Umntwana ngaphambi kokuba alele embhedeni - le nyaniso ayikwazi ukukholisa naliphi na abazali, kodwa ubunzima bokulala - ingxaki ephantse idibana nayo yonke intsapho. Kutheni umntwana ekhala okanye ekhale ngaphambi kokulala? Kubonakala kubanye abazali ukuba oku kuyimfuneko ukuba abantwana balele. ("Nantoni na oyenzayo, kodwa uyakhala.") Ngaba kunjalo, kunye nendlela yokuzincoma umntwana ngaphambi kokulala?
Kutheni umntwana eqhuba ngexesha lokulala?
Ukuba ngumntwana omncinci kakhulu, qaphela ulawulo lwakhe lolo suku, ukutya kwakhe, impilo. Okubi ukulala kungakwazi ukuba umntwana, olala ixesha elide emini. Ukongezelela, unokufumana isisu, unokutshisa okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ubanda kakhulu.
Kwiminyaka yabantu abadala, i-atmosphere jikelele ekhaya, ubudlelwane phakathi kwabazali, isimo sengqondo sabazali kumntwana sidlala indima ebalulekileyo. Enyanisweni, ngexesha lokulila, umntwana angalungiselela ukukhutshwa komoya xa kwenzeka abazali bakhe:
- zifuna umntwana omningi (ukwenzela ukuba usuku lomntwana luququzelelwe ukulandelwa kwemigaqo yomama, uyise, ugogo, utata);
- Ngokuchasene noko, ayifuni nto evela kwintsana. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba "ukuphangwa" kaninzi kunokukhokelela ukwaneliseka kweemfuno zentsana (kunye nokuthoba kwayo), kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, uxinzelelo olunzulu kwiinkqubo zabo zeentlanzi. Umntwana uhlala efuna imida.
Indlela yokuzolalisa umntwana ngaphambi kokulala?
Okokuqala, ukuba uthetha malunga nosana olutsha, kufuneka uqede isizathu. Hlola imeko ye-diaper, yenza i-massage ye-tummy, uvuselele kakuhle igumbi, unyuke egumbini. Thetha nomntwana wakho ngelizwi elizolileyo, ungacatshukiswa yizinto zakhe. Hlaziya indlela umntwana alala ngayo emini, kwaye ixesha elidlulileyo lidlulileyo. Isithuba phakathi
Umntwana okhulileyo, umba wokubaluleka kombuso ubalulekile, nangona kunjalo, ngenye indlela. Abantwana abakhulileyo kufuneka baqondwe ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba baziphatha njani ngaphambi kokulala, akudingeki badlale baze bagxumeke, xa abazali bethetha ixesha lokulala, kufuneka bathotyelwe. Umntwana ulele ebuthongweni, mthembise ukuba xa ejamelana nomsebenzi wakhe, emva kokulala ufumana i-toy efunwayo, incwadi, uya apho umntwana sele efuna ukuya khona. Kodwa isicelo kufuneka sigcwaliseke, ngaphandle koko ixesha elizayo iingxoxo zakho zingasebenzi. Musa ukumemeza okanye ukwesabisa umntwana nonke, kuba isimo sengqondo esilungileyo ngaphambi kokulala ixesha kubaluleke kakhulu ekuphuculeni ubuntu bomntwana.