Ngomnqweno wabo wokunxibelelana kunye noluntu, abantu bahlulwe ngamaqela amakhulu amabini: i- extroverts and introverts . Isizathu salolu daba lusemgangathweni lwenkqubo yeentlanzi kunye namandla enamandla. Ukukhutshwa kunye nokuveliswa kweentengiso kuhambelana neempawu ezingenasistim zomntu ongenakuguqulwa ngandlela-thile, kodwa unokulungiswa ngokukhawuleza ngoncedo lokukhulisa okanye ukuzifundisa.
Ngubani othumayo?
Iingcali zeengqondo, ukuphendula umbuzo into ekuthiwa yi-extrovert, ukuhlawula ingqwalaselo ephambili kwindoda yangaphakathi ekusebenzisaneni nabantu abakujikelezile. Ukususela kwingcamango yeengqondo, i-extrovert ngumntu ojolise ekunxibelelaneni kunye noonxibelelwano kunye nabanye abantu. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abe nabantu kwindawo yakhe apho angabelana nabo ngamava kunye nokuchitha ixesha lakhe. Umntu onjalo akakwazi ukusebenza yedwa, kuba ufuna ukuhlala rhoqo kwabanye abantu. Kubalulekile ukuba axoxe nomnye umntu, xubusha izicwangciso zakhe, uthethe ngezinto ezenzekayo. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuthethi ukuba ufuna iiluleko zomntu okanye akakwazi ukugqiba indlela yokuphila. Kuba i-extrovert ayikho imbangela ebalulekileyo yokunxibelelana, njengenkqubo ngokwayo.
Kwi-esoteric, kukho ukuqonda okuthe kancinane kwento ecacileyo. Ngokwale nzululwazi, umntu ukhulisa amandla ebomini okanye ngexesha lokulala, okanye uyifumana kwinkqubo yokuthetha nabanye abantu. Ngethuba lokusasaza ebusuku, amandla okwaneleyo akhiqizwa, ngoko ke ngemini abayidingi ukutshatyalaliswa kwabanye. Ama-Introverts aziva ahlala yodwa, zombini ngexesha lomsebenzi kwaye ngexesha lokuphumla. Ukugqithisa, ngokuchasene nama-introverts, musa ukuvelisa inani elifunekayo lamanzi ngexesha lokulala, ngoko bavame ukukufumana ngaphandle. Kubonakala ukuba ukusuka kwinqanaba lokujonga i-esotericism, i-extrovert ngumntu ofumana amandla amaninzi ekusebenzisaneni nabanye abantu.
Indlela yokuyiqonda - i-extrovert okanye i-introvert?
Umntu unqwenela ukuba unempawu ezinjalo:
- Uthanda ukusebenza kwiqela. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi akakhathazeki kakhulu malunga noko kwenzekayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba i-extrovert, into ephambili kukuba kukho abantu abaza kudibana naye ukuba ufuna.
- Ufumana onke amathuba okuthetha, kulula ukungena kumntu ongaziwayo.
- Uba ludenge kwaye unxilongo ngokulondeka ixesha elide.
- Uthanda ukwenza ebantwini, uthanda amaqela anomsindo, ii-discos, iiholide.
- Ukuthuthuzelwa kwisihlwele.
- I-extrovert isoloko inamaqela amaninzi.
- Ufumana amandla kungekhona kuphela ekunxibelelaneni okulungileyo, kodwa nakubonxibelelwano obubi. Ngoko ke, inokudibanisa kwiimeko ezinzima kwaye isombulule iingxaki.
- Xelela abanye amava abo.
- Ngokusabela kwe-extrovert, umntu unokuhlala echaza oko akuvakalelwayo.
- Ekubeni ukuzithemba kwangaphakathi kunzima, kubalulekile kubo oko abanye bacinga ngako ngabo.
Ngaba umntu ongenakunqwenela kwaye angenelela abe ngumhlobo?
Ekubeni i-extrovert iyimvelo enokuxhatshazeka kakhulu, unokufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo malunga nantoni na umntu, kuquka i-introverts. Ezi ntlobo ezimbini zobuntu zinokuqhagamshelana ngokugcwele kunye nobutyebi. I-extrovert ngenjongo yolonwabo iya kubelana nokuvakalisa amava kunye nokubonakala kwakhe, kwaye u-introvert uya kuvuyela ukuphulaphula. Nangona kunjalo, ekubeni i-extrovert ayikwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane obusondeleyo nomntu omnye ixesha elide, kwaye i-introvert ixhaswa ngokukhawuleza kunye noqhagamshelwano, oqhagamshelwano lwexesha elide phakathi kwabo ludlulileyo. Ubuhlobo phakathi kwe-extrovert kunye ne-introvert buyenzeka kuphela kwimeko yokuba baqwalasela iimpawu zomnye nomnye.