Izakhono ezibaluleke kakhulu zomntwana kwiinyanga ezili-11
Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuphuhliswa komntwana kwiinyanga ezili-11 ukuya ku-12 kungumlinganiselo wesikhokelo esisixhenxe. Ukuvela kubazali abalumkileyo ababaleki into yokuba unyana okanye intombi yabo sele isakwazi ukukwazi:
- Akunakukumelela kuphela ukuxhasa wena, kodwa ukuhamba ngokulula ngaphandle kokuncediswa ngaphandle. Ngamanye amaxesha ukoma ukwazi ulwazi lwehlabathi kunamandla kangangokuthi umntwana sele sele ethatha amanyathelo okuzimela apheleleyo ngaphandle kokuxhasa. Kwaye apha umsebenzi wabazali kukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lomphenyi omncinci kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ngoko qiniseka ukuba uqinisekisa amaqhekeza kwaye uthenge izicathulo ezintle zamathambo: ngoku kuya kuyimfuneko kunanini ngaphambili.
- Dlala kumdlalo onzima. Ngoku umntwana akafundi nje ukuphatha izinto ezahlukeneyo, uthabathe ii cubes okanye uqoke iipiramidi, kodwa ufunda neendima zokudlala indima. Ukuxelisa iintshukumo zabantu abadala, ugqithisa umdomboli wododoli, ubeka ibhedi yakhe ethandekayo ebhedini okanye emondla. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ubukho beli nqanaba lophuhliso lomntwana kwiinyanga ezili-11 zobomi lubonisa ukuzimisela komntwana ukudibanisa noluntu kwixesha elizayo, ukuhlakulela ukusebenzisana nabanye abantu nokuchonga ukuba ngumntu othile wesini.
- Ukwenza imisebenzi engqondweni elula, equka ukuhlanganiswa kunye nokuvelisa. Oko kukuthi, umntwana udibanisa ngokulula izinto zibe ngamaqela ngokubhekiselele kwinto ethile eqhelekileyo, umzekelo, umlo okanye umbala. Kwaye, ngexesha elifanayo, uyaqonda ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuzisa idodoli u-Olya, kungekhona uJulia okanye i-Ira, ngexesha elifanayo ukuqonda ukuba zonke ezi zidodoli.
- Ukuthetha. Ewe, iingcali, ukuba ubabuza oko umntwana akufanele athi kwiinyanga ezili-11, baya kuphendula ukuba konke oku kumntu. Nangona kunjalo, ukusetyenziswa kwamagama angamagama nje alula nje ngokuthi "mama", "uyise" okanye "baba" ibonwa njengesiqhelo, kodwa ukubonakala kwisichazamazwi samagama okuqala onomatopoeic: "kis-kis", "vumela", "kwi", "av-av "," Thenga ", njl. Umntwana wakho unokukwazi ukufika ngolwimi lwakhe, eqondakalayo kuphela kuwe kunye naye: "Bach" kuya kuthetha ukulahla okungalindelekanga kwento ethile, kwaye "Fah" - umzekelo, umkhwa. Kule meko, umntwana usebenzise ngokucacileyo amagama athile kuphela kwiimeko ezithile.
- Yithatha into encinane kunazo zonke naziphi na izixhobo zesandulela kunye nesithupha.
- Ukuqonda intetho yabazali, ngokukodwa, igama elithi "akunakwenzeka", nangona kunjalo, akubona bonke abantwana abaphulaphulayo kule meko.
- Dlala imidlalo elula. Yiloo nto umntwana, ngokweengcali zeengqondo, kufuneka enze ezinyangeni ezili-11. Ezi ziquka "Ladushki", "Soroka-Beloboka", "Ku-ku", "Hamba-hlala" (usana ulusa ipeni ngokubulisa okanye ukuyeka). Abantwana abaninzi banandipha umdlalo webhola xa bawubuyisela kubazali babo.
Bhengeza iminqweno yakho ngamazwi okanye ngempawu, ngokungafani nokukhala, njengoko kwakunjalo ngaphambili. - Ngokuzimela ukusela kwindebe, ukunikezela ngaphandle koncediso, kunye nokuzama ukulawula ngokupheka ngexesha lokutya. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kuzo zonke izakhono ezinxulumene noko umntwana kufuneka akwazi ukukwenza kwiinyanga ezili-11, oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Emva kwakho konke, oku kukuvumela ukuba ukhulule umama osele uxakekile.
- Qondisisa intsingiselo yeziphakamiso eziphambili "ukusuka", "kuya", "kuya", "ukuya". Ngokomzekelo, inkunzi ayifuni ukufumana ithoyilo ngodonga lwebhotile evulekileyo, kodwa sele iqaphele ukuba idibansi kufuneka iphoswe kwindawo yayo.