Indoda ngumntu onomdla, ochanekayo kunye nokhawulezayo. Umntu ngamnye unemikhwa yakhe, izakhono kunye nekhono elikhethekileyo kuye kuphela. Ehlabathini akukho babini abantu abafana ngokufanayo, sonke siyahluke. Kodwa kunjalo, izazinzulu zisetyenziselwa ukwahlula abantu kwiintlobo ezithile, ngokweengcinga zabo nokuziphatha kwabo kuluntu. Ngoko kwihlabathi lethu kubonakala ingcamango yokuzisa kunye nokugqithisa. Ukwahlula phakathi kwe-introvert kunye ne-extrovert ayibonakaliyo ekuqaleni, kuba kucacisiwe kubalulekile ukuba uqhelane nomntu.
Kuthetha ukuthini i-introvert and extrovert?
I-extrovert ngumntu othetha naye ovulekileyo. Uyakuthanda abantu abaqhelana nabo kunye neentlanganiso, phantse behlala bebonakala. Abantu abanjalo bachitha kwiikunene nakwesobunxele ngaphandle kokulandela nayiphi na injongo .
I-introvert iyimfihlo kwaye iyimfihlo. Uhlala ebhaptizwa ngaphakathi kuye, akafuni ukuqala ingxoxo yokuqala, okanye kunoko, akayi kuwuqala, ukuba akayi kulandela nayiphi na inzuzo yakhe.
Ngaba i-introvert ingaba yi-extrovert?
Le meko iyakwenzeka. Abanye abantu xa bekhulile beziphatha ngokufihlakeleyo kwaye bengaboniswanga, kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo baqala ukuvulela kwicala elitsha. Olu tshintsho alulula kumntu, kuba kufuneka atshintshe ngokwakhe kunye nemikhwa yakhe. Kodwa, ezi nguqulelo zihlala zinefuthe elihle ebomini bomntu kwixesha elizayo. Phantse zonke izazinzulu ziye zafikelela kwisigqibo sokuba i-extroverts ihlala kwihlabathi lanamhlanje lula kakhulu.
Ukuze uqonde ukuba ngubani onokumemezela kunye nokugqithisa, umntu kufuneka afunde ngakumbi ukuqonda abantu. Enyanisweni, akunzima, kufuneka nje unike umntu inkululeko kwingxoxo, ungamphazamisi kwaye ubuze imibuzo eminye. Ngendlela, kubalulekile ukuba kuqaphele ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo abantu bangeniswayo, abanakufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye nolunye uhlobo. Kuvela ngenxa yobume obuhluke ngokupheleleyo. Bajonga ngamehlo ahlukeneyo kwihlabathi kunye neengxaki kwaye abayi kuguqula enye. Imitshato phakathi kwabantu abanjalo ayinakwenzeka.
Iimpawu zezethulo kunye nokuxhamla
Ngokuchanekileyo iimpawu ezikhankanyweyo azifumaneki kule akhawunti, kodwa ngokubanzi, i-extroverts ifakwe kwiimpawu ezifana nalezi:
- nziswano;
- ngcikivo;
- u mngcipheko;
- ugonyamelo;
- sibindi;
- ntembelo.
Ukuba ucinga ngomntu ngamnye ngokwahlukileyo, ngoko olu luhlu lungagcwaliswa ixesha elide. Enyanisweni, ukutyhutyha kwezinto ezithandwayo kubancedisa ukuba bazive baninzi kunoma yimuphi umphakamo, oza kungena kuphela.
Izivakalisi kaninzi ziba neempawu ezilandelayo:
- ukuzola;
- nya mezela;
- nya niseka;
- engqondweni;
- ukuziqukela.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ubuhlobo nomntu onjalo buqine, kuba basenokungakwazi ukunyelisa umntu omthandayo. Kodwa, ngenxa yeemeko zabo zentlalo, abantu abasondeleyo banalo.
Ngamanye amaxesha, umntu ngokwakhe uyazibuza ukuba angaziqonda njani, uyangenisa okanye u-extrovert. Kunzima ukuhlalutya ukuziphatha kwakho kwintlalo yanamhlanje ngokuzimeleyo, kodwa ukulandela zonke iiparameter ezingentla, kunokwenzeka. Okokuqala, balingani inani labangani bakho, okungenani ubuninzi, kungekhona umgangatho. Khumbula indlela ochitha ngayo ixesha lakho lokuzikhethela kwaye impendulo iya kuza ngokwayo.
Ngokomgaqo, akunandaba ukuba ungubani na onabantu. Into ephambili ayiyikulahlekelwa imbeko kunye nesithunzi kwaye ke nakweyiphi indawo yokugcina impahla uza kufumana zakho izitshixo, kunye nabahlobo abathembekileyo kunye nenkampani evuya kunye nezinye izinto eziyimfuneko kwihlabathi lanamhlanje.