I-Etiquette idlala indima enkulu ekukhulisweni kwabantwana. Ndiyabulela kwimithetho ehlanganisiwe ukususela ebuntwaneni, ikhula ihloniphekile, kwaye iyaqonda indlela yokuziphatha ngayo kule nto okanye kuloo meko. Yonke into eyinkimbinkimbi iquka kuphela into yokuba umntwana kufuneka adlulise ngokufanelekileyo yonke imigaqo. Kungcono ukwenza oku kwifom edlalwayo. Imithetho eyenziwa ngumntwana kufuneka idunyiswe ukuze idibanise impumelelo yayo.
Imigaqo yokuziphatha etafileni
I-label yezingane ezisetafilini ayifani kakhulu nemithetho yabantu abadala. Musa ukuyilayisha ngaphezulu ngolwazi olungadingekile okwangoku, umzekelo, umahluko phakathi kweefoloki, iilazi kunye nokukwazi ukusebenzisa ummese. Umntwana kufuneka aqonde imithetho eyimfuneko, ukuze angadli nantoni na, ayizihlambululi kunye nomnye, kwaye akayi kugalela kwaye wanikela umsebenzi omncinci wokuhlambulula itafile, awayeyidlayo.
Phakathi kwemithetho ephambili kunokuphinda kuphawulwe:
- Ukuhlala phantsi kwetafile kwaye uqale ukutya kuyimfuneko kubo bonke;
- ngaphambi kokutya, kufuneka ubeke i-napkin emadolweni akho, ukuze ungadli izambatho zakho;
- ukutya kuyimfuneko ngomlomo ovaliweyo;
- awukwazi ukuthetha ngomlomo wakho ugcwele;
- unokunyuka etafileni emva kwemvume yabantu abadala okanye kunye nabo bonke abantu.
Abazali akumele baxelele umntwana le mithetho, kodwa babonise ukuzaliseka kwabo ngomzekelo wabo. Kungcono ukuba ukutya kunye nokutya kudluliselwe.
Umxholo wokuthetha wabantwana
Umbuzo wendlela yokuziphatha yabantwana kubangelona ngaphantsi kwayo yonke imigaqo yokuziphatha. Umntwana kufuneka afundiswe inhlonipho kubadala kwaye amfundise ukubonisa intlonelo ngomlomo. Ngokomzekelo, owokuqala ukuvakalisa abantu abadala, musa ukungena kwiintetho zabantu abadala, qi niqiniseke ukuba nithi kubo. Nangona kunjalo, inhlonipho kumxholo woqhagamshelwano, akumele abonise abadala kuphela, kodwa kunye noontanga bakhe, kunye nabantwana abangaphantsi kwakhe.
Umntwana kufanele azi amagama anjalo okubulela, njengokuba uyabulela kwaye nceda. Ukuba unetyala lento ethile, kufuneka axolise kulabo abacaphukisayo.
Isitifiketi seendwendwe kubantwana
Kwisakhelo sesitatimende seendwendwe, abazali kufuneka baxelele umntwana wabo ukuba baziphathe njani njengeendwendwe kunye neendwendwe ezihambeleyo. Imithetho ebalulekileyo yabantwana iquka oku kulandelayo:
- Iindwendwe akudingeki ukuba zihambe ngaphandle kwesimemo;
- musa ukuhlala ixesha elide kumcimbi;
- u tyelele kuphela ngesimo esihle;
- memela iindwendwe ukuba zifike ngaphambili;
- yamkelekile kakhulu iindwendwe kwaye uqaphele zonke iindwendwe.
Imidlalo yabantwana kwi-label
Kubantwana abancinci abangakakwazi ukufunda, imidlalo kunye neenganekwane zindlela efanelekileyo yokunikezela ngeendlela zokuziphatha. Ukubafunda ngamagorha abenza izinto ezingalunganga aze ahlupheke kuwo, abazali banceda umntwana ukuba aqonde imigangatho yesiseko yokuziphatha. Uncedo olufanelekileyo kulo mbandela yimithetho ephakanyisiwe kwifom ye-poet.
Ngeemidlalo, unokukhetha kwakhona amathoyizi kunye needodoli apho umntwana ngokwakhe angenza njengotitshala. Iimidlalo ezinjalo ziyamnandi kubantwana kuba akudingeki ukuba ngumfundi othobelayo.
Ukufundisa abantwana ukuziphatha ngokweminyaka yobudala kunokwenzeka kwakhona ngokudlala. Ngokomzekelo, abantwana banganikwa imigaqo ethile ebhaliweyo kwiphepha, kwaye ukuqhubeka komgaqo ngamnye kubantwana kuya kufuneka bafumane ngokuzimela.