelisa izitho zengqondo ezifanelekileyo.
Yintoni enye, ngaphandle kwamathoyizi, unokunika inkwenkwe iminyaka engama-1 yokuzalwa? Kukho izipho umntwana ongaziqondi, kodwa abazali bayavuya. Izipho ezinjalo ezibandakanyekayo ziquka uluhlu lwelineni zebhedi zabantwana, i-mattress, izitya zomntwana, isethi yemveliso yezempilo kwintsana, iimpahla okanye izihlangu, njl njl. Abazali bomntu wokuzalwa njengezipho ezingazikhunjulwayo, umzekelo, iigrafu (kuba abafana beetyuniti kunye neendandatho ziya kuhambelana), i-albhamu yezithombe, iifoto, imifanekiso yokukhumbula izinto, isethi yokukhangela (ngoncedo lwakhe omnye unokuyenza i-plaster okanye izidakamizwa zedongwe zemigudu nemilenze yengane eneminyaka elilodwa), imitha yokukhula, njl njl. .
Sincoma ngaphambi kokukhetha isipho ukubonisana nabazali bomntu wokuzalwa. Mhlawumbi banomnqweno wesipho okanye baya kuba nako ukunitshela oko inkwenkwe ethanda ukuyidlala. Ukuba ngaba abazali banikele ukukhethwa kwesipho kuni, ngaphantsi koko siza kuqwalasela into enokuyinika inkwenkwe iminyaka engama-1, ngoko ukuba ukhetho lwakho lubangela uvuyo kunye nemifanekiso engayibalekiyo.
Izipho ngqo kwiintsana
Kulo nyaka, abantwana bathanda ukuqokelela nokutshintsha into ethile. Ngoko ke, iiplastiki okanye iipramramdi zokhuni ezivela kwinani elincinane leenxenye zecandelo, iikhabhi ezimibalabala, i-labyrinths engahambelani, i-sorters iya kuba mnandi kwaye iyanceda.
Abafana sele befuna ukudlala ngeemoto. Ulonwabo olungenakulinganiswa kumntwana luya kwenza isitulo sabakhubazekile, esinokubakho kwiinguqulelo ezimbini: ngentonga okanye ngentambo. Khumbula ukuba i-crumb ikhanga izinto eziqaqambileyo, ngoko ukhethe umdlalo ofanelekileyo umbala okanye izibane ezikhanyayo, umculo. Ewe, ukuba umatshini uza kuba nayiphi na into ehambayo leyo inkwenkwe ingakwazi ukuyijika, "hlola".
Ukuphendula umbuzo onokumnika umntwana iminyaka engama-1, ukuze isipho sikhuthaze ukuphuhliswa kokuhamba komfana, izakhono zeemoto, ngoko siyancomela ukuthenga isihlalo esithintekayo. Ngokomzekelo, amahashe anokugubungela namhlanje aneempembelelo ezivakalayo kunye nokukhanya, anokushukumisa umsila wazo, uvule umlomo wabo.
Isipho "sokukhula" siya kuba sisihlalo sabakhubazekile. Abazali banokuyilawula ngesiphathi esiphenduka ngesondo elingaphambili. Kodwa umntwana uvakalelwa kukuba yena "uhamba." Xa umntwana ekhula aze afike kwii-pedals, ngoko ipeni kunye nezinye iinkcukacha ezingadingekanga zingasuswa - kwaye inkwenkwe iya kukhwela yedwa.
Ngenkathi yebusika, inkunzi iya kubangela uvuyo olukhwela kwiidonga ozinike zona, kunye nexesha elifudumeleyo - kwi-swings. Namhlanje unokukhetha ukuguqula indlu kunye nesitalato.
Ukuphuhliswa kweemvuthu isikhungo esiphuhlisayo sinokuba isipho esihle - itafile kunye nesethi yemidlalo eyahlukeneyo: i- sorter, ipiramidi, umyili. Isipho esinjalo asiyikukuvuyisa kuphela umntwana, kodwa sikhuthaze nokunyamezela, ukulungelelanisa kunye neengcinga. Unokuthenga iimidlalo ezahlukileyo eziza kunceda umntwana ukuba ahlule iinkcukacha ngobukhulu, ummi kunye nombala, yenza ifom yokukwazi ukubeka izinto zesepha kwiindawo ezinkulu. Njengezipho unokukhetha ukhetho lwee-sorters, iipiramidi, iidonki zokuhlamba, iipuzzle, iikomityi.
Isisombululo esihle kwiimidlalo zangaphandle yintonga yezingane. Ukudlala nabanye abantwana, inkwenkwe iya kusekwa izakhono zokunxibelelana. Iipaliti, ezahlukileyo kumbala kunye nomlo, ziza kuphuhlisa umboniso, ukukwazi ukwahlula izinto phakathi komnye. Izikhonkwane zezingane zikulungele ukuthatha izicwangciso ezincinci, eziza kubangela ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono zezithuthi ezifanelekileyo zezingane.
Emva kokuqwalasela isiluleko malunga nokukhetha isipho kwinkwenkwe iminyaka engama-1, sifuna uku lumkisa malunga nokukhetha okungaphumelelanga. Unganiki izinto zokuhlambuluka kwansuku zonke, kuba awukwazi ukuba isipho esinjalo asiyi kulimaza umzimba womntwana. Musa ukubangela umdla kwimidlalo yamakhwenkwe, eyenzelwe abantwana abancinci, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, abadala. Ingozi kwimpilo yentsana yimizatho equle iincinci ezincinci - i-crumb ingabalela. Amathoyizi alawulwa ngomsakazo anikezwa kwangaphambili.
Khumbula ukuba ithoyizi elinikiweyo ayinakubiza. Into eyona nto kukuba isipho sakho siyamvuyisa kunye novuyo.