Indlela yokwenza umntwana anentshisekelo ekudwebeni?
Ngaphambi kokungenisa umntwana kuzo zonke iinguqu zobuciko obuhle, kufuneka ulungiselele ngokufanelekileyo le nto, ukuze ungagcini umnqweno wokudweba, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, umthintele lo msebenzi ixesha elide. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba wayenendawo yakhe yokusebenzela - itafile encinane okanye idesksi, ngoko ukhusela indlu yakho kwi-art ye-peji entsha.
Kubantwana abancinci, ubugcisa obungavamile buzokwenza. Kwiminwe encinci kunzima ukubamba ibrashi okanye ipensile, kodwa ukutsalana ngqo ngesundu okanye iminwe kuya kuba luncedo kwaye kuyamdla kumntwana wale minyaka. Ukwenza oku, kukho iimpawu ezikhethekileyo zeminwe ezikhuselekileyo kwikhumba labantwana.
Kulabo bafuna ukuhlukana kwezifundo zobugcisa zemizi yasekhaya, ungazama iindlela zokudweba ezingaqhelekanga kubantwana. Ngoncedo lwabo, intsana iya kuqonda ukuba kungekhona ipensela kunye neepenti ezizizwayo ezinokuthi zenze into enhle. Ukwenza oku, naziphi na izixhobo ezisebenzisekayo ezinokubonakala zingenanto enxulumene nalo mbandela ziya kusebenza.
Kubantwana, ukudweba ngezandla zakho kukuzonwabisa olukhulu. Xa kunjalo umama akayi kukhwaza ngezandla ezingcolileyo, kwaye ngokuchaseneyo, udumise kwaye uya kuhamba, njengoko kungcono. Ukususela kwiintloko zemihlathi ungakha ubugcisa obuhle - iintaka ezingenanto, iintyatyambo kunye nepeyinti engabonakaliyo, into ephambili - ukubonisa ingcinga.
Enye indlela yokuzivakalisa ngayo ngokukudweba ngesiponji, kubantwana oku kuyindlela elula kakhulu xa ufuna ukupenda umtya omkhulu okanye udwebe into ethile ngamagceke angalinganiyo, umzekelo, isithsaba somthi okanye ifu. Isiqwenga se-foam kufuneka siqhotyoshelwe ngetambo okanye ngentambo kwipencilisi okanye intonga kwaye uyifake kwisitya sokupenda, ushiye iimpepha ezifana nezitampu kwiphepha lephepha.
Ukudweba abantwana abaneepende, kodwa kungekhona nge-mite, kodwa ngezinye iindlela zokuqala kubangela ukumangaliswa kunye nokonwaba ngokwenene. Okumnandi kakhulu kumantombazana "magic кляксография" xa ephepheni ibhloko lifakwa kunye nephepha likhawulelwe kwisiqingatha kwaye litshintshwe. Emva kokuba iphepha libonakaliswe, umzekelo ongaqhelekanga uvela kwindawo yeblogi. Ngokuqhelekileyo kubonakala njengamaphiko evemvane.
Ukuphalaza kwimizi yokukhwabanisa okanye ukubethelwa kwebhloko kwi-straw ye-cocktail - ezi zinto kunye nezinye iindlela zokudweba abantwana kubaluleke kakhulu kwinkqubo. Ukuze ugweme ukuhlamba okukhulu kunye nokucoca okukhulu, indawo yokusebenzela kufuneka ikhutshwe ngamaphephandaba angafunekiyo okanye i-oilcloth, kwaye umfaki-mfana omncinci makafanele agqoke kwi-apron ne-armlets.
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Ukuthabatha abafundi besikolo
Iminyaka elisondele kwiminyaka emithandathu umntwana angenza imidwebo esele yinkimbinkimbi. Kulo nyaka, lixesha lokuba uqale ukuzisa umzobo ngamaphuzu, luncedo kubantwana ngokulungiselela ukulungiselela ukubhala iileta. Kufuneka uqale ngemifanekiso elula, ezinye zazo ezingekho kumaphuzu, kodwa ukusuka kumgca ochaziweyo. Kancinci, kufuneka ukhethe imifanekiso enzima kakhulu. Abo baqhelene neenkcukacha baya kuvuya ukudibanisa imigca ngemigca yabo ukuze bafumane ngokukhawuleza oko kuza kugqitywa.
Isinyathelo-nge-nyathelo ukudweba ngepensile kuya kuba sisiseko sokwakhiwa ngokuchanekileyo kwamanani kubantwana, kwaye umntwana uya kuqonda indlela yokudala umfanekiso oqingqiweyo usebenzisa amanyathelo amancinci. Le ndlela ifanelekile kubantwana abaye baxhamla ngokubonakalayo kwezobugcisa.
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Inzuzo yokudweba abantwana abancinci ayinakukhutshwa. Kancinci, umntwana uyathuthukisa izakhono zezithuthi ezilungileyo, ezenza umsebenzi wengqondo usebenze. Intetho ikhula ngokukhawuleza, ingqiqo yehlabathi elijikelezile. Inkwenkwe, othanda ukuyifaka ukususela ebuntwaneni, ayikwazi ukuba ngumculi omkhulu, kodwa uya kuhlakulela ukucinga okucwangcisekileyo okuza kuba luncedo kwixesha elizayo.
Ngoko ke, abazali abafanelekanga ukuyeka ukujwayelana nomzobo. Kubalulekile ukukhuthaza umnqweno womntwana ukuba abonise iimvakalelo zakhe ngemibala eqaqambileyo kwaye athathe inxaxheba esheshayo kwaye esebenzayo.