Ukutshintshela kwirejista - ukubonisana kwabazali

Yonke inyane ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-3-4 ixhomekeke kakhulu kubazali nakwikhaya. Kodwa kungekudala okanye kamva udinga ukuhlalisana, ngoko ke abaninzi abantwana beli qaleni baqala ukuya kwi-nursergarten. Lo ngumzuzu ovuyisayo kakhulu kwiimvuthu, kunye nomama noyise. Ukuququzelela ukulungelelanisa kwi-kindergarten, kufuneka uqhelane nokubonisana kwabazali kule ngxaki.

Indlela yokwenza umntwana aye ensimini ngokuzonwabisa?

Ukuba umntwana wakho uya kwiqela lakhe yonke intsasa ngokukhala kunye neinyembezi, ungathathi ngokukhawuleza ukuthabatha amaxwebhu avela kwiziko lezingane. Kodwa ukulinda, ukuba bonke baya kudlula ngokwabo, akunjalo. Nayi ingcebiso engcono kakhulu yesazi sengqondo malunga nokulungelelaniswa komntwana enkulisa:

1. Ukushiya umntwana ekunyamekeleni utitshala, ungabonakali umdla wakho: unyana okanye intombi ifunde kakuhle iimvakalelo zakho. Thetha ngezwi elizolileyo, elithembayo, uchazela ukuba uya kuza emva kwakhe emva kweeyure ezimbalwa. Tshela umntwana ukuba uya kwenza izinto ezinomdla kwi-kindergarten: ukudweba, ukucula, ukudlala, ukuhamba, kunye nobunzima bonke aya kuncedwa ukuze aqonde utitshala nonesi.
2. Musa ukuzola kwaye ungathethi, nokuba umntwana usuqale ukudlala. Xa ubona ukuba unqabile ngokukhawuleza, uya kuba noxinzelelo olukhulu. Cinga ngokwakho isenzo sokuhlaziya - ukubamba esihlathini, ukumbathisa, ukutshintshana ngezandla - kwaye kwakhona ukhumbuze ukuba ekupheleni kosuku u-crumb uza kubuya ekhaya.
3. Ukubonisana ubuso nobuso kwingcali ekulungiseni umntwana kwi-kindergarten, abazali baxelelwa ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba urhulumente wengane yomntwana, nangaphambi kokuqala ukutyelela esikhungweni samabanga asemfundo, kufuneka ahambelane ngokusemgangathweni ngokusemandleni akhe kwinto elindeleyo kwiqela. Ukubeka ixesha elide okanye ukungabikho kokulala komhla akuvunyelwanga: unyana okanye intombi engenakwi-incinci iyakwazi ukungena kumaqhinga xa abazali bezama ukuwashiya entsimini okanye baphazamise nabanye abantwana.
4. Ukubonisana kwamamama kunye noodade ukulungelelanisa kwirejista kuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana unentlonelo, utyhafile okanye aphefumle. Ngokusoloko umxelela ukuba uyamthanda kwaye ungalokothi ulahle. Hlangana, cinga ngefayile, umzekelo, malunga ne-bunny evelele iqela kunye nezinye izilwanyana kwaye ibe nexesha elikhulu apho.
5. Ungashiyi umntwana wakho usuku lonke. Qala ngeeyure ezimbalwa kwaye ukwandisa kancane ubude bokuhlala.
6. Ukuba ujamelene nokulungelelaniswa okunzulu komntwana enkulisa, uya kufuna i-counseling psychotherapist. Uya kukuxelela oko kanye abazali ababenzileyo ngolu hlobo.