Ukuphuhliswa komntwana kwiinyanga ezi-4 - kufuneka uyenze ntoni?

Abazali abanonophelo baqwalasela ngokugqithiseleyo impilo kunye nophuhliso lweemvuthu kusuka ekuzalweni. Mhlawumbi baya kuqaphela ukuba ngomnyaka wokuqala wobomi babo umntwana uya kubamangalela ngempumelelo emitsha imihla ngemihla. Ku luncedo kumama omncinci ukugcina idayari apho kuyimfuneko ukuphawula utshintsho ekuphatheni kwekarapuza kunye nezakhono zakhe ezintsha. Oku kuyimemori enomdla kwiminyaka emininzi. Kodwa ke ulwazi luya kunceda ukuvavanya ukuphuhliswa komntwana kwiinyanga ezi-4, ngoko kuyakunceda ukwazi kwangaphambili oko kulungele ukukwenza kule minyaka.

Uphuhliso lomzimba

Abantwana ngeli xesha lobomi babo baqala ukubonisa imisebenzi. Abazali bafanele baqaphele, kwaye bagcine iliso kwintsana yonke ixesha. Nalu uluhlu lwezakhono ezisisiseko ukuba i-karapuz iya kubakholisa abathandekayo bakho:

• Umntwana kufuneka abambe intloko yakhe;
• Ngethuba lokuvusa umntwana usoloko eshukumisa izitho, kwaye ekuqapheliseni indlela yeentsapho, ukunyuka kuya kuba nzima kakhulu;
• Ukuba umntu ongaziwayo uyabonakala emva kwakho, abantwana banokuqaphela;
• Unokujika ukusuka kwisisu ukuya kwicala;
• Abantwana abaninzi kule minyaka bazama ukuhlala phantsi ngokuzimela kwindawo yokulala;
• ngokukhawuleza uzama ukufikelela kwizinto ezithandayo;
• Ngeli xesha abanye abantwana baqala ukuzama ukukhwela.

Ekuqalekeni kubonakala ngathi umntwana kwiinyanga ezi-4 uyazi ukuba angenzi nto. Kodwa imbono enjalo iphosakeleyo. Ngomntu oncinci zonke ezi zakhono ziyimpumelelo yangempela. Kuya kuba luncedo ukwazi ukuba abantwana kwiinyanga ezi-4 banokuzama ukubiza ezinye iilabhile, ezingenakuthathwa njengamazwi okuqala.

Izingane zihlala ziphapheme malunga neeyure ezingama-2 kumqolo. Ngexeshana i-crumb iyakwazi ukuzibamba. Umzekelo, unokuqwalasela umdlalo okanye into.

Yonke into eyenziwa ngumntwana kwiinyanga ezi-4, isebenza ngokufana namakhwenkwe namantombazana. Iimpawu zodwa zichaphazela ukuphuhliswa kwengane, kodwa isondo asiyidlala indima ekhokelayo kulo, kodwa inokuchaphazela iiparitha zomzimba, ezifana nobukhulu, ukuphakama.

Phuhliso loluntu

Nazi ezinye izakhono nezakhono ezinokukholisa abazali bomzali:

• abaninzi abantwana banandipha ukuphulaphula umculo, babonisa umdla kwizandi ezintsha, beka imithombo yabo;
• I-crumb iyathokoza ngokubona kwamathoyizi;
• ufunda ilizwi lomama kunye nabanye abathandekayo;
• Uthanda ukuthathwa kwiingalo zakhe kwaye ubanjwe kwi-pose, eyenza sikwazi ukuhlola ngokucophelela yonke into ejikelezile;
• uqala ukusabela egameni lakhe;
• ukubethelwa, ukugubha, ukuzama ukuthetha kwamagama akhe.

Ezinye iintsana zihleka ngeli xesha, kodwa kungekhona zonke. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba umntwana ezinyangeni ezine angabonisa uvuyo kunye nokunyakaza kwezandla ezisebenzayo, iinyawo.

Indlela yokukhulisa abantwana kwiinyanga ezine?

Okwangoku, kukho ubuchule bokuqala bokuphuhlisa, kunye nemidlalo efanelekileyo kunye nezinto zokuphuhlisa. Oomama abancinci banomdla kubo kwaye banomdla wokufaka isicelo sokukhulisa umntwana wabo. Ngenxa yokuba baya kuba nomdla wokuqonda oko kukufanele ukufundisa umntwana kwiinyanga ezine.

Ukwenza ubuntu obuhambelanayo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthetha nomntwana. Makubonakale kubonakala ukuba into encinane ayiqondi into. Enyanisweni, umntwana usumkele kakhulu abantu abadala kwaye ngokukhawuleza uyabamba intetho. Kwakhona kwaziwa ukuba ukubunjwa kwentetho efanelekileyo kuyimfuneko ukususela ekuqaleni Ubuntwana ukuba ufunde kakhulu umntwana. Kodwa ukukhetha iincwadi kufuneka zihambelane neminyaka yakhe. Abazali abazibuza ukuba bafunde ntoni umntwana kwiinyanga ezi-4, unokucebisa ukuba unake ingqalelo kwiimvumi zezingane kunye nezimbongo ezilula. Ziyabonakala lula njengeemvumba, zancedisa ukuphuhliswa kwememori.

Ku luncedo ukubandakanya umculo omnandi kubantwana, kucula iingoma zezingane kunye nezilwanyana. Xoxa nge-crumb kwizwi elincinci.

Kusemfuneko ukuba ukhumbule, ukuba umntwana ongaphumi kwintsuku ezinyangeni ezi-4 uyakwazi ukwenza ngaphantsi, kunokuba oko kwazalwa ngexesha, nangona unyaka wokuphumelela kwabo kuya kuba sele ulingana.