Indlela yokulungisa umlondolozo phezu komntwana omncinci, yiziphi iintlobo zokulondoloza (ukugcinwa) kubantwana, kunye neminye imiba malunga nalo mcimbi, makhe sixoxe ngale nqaku.
Kufuneka nini ukulungiselela ukugcinwa nokugcina umntwana?
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba intsapho iyindawo yokuqala, ngabantu abasondeleyo nabathandekayo, onomama onothando nothando, oku kukuxhasa nenkxaso, ezi ziholide kunye nezithethe, esi siqinisekiso sokuphuhliswa komntu opheleleyo kunye nozaneleyo. Umntwana ngamnye obonakalayo kufuneka akhule kwintsapho, abe nolutsha olonwabileyo. Kodwa, maye, iifomati zingenakulinganiswa, kwaye ukusebenza kumagumbi okugcina kunye ne-trusteeship akuyi kuba ngaphantsi kweminyaka.
Abantwana abaninzi bahlala bengabikho nkathalo yabazali ngenxa ye:
- ukufa kwabazali;
- ukunyanzelwa okanye ukuthintela amalungelo omzali.
Kwimeko yokuqala, yonke into iyacaca. Iintlekele, izifo, imililo, iintlekele zemvelo - zithathe amakhulu eminyaka zobomi bomntu. Kwaye kunkwantya ukucinga ukuba bangaphi abantwana abahlala bezintandane.
Ngokuphathelele ukunyanzelwa kwamalungelo omzali, kukho ezininzi iinketho. Isigqibo sokwahlulela singanciphisa, njengomnye, kunye nabazali bobabini ngamalungelo omzali kwezi zizathu:
- ukwala kwabazali kumntwana;
- Ukungabikho ixesha elide (ukuhamba ngokusisigxina kwezoshishino, ixesha lokukhonza kwiindawo zokulahla inkululeko);
- ukuphulwa kwamalungelo neemfuno zomntu omncinci;
- ukuphathwa kakubi komntwana;
- ukuxhomekeka kweziyobisi okanye utywala.
Kucacile ukuba, kwiimeko ezinjalo, umntwana ufuna umgcini okanye abaphathiswa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngaba ootatomkhulu, okanye ezinye izihlobo eziseduze.
Izidingo kunye neempawu ezikhethekileyo zokugcinwa kwabantwana
Ekuqaleni siza kwenza ukugcinwa kwenkqutyana ezithatyathwa, ngaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-14 ubudala, nangaphantsi kwabantwana bokugcina abantwana abaneminyaka emi-14 ukuya kwe-18. Ukugqithiselwa okanye ukugcinwa komntwana, umviwa kufuneka:
- kusemthethweni;
- ayinakho ukukholelwa kwangaphambili;
- ukuba ube nemali engenayo ephezulu kunokuba ubuncinane bezinto zokuhlala;
- indawo yokuhlala yokuhlala;
- ayinakususwa kwamalungelo omzali kwaye akayi kususwa ekugcinweni okanye ekugcinweni.
Ukugcinwa nokugcinwa kwabantwana abancinci akukwenzelwa abantu abanezifo ezininzi: i-oncology, ingxaki yengqondo, isifo sofuba kunye nabanye. Ukuba umgqatswa wabagcini (abatrasti) utshatile, ngoko iqabane okanye iqabane kufuneka lidibane nazo zonke ezi mfuno zilapha ngasentla.
Ukuze ube ngumgcini womntwana, kuyimfuneko ukungenisa amaxwebhu afunwa kumagunya afanelekileyo kwaye ufake isicelo kunye nabaphathi bamagcini kunye nabaphathi be-trusteeship.
Injongo ephambili yokulondolozwa kunye nokugcinwa ngumsebenzi kukukhuliswa kunye nemfundo yentsana, kunye nokukhuselwa kwamalungelo kunye neemfuno zayo.
Umthetho unikezela iintlawulo ezikhethekileyo kunye nezibonelelo:
- Iintlawulo zentlawulo zithembela ekuqaleni nokupheliswa komgcini;
isibonelelo senyanga, sihlawulwa rhoqo ngenyanga ade umntwana afinyelele kwinani labaninzi. Isixa semali sincike kummandla wokuhlala.
Ukugcinwa okuhlanganyelweyo komntwana
Ukuthatha inxaxheba ngokulinganayo ekukhulisweni kwengane nonina emva kokuqhawula umtshato akukho nto yokugcinwa komtshato, okuvumela ukuba bobabini abazali ukuba bathathe inxaxheba ebomini bomntwana, ukuba bathwale uxanduva olufanayo kumntwana wabo. Izinto ezintsha ezinjalo kumthetho zinika indlela enengqiqo yokukhulisa abantwana kule ntsapho apho abazali baqhawula umtshato kwaye bahlala ngokwahlukileyo.