Uninzi lwabantu abangenabantwana abangabantwana abangaphuphayo ngokufumana umntwana osandula. Ngoko ke, ukuguqulwa kwe-refuseniks kumakhaya okubeleka kuninzi. Ukuze uhlale umgca, kuyimfuneko ukuzalisa isicelo kwaye uqokelele iphakheji efunekayo yamaphepha ukuze unikezelwe kumagunya okugcina kunye namatrasti.
Indlela yokufumana umntwana osanda kuzalwa eRashiya?
Xa ebuzwa ukuba yeyiphi iminyaka engcono ukufumana umntwana, uninzi lwabazali abaza kubaphendula-kwintsana. Umntwana uya kuqwalasela isibini esitshatileyo, ungakuphepha ukuhleba okungabalulekanga kwabamelwane.
Inkqubo yokwamkelwa kwindlu yokubeleka yintsana esandula kuzalwa iqhutywe kwiseshoni yenkundla ngokuthatha inxaxheba ngokusemthethweni komtshutshisi, kunye nokugcinwa kwamagunya okugcina.
Uludwe lweemviwo eziyimfuneko ezimele ziqokelelwe phambi kweseshoni yenkundla:
- iipasipoti zomtshato kunye neefowuni zazo;
- isicelo sokwamkelwa okuthunyelwe kumabhunga okugcina kunye ne-trusteeship;
- isatifiketi kwiimeko zempilo yabazali bexesha elizayo;
- Imisebenzi yokuhlola indawo ephilayo eyenziwa yikomishoni yezindlu kunye namagosa okugcinwa kunye nokuphathwa kwamatyala;
- imvume yemvume yomlingani;
- izicatshulwa ezivela kwincwadi yasekhaya, kunye nakwi-akhawunti yakho;
- isatifikethi somvuzo;
- iimpawu ukusuka kwindawo yokuqeshwa kunye nokuhlala.
Imiyalelo yokufumana umntwana esibhedlele
Ukuthatha umntwana unokwenza isibini esitshatileyo sinesimo esihle, indawo efanelekileyo yokuhlala kunye nemali engenayo. Ingeniso yemali yabalingani kufuneka idlule kwizinga lokuphila. Akukho namnye wabazali abathobelayo kufuneka babe nerekhodi yolwaphulo-mthetho kwixesha elidlulileyo. Ukumkela abantwana, kufuneka banike imvume kubo bobabini. Kubalulekile ukubonakalisa ukungabikho kwezi zifo ezifana nesifo sofuba, izifo ze-venereal, i-oncology, ukuxhomekeka kweziyobisi, i-AIDS, ingxaki yengqondo.
Emva kokubonisa amaxwebhu, eso sibini siyafumana malunga nokuvalelwa kwenyanga malunga nokufumana umntwana. Ngokukhawuleza xa kufika ukufika, i-artianship kunye ne-arhenteti arhente iza kukuxelela ukuba nini kwaye ungaphi na umntwana. Ukuthotyelwa ngokwayo kuthathwa njengesisiseko emva kwesigqibo sekhotho esifanelekileyo.
Ngaba kunzima ukwamukela umntwana e-Ukraine?
Inkqubo yokwamkela umntwana kwisibhedlele e-Ukraine ayifani kakhulu nenkqubo yaseRashiya. Okokuqala, isibini sisebenza kwiiNkonzo zeBantwana kwaye sithola inkcazo yamanyathelo adingeka ukuba athathwe. Umqeshwa wenkonzo uya kuchaza ukuba yimaphi amaxwebhu adingekayo ukuze amkele umntwana.
Uluhlu lwamaphepha adingekayo:
- ikopi yepasipoti yommi waseUkraine;
- isatifiketi sengeniso kwiinyanga ezintandathu zokugqibela okanye ikopi yengxelo engenayo eyamkelwa kunyaka odlulileyo;
- ikopi yesatifiketi somtshato;
- Kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nemvume ebhaliweyo yokumkelwa komntu wesibini;
- isatifiketi sezempilo kwimpilo yabazali abaza kubazali;
- isatifiketi sokungabikho kwesigwebo esedlule;
- ukuqinisekiswa kwamalungelo epropati,
kwaye kwakhona, imvume yokuhlala isigxina.
Emva koko, kubhaliweyo isitatimenti, esithunyelwa kwiNkonzo yabantwana. Impendulo kufuneka ifike kwiintsuku ezilishumi. Ngokukhawuleza xa umfaki sicelo efakwa kwifowuni, ukulinda kuqala. Ngamanye amaxesha, iphela ngaphezu konyaka. Kule meko, amaxwebhu aya kufuneka aqokelelwe kwakhona.
Xa uthabathe umntwana osanda kuzalwa, ukhetha ukwenziwa kwiintsapho zakhe. Ukongeza, umgca wabantu abanqwenela ukuthatha umntwana unkulu. Ngokukhawuleza xa kufika ukufika, abazali abanokukwazi ukuvelisa umntwana. Emva koko, bafumana isatifiketi, abayifake enkundleni. Isigqibo esisemthethweni senkundla siqala ukusebenza iintsuku ezilishumi.