Uphi na indlela yokufumana umntwana?
I-intanethi ye-intanethi eRashiya nase-Ukraine inika ulwazi malunga nabantwana abakulungiselelwe ukuba bamkelwe kunye nokugcinwa. Kwakhona, ulwazi malunga nezingane ezilahliwe zingatholakala kwiNdlu yoBantwana. Kodwa akukho bani unokukunika ulwazi oluchanekileyo malunga nezempilo kunye nezihlobo zomntwana, kwaye nangaphantsi angeke akuvumele ukuba uthengise ukuba awunayo imibhalo yokwamkelwa.
Ngaphambi kokuba ukhangele umntwana wakho "umnikazi" kwaye uwamkele e-Ukraine nakwiRussia Federation, kufuneka ukwazi ukuba umntu owamkelayo angena kwiqela labantu abakufanelekile ukuba baqale ukwenza oku. Ezi zi:
- abantu abanetyala lolwaphulo-mthetho olunzulu, abaye bakhonza okanye abazange bakhonze isigwebo;
- abantu abajongene nokuxilwa kotywala nobisi;
- abantu abagula ngengqondo kunye nabantu abangenakulinganisela, kwaye ukuba bahlala kunye nomfaki-sicelo (amalungu omndeni, abahlali);
- ngakwazi;
- abanezifo ezivela kwoluhlu lubonelelwe (uGawulayo, i-HIV, isifo sofuba, umhlaza kunye nabanye);
- ukungenalo isigxina semali esisigxina esiphezulu kunomyinge osisigxina;
- Abantu abangenazo izindlu zabo okanye iimeko zabo abakunelisekanga (emva kokutyelela ikhomishini);
- esele ihlulwe ngamalungelo omzali.
Indlela yokufumana umntwana eRussia nase-Ukraine?
Isinyathelo sokuqala kukuqhagamshelana nomgcini wengingqi kunye negunya lolawulo. Baya kunika uluhlu oluyimfuneko lwamaphepha adingeka ukuba aqokelelwe ukuze abhaliswe njengomzali owamkelayo. Uluhlu lwayo lubandakanya:
- Iikopi kunye neemvelaphi zeepassports zabazali abamkeleyo.
- Isicelo sokwamkelwa komntwana.
- Isatifikethi sokupheliswa koviwo lwezonyango.
- Inkcazo yentlawulo yonyaka odlulileyo okanye isimemezelo.
- Ukukhupha iimpawu ukusuka kwindawo yomsebenzi.
- Ikopi yobunini bendawo yokuhlala.
- Uncedo lwamapolisa ngokungabikho kwerekhodi yolwaphulo-mthetho.
Emva kokuba amaphepha amkelwe kumfaki sicelo, ikhomishini yabantu abaningana iza kwaye ihlola indlu apho umntwana uya kuhlala khona. Akuyimfuneko ukuba abe nekamelo elilodwa, into ephambili kukuba ibe nendawo ebhedini labantwana, idesksi kunye ne-locker ngeengubo.
Ukuba imeko yendawo isenokuthi ingenelisekile, ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukugqiba (ukulungiswa) ukulungiswa, kwaye emva koko ukumema ikhomishini kwakhona. Enye imvelaphi yokukhubeka ingaba yinzuzo. Ukuba liphantsi kwezinga elimiselweyo, ummkeli unqatshelwe ukubhaliswa. Kodwa ukusuka kule ndlela kukho indlela yokuphuma - unokubhengeza ingeniso yakho engafanelekanga yonyaka, uhlawule irhafu kwaye ufumane isitifiketi esifanelekileyo.
Emva kokuba onke amaxwebhu ahlolwe, ezimbini iiveki kamva umfaki sicelo uyaziswa malunga nesiphumo. Ukuba ubhalisiwe, ngoko uqala ukukhangela umntwana (abantwana). Ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana ethathwa, uxwebhu lukhutshwa ngumgcini, ukuvumela abazali bazayo ukuba babone umntwana kwaye baqhube iimviwo zezempilo ezizimeleyo zempilo yakhe.
Indlela yokufumana enye ibhinqa (indoda)?
Kwithuba elithile ngoku, umda wokuba wamkelwa yintsapho uphakanyisiwe, kwaye ngoku omnye umntu ongeyena osapho unokuthatha umntwana. Oku kuya kufuna zonke iireferensi ezifanayo kunye namaxwebhu njengokwamkelwa ngumtshato wesibini esitshatileyo.
Unokufumana njani umntwana osandula?
Ukuba akukho mizila yabantwana abasanda kuzalwa kuloo ndawo, abazali abanokuba ngabazali, ukuba sele benempendulo efanelekileyo ekunyamekeleni, kwaye bahlala kwi-akhawunti yokugcinwa kwe-akhawunti, banokumkela umntwana esibhedlele, into enqatshelwe ngumama. Ngelishwa, loo matyala awanqabile kwaye abafazi bayaphuma kwiintsana bengenawo amaxwebhu afanelekileyo.
Ngako oko, umntwana onjalo akanakwamkelwa aze anqatshelwe umama wobomi. Oku kunokuthatha ixesha elide kakhulu. Ukukhawulezisa izinto, abazali bacetyiswa ukuba baqale ukuseka umntwana kwaye ngexesha elifanayo balungiselele amaxwebhu okufumana umntwana.
Indlela yokufumana umntwana omdala?
Kukho imeko xa kuyimfuneko ukuseka ubudlelwane beentsapho ezisemthethweni phakathi kwabazali kunye nomntwana omdala. Ezi zinto zinokuba nobuhlobo obusondeleyo (abazali bahlukane nomntwana kusuka ekuzalweni), okanye bafana kunye nootata abo ngenxa yezizathu zomthetho, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, malunga nelifa, bafuna ukuzalisa isizalwane.
Kwakhona abantu abadala abadala bangamkelwa naliphi na ubudala. Kule meko, onke amaxwebhu angentla apha kufuneka ahambisane nesitatimende esibhaliweyo somntu omdala malunga nemvume yakhe, engabhalwanga.