Abazali bomntwana bajonge phambili xa ekugqibeleni ekuthethwa ngaye okokuqala . Iingcali zithi akukho mihla enye yekhalenda yokuqalisa ukuthetha kwentetho kubantwana. Ezinye iintsana ziqala ukuthetha igama elithi "umama" xa zingakhange ziguqule iinyanga ezi-6-7 ubudala, ngelixa ezinye zicacele kude kube yiminyaka eyi-1.5-2 ubudala, ziphoqele abazali ukuba bakhathazeke.
Umntwana uthetha nini igama elithi "mama"?
Abantwana abaninzi (ngokweminye, 40%), igama lokuqala athi "umama", ngelixa abanye abantwana beqala ukuthetha kwabo nabanye abaneemfuno zeqela "banike" (njengabantwana 60%). Abazali bamele bazi ukuba umntwana uqala ukuthetha igama elithi "umama" xa zonke izigaba zokuphuhliswa kwentetho, kubandakanywa ukuxhamla, ukulingisa kwiintonation, ukuqonda izinto ezahlukeneyo ezihlukeneyo kunye nokuchaneka kwezivakalisi kuya kudlula.
Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, abantwana abaqala ekuqaleni (kwiinyanga eziyi-6-7) bathi igama elithi "umama" lenza okungazi, kwaye kuphela ngomnyaka umnqophiso womntwana womntwana xa efuna into ethile.
Iimeko eziphambili zentuthuko eqhelekileyo yentetho yomntwana yintlawulo efanelekileyo yokunxibelelana. Ukuphuhliswa kwentetho yomntwana iqulethwe ngamacandelo amabini: i-possessive yegama (ukuqonda intetho yomnye umntu) kunye nokuthetha ngokusebenzayo (kuthetha). Kwaye oko kubalulekile kukuba ngaphandle kokubonelela ngokwaneleyo kwesigama esisisigxina, intetho esebenzayo ayiyi kukhula.
Nangona kunjalo, oomama abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba kutheni umntwana wabo ophucukileyo akathethi "umama" nangayiphi na indlela. Apha, iimpawu zomntu ngamnye zentuthuko yomntwana inokwenzeka, enolwazi olunzulu olunzulu kwaye aluqali ukusebenzisa.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba athi "Mama"?
- Ukunxibelelana nomntwana, kufuneka uhambe kunye negama elithi "Mama": Umama uya, uMama uya kuzisa, njl.
- Dlala nomntwana ekuphuhliseni imidlalo yokuthetha: zifihla emva kwezandla zakho uze umbuze "Uphi umama?". Qiniseka ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba aphendule ngokufanelekileyo ngendumiso.
- Zama ukungaboni phambili iimfuno zomntwana, makhe afunde ukucela oko akufunayo, ngoko uya kuthetha ngokukhawuleza amagama akhe okuqala.