Ubomi babazali, ngokomthetho, buzele ukwesaba kunye nexhala. Sinoyika izifo zabantwana, ukulimala , izingozi kunye njalo. Kwaye umdala umntwana uya kuba, abazali abaninzi bayesaba. Kodwa awukwazi ukumbamba umntwana ngoboya bekotini, ngokukhawuleza ukukhusela kwilizwe langaphandle - inkunzi imele inxibelelane kunye noontanga, qha ga mshelana noluntu, zifunde ukuzimela. Kodwa ukuyikrakra kweziganeko zanamhlanje ebomini zihlala zixutywe kunye nokuqonda kwezi nyaniso ezilula - iindaba zokusasazwa kweendaba kunye neengxelo kwi-intanethi zigcwele zonke iintlobo zokuphazamiseka ngokutshabalalisa, ukubulala nokudlwengulwa kwabantwana. Asinakuxhathisa ububi behlabathi, kunjalo, kodwa ngamnye umzali angathatha amanyathelo okukhusela ukuze akhusele umntwana kumngene.
Iingcebiso kubazali
Ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho aqale ukuhamba yedwa kwisitrato, umzekelo, ukuya esikolweni, kufuneka alungiselele ngokucophelela izinto ezenzekayo zobomi bwanamhlanje, ekwazisa ngemimiselo nemigaqo yokuziphatha okukhuselekileyo, kwakunye neengozi ezinokumlinda. Okokuqala, qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi igama lakhe elipheleleyo, ifani kunye nedilesi yendawo yokuhlala. Emva koko kufuneka kuhanjiswe iinyaniso ezilandelayo:
- Awukwazi ukuhlala esitrato okanye kwididi endleleni yokuphuma esikolweni, kufuneka ube ekhaya ngaphambi kokuhlwa;
- Akukho mfuneko ukuba uxoxe nabantu abangaziwayo, ungene kwimoto phantsi kwayo nayiphi na into ebalulekileyo, uthathe izipho kunye namathoyizi kubo uze uye kwindawo ethile, uhambelane kwizithembiso;
- Xa umntwana elahlekile okanye elahlekile, mfundise ukuba angabesabi kwaye angabi ukukhala, kodwa ukujongana nabantu abadala: amapolisa, abathengisi ezitolo, oomama nabantwana abancedisayo;
- Musa ukunika umntwana izinto ezixabisekileyo: iifowuni ezibiza, iipilisi, iigrafu, ukuze angabhubhisi abaphangi;
- amaxesha amaninzi abakhohlisa abantwana, ebaxelela ukuba unina okanye ubaba wabo uceliwe ukuba athathe nabo aze abale ndawo, bathi, ukusebenza okanye esibhedlele. Kubalulekile ukucacisa kusengaphambili nomntwana ukuba akunakwenzeka kwezi zimo okanye ukuza "nomsebenzisi wephasiwedi". Isitshixo salo silula - kufuneka usungula igama okanye ibinzana kuphela amalungu omndeni wakho aya kukwazi. Kwaye ukuba kukho imeko enzima, xa kuya kubakho ukucela umntu ongaziwayo ukuba ancede, unokucela iphasiwedi ukuqinisekisa ukuba akayena umonakalo, kodwa ngokwenene uyasebenza kwisicelo sabazali bakhe;
- ukuba umntwana uhlala ekhaya wedwa, kufuneka umchazele ukuba awukwazi ukuvula umnyango kubantu abangaziwayo phantsi kweemeko. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abahlaseli bazama ukungena ngaphakathi kwendawo yokuhlala ngokugqithiseleyo kwabasebenzi benkonzo yoluntu, oogqirha, amapolisa kunye njalo;
- Abantwana abadala kunye nabaselula kufuneka bachaze umngcipheko wokuwa kwiinkampani ezingaqhelekanga, ngakumbi ukuba kukho abantu abadala;
- uyakukhathalela ngexesha elifanelekileyo lokuxelela umntwana ngemicimbi yesondo ngexesha elifanelekileyo leminyaka. Umntwana kufuneka aqonde intsingiselo yokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo kunye nokuxhatshazwa kwaye abayiki ukuwucima,
kunye nakwixesha lokubanika abantu abadala abathembelayo; - ifom kwintsapho yokuthembela nokuqonda, ukuze umntwana angabi noloyiko kwaye anganqikazi ukuxelela iingxaki zakhe kunye neengxaki ezijongene nazo. Emva koko unokufunda ngexesha malunga neemeko ezinokubandezeleka kunye nokuxhamla;
- Iintsholongwane zisengozini, ngoko khuthaza umntwana wakho okhulayo ukuba akuxelele ukuba uphi kunye nobani kwaye uza kuba nini ekhaya. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana unemali kwi-akhawunti yefowuni yeselula kwaye unokukubiza ukuba uqaphele ngokulibaziseka okanye xa kwenzeka ingozi.