Imizobo yeminwe yabantwana

Ndicinga ukuba abazali abaninzi bayavuma ukuba kuhle kakhulu ukufumana izipho ezivela kubantwana babo, zenziwe nangona zingenayo, kodwa zineepenki ezinjalo ezinamathandayo kunye nezithandayo. Njengomthetho, abantwana abadala baqala ukulungiselela iiholide kwi-kindergarten okanye kwisikolo phantsi kootitshala, kwaye abantwana bayashiywe ngaphandle. Intsha eneminyaka elilodwa ayifuni ukukwazi ukubamba iipencilisi okanye ukubethelwa kwezandla zabo, kwaye iifomququ kunye neempompo eziqingqiweyo azikafumaneki, ngoko ziya kuncedwa ngamacwecwe eminwe. Le nto yokuzonwabisa "indawo yokumangalisa" yenzelwe abantwana ukususela kwiinyanga ezintandathu, ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana wakho ufunda ukuhlala yedwa uya kuba nethuba lokuchitha ixesha kunye nenzuzo kunye nenjabulo enkulu, kodwa ukukholisa izihlobo zakhe kunye nobugcisa bakhe.

Iinzuzo zamanqaku amacwecwe

Akukho nto inomdla kwaye ihlekisa ngaphezu kokudweba ngamacwecwe. Ukongezelela, ukuqeqeshwa okunjalo kunokunceda ukulolonga ingqondo yengane yakho: izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi, intetho, umbala wembono, ingqwalasela iyaqhubeka ngexesha lokufunda i-gay. Inzuzo enkulu kukuba iipaliti zikhuselekile ngokupheleleyo kwimpilo yabantwana kwaye zinokuhlanjululwa kalula kwiphina indawo, kunye nokuhlamba imivumba emva kokusebenza ngokunyanisekileyo akunzima.

Izindlela zokudweba

Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokusebenzisa imibala yamanwe, ukufaka ingcamango kwaye yonke into iya kuvela. Ngebuninzi obunemibala emininzi, unokubamba iminwe yomntwana omnye kunye kunye neminwe emihlanu. Abantwana abaninzi banqwenela ukuthatha isandla sonke ngezandla zabo, kuba kukuhle kakhulu ukubetha amaphepha e-blank, ukushiya umkhondo ocacileyo. Unako ukuthulula ipeyinti encinane yemibala eyahlukileyo ngqo kwinqwelo yakho engabonakaliyo kwaye ubuze umntwana ukuba axubane nemigqomo ephumayo, isiphumo asiyikumxhaphaza umntwana kuphela, kodwa siya kukumangazela ngeempawu ezikhethiweyo kunye nokubunjwa. Ukongeza, ngexesha leemfundo kwaye ukhula iimvumba zokudweba ungasebenzisa iiponji zasemakhaya, iibhulashi, i-stencil, umbala.

Ifayili ipeyinti ngezandla zakho

Ndifuna ukuthetha, nangona iipaliti zeminwe zithengwa naliphi na isitolo kubuncinane bendalo, zinokuthi zenziwe ngezandla zazo. Ukuveliswa kwepeyinti ekhaya kuyalula kwaye kufinyeleleka kuwo wonke umama. Nantsi iresiphi elula, equkethe izinto ezifikeleleke kakhulu:

Yenziwe! Ungadala! Ndicinga ukuba nawuphi na umama oya kufuna ulwazi malunga nendlela yokwenza imibala yamanwe, kuba oku kuya kunceda ukugcina uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, kunye nokuphazamisa umntwana ukuba angadli umxube omninzi, ukuba ungeze ityuwa kuwo.

Izixhobo zemifanekiso yamanwe

Xa uye waqhelana nomntwana wakho ngelizwe elibalabalalayo, uya kumangaliswa kukuba unako ukudweba ngamacwecwe, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, apho. Kuba abantwana sele befudula behamba ezinyaweni, sincoma ukuba uxhome iphepha elikhulu iphepha eludongeni ukuze iindonga zendlu yakho zingenzi buhlungu, kuba kukuvuyisa ukujonga imilambo enemibala.

Akukho bhodi enye yokwenza upende ngamanqaku omnwe, inkunzi imele inomdla kwinkqubo yokuqala kuqala, kuphela ke iya kufumana uphuhliso olufanelekileyo. Emva koko, ukuzithetha kweemvuthu kungenye yeenjongo ezilandelwa ngabaamazinyameko. Iiklasi imibala yamanwe ingadluliselwa kwindlu yokuhlambela, ezinjengopopayi ebonakalayo njenge-tile, akunakwenzeka ukuba ubone kwenye indawo, kuphela xa kusemzimbeni womntwana. I-Bodyart yindlela enye yokubonakalisa abantwana, kwaye abazali abaqaphele abakwazi ukuxhalabisa malunga neempembelelo ezingabonakaliyo kwesikhumba sentsana, kuba imibala ayinakulimala.

Beka bucala lonke ishishini lakho ixesha kwaye usebenze kunye nosana, kuba yonke into ayifunayo yinyameko yakho, ukunakekelwa nokuthanda. Ukuba usebenzise iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokudweba ngamacwecwe omnwe kunye nomntwana, awuzukufumana ukuzonwabisa kuphela, kodwa wenze negalelo elixabisekileyo ekuphuhlisweni kwengqondo kweemvumba zakho.