Bonke abazali bayazi ukuba kukulungele ukubeka izinto zezingane - le nto ihlala iyingxaki. Ndifuna ukuba igumbi lihle kwaye lihle, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo umntwana kufuneka afumane kalula amathoyizi akhethiweyo kunye neencwadi. Ukulungeleka kakhulu kule nkalo yilezi zeshishini zegumbi labantwana. Akunakwenzeka kuphela, kodwa banokukhetha izinto ezininzi, ngoko unokukhetha umbala ofanelekileyo wangaphakathi.
Unokukhetha njani ukulungelelanisa abantwana?
- Imfuno ebalulekileyo yefenitshala yabantwana yokhuseleko lwayo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubhala ingqalelo kwizinto ezivela kuso. Kungcono, ewe, ukuba ngumthi wendalo, kodwa ngoku kukho izinto ezininzi zanamhlanje ezikhuselekileyo kwaye azikhupha izinto eziyingozi. Zilula ukuhlambulula, zibe nemibala eqaqambileyo kwaye ayixhatshali umonakalo. Kodwa oku kubaluleke kakhulu kwintenitshala yabantwana.
- Umlinganiselo wesibini ngabazali bakhetha ukukhwabanisa umntwana kumathoyizi kukusebenza kwawo. Akufanele ahlale indawo enkulu kwigumbi kwaye kulungile ukuba ifenitshala enjalo iya kubamba zonke iizitha kunye neengubo zentsana. Ukwenza oku, i-rack ingaba ivalwe amashalofu okanye abadwebi apho izinto ezincinci zingafakwa khona. Ukuba igumbi lincinci kwaye ufuna ukwenza indawo yeemidlalo, uya kufuna i-shelf yekhonkco kwiindawo zokulala. Ayithathi indawo enkulu, kodwa ikhululekile.
- Amashalofu abantwana kufuneka athandwe ngumntwana. Ewe, ukuba iya kulungelelanisa ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwendawo kwaye ukhange umntwana ngombala omhle okanye uqobo lwalo. Iimodeli ezahlukileyo kakhulu ezikhuselekileyo kwiindawo zokulala. Ziyakwazi ukuba ngolu hlobo lendlu, iinqanawa okanye isikebhe.
Qaphela ukuba u-rack uzinzile, kungcono ukuba kuya kuqhotyoshelwa eludongeni ukuze umntwana angawuguquli. Ukuba inesibambiso, kufuneka sibe ngaphakathi, kunye neendawo ezikhulayo kunye neembombo. Gwema ukufakwa kweglasi kunye neensimbi zecandelo.
Amacaka angancinci okanye ahlale eludongeni lonke, kunye namacandelo afanayo okanye ahlukeneyo, kunye nabadwebi okanye iingcango. Iincwadi zeencwadi zezingane mazivulekele, ukuze inkomo ikwazi ukubona ukuba zeziphi iincwadi. Ewe, ukuba bekunye kunye namathoyizi, kuya kunceda ukutsala ingqalelo yomntwana ongafuni ukufunda, kwiincwadi. Kuba umntwana wesikolo, ukhetho olukhethekileyo kukuthenga idesksi yabantwana ngeshelufu. Oku akusayi kukwandisa indawo yokusebenza efanelekileyo yokufunda iincwadi zezifundo kunye nezinto zokubhala, kodwa uncede ukufundela umntwana ukuba akhuphe.
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